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i got this discibility that physically shows and i have a hard time getting to know girls and asking them out because i dont want to be the butt of the jokes because of my discibility and people staring at me what should i do?
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Honestly, only one thing to do, unless you want to go cruising around looking for another disabled girl who *might* be compatible with you. You need to just have some self-esteem. Walk up to them and KNOW that you are one hell of a catch. Take it from a grown woman, we LIKE men that portray confidence. You need to know that you are not your disability, you are YOU and you are one hell of a sexy beast. I swear, it works!
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I say you should just ignore those losers and be yourself. (=
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You know people will laugh at you your entire life, its because they are stupid. If the girls you like and evcentully work up the courage to tell them you like them, and they turn you down, dont be hurt. You see the only people with the discibility are the ones that luagh, you know why? Its because they cant see past your physical problem to the inner you, the only thing they should worry about. Trust me someday you will find a girl who wont laugh at your physical apperance but will love the inner you! If you are the the subject of the jokes, try to think of it as being center of attention, or if that doesnt work forget their oppinions, because they wont count in the real world!
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well if someone would go out with u it should be becuz of wats on the inside not outside. n e 1 who wouldnt go out with u cuz of how u look are ignorant and rude and needs 2 get over themself.
hope i helped!!
~*~kris~*~
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if shes nice she'd go out w/ u bc of whts inside. if she would turn u down bc of this then shes obviously not good enough for u. try to ask her out and see wht happens. hope i helped ~steph~
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go for it anyway. if you like a girl don't let your physical features scare you. they should like you for your insides... and if they don't they are just shallow losers and there are better people for you.
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