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My name is Brittany, but everyone calls me Bri or Britt. I'm 16 and live in Louisiana. Woo. I have a signifigant other, and it can be hard but we work it out. I like reading, poetry, dance, cheer, rock music, metal, etc. I dislike people who judge me because of my beliefs. I am a vegitarian and I have no religion that I follow, although I am a baptised catholic. All of my friends come to me for advice, and usually use it so I guess I'm a pretty good advice giver.

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if sperm touches your vagina,(& may have gone in a little..) is it possible to get pregnant?

Very possible. But it happens rarely.

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Okay I was hanging out with this one guy tonight.. We went driving around and then we went over to his co-workers house to play some games.. Well things "happened" i should say.. But.. there is one problem.. He has a GF!!!!!!!! I dont know what to do. I like him a lot and he says he likes me more than ne thing.. and then he was telling me what he feels when he is with me. then I asked him if he felt the same way with his gf and he said no.. I dont know what to do.. PLEASE help!!!

Honestly? I just think he wants to have sex with you. If he really felt these he would break it off with his girl and go with you. But he isn't doing that is he?

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I'm a thirteen year old female. Recently Iv'e started eating super healthy. When I'm at home eating the food there, or eating foods with nutrition information I'm fine, but whenever I eat at someone else's house or eat out and the food served looks fattening or sugary I panic. I don't know whats in it and so on. Sometimes I make up excuses for not eating things. My friends jokingly said I was anorexic before. That didn't bother me. However, now they have started to say it seriously and my own mum said I was eating in an anorexic way. I know people suffering from anorexia have poor self image, but I think I am at a perfect weight. Please tell me if I am anorexic or not. Honestly.

Just because you've turned into a total health freak (like myself) does NOT mean you're anorexic. You still eat, right? Ok then. As long as you're at least TRYING to down two to three good meals a day you're fine.

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does stretching help you grow taller?

No, but it does help strengthen your muscles and make you more flexible.

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how do u get crabs to go away??

Go to an OBGYN. She'll probably prescribe you medical ointment, but I'm not sure.

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ok so i av been off skl for a gd while now but before i left me and ma best mates were really really close but then when i was off a girl in ma class has like took them away fae me. i'm not jealous or anything cause like now that am bck at skl av been trying to get along with her but its as if ma best mates has forgot about me but they like phones me at the weekends though its just at skl they don't speak to me as much its really weird. can u help me

Tell them you're feeling neglected for this new girl. Try making more plans with them or YOU start a convo.

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Is a teacher allowed to bring down your grade because you forgot a book or a packet that you need for that class?

Yes, they are. if it's a required material then they can give you detention or take points from your daily grade.

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is it better to do crunches all at the same time, but like do 20 crunches then do 20 crunches and so on.. or do it throughout the day? i do my crunches at the same time and do about 60 crunches, but i rest in between about a minute

do some in the morning, and then some in the evening. that way you aren't overworking your body and it has time to adjust.

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ok i wrote like last month about this boy who called me fat and said he hated me and everything... but he IMed the other day and he said sorry and that he would never do it again and i dont know what i should do because i really like him but i dont wanna get hurt again. i told him i would think about forgiving him but i seriously dont know what to do... help! i rate good! *unless its a stupid answer*

You never know if he's going to hurt you again. Give him a second chance, and if it happens again give up on it. He isn't worth it.

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I have AIM, and I have a buddyprofile, I was wondering if anyone knew of any Kool letter, number, comma, things that make symbols, or gestures, or just funny stuff. If you know of a website could you help me please! Thnxs a bunch

www.hotquotes.com ?

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Where can you get free counters that can tell you how many people were at your website today and how many total?

www.sitemeter.com

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Im 13 and I am a female. I have the guy that I like and he likes me. One problem is that he lives in Florida and I live in Alabama. The second problem is he is 17 and my mom says that he is to old for me. I really like him and I am willing to do anything. Should I follow my heart or do what my mom says is right and just forget about him???

Do what your heart tells you to do. But honestly, a 17 year old guy is pretty mature, and seeing as you're only 13.. You probably aren't completely mature yet. Do you think you can trust him enough to know he won't cheat on you wayyyy over there

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I am asian, and I think my nose is quite broad and quite flat. Compared to others, it is not that bad, but I'm just not satisfied with the look of it. I want something like the nose of Lucy Liu, it has a prominent bridge and it is narrow.

The thing is, I need to ask the permission of my mom! We are not close, and I think I'm (middle child) her least fav. child out of her 5 children.
I think I have enough money in the bank to pay for my own beauty enhancement, and I'm old enough to have rhinoplasty because I'm turning 21 in July.

Pls. give me tips and strategies so that she will say yes!

If you're 20 years old you can make decisions for yourself. You're an adult. Your mother has no say so in stopping you from feeling good about the way you look.

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There's a 'rock event' (like a disco but with rock music) that goes on in my town every month or so, and most of my mates go to it. Out of the seven of us, five go (I don't). This place has a really bad rep. and most people who go there drink, smoke and do drugs, but of course my friends parents have NO IDEA about this. All of my five friends who go have gotten into smoking, and two of them are serious binge drinkers. One guy I know but am not great friends with also goes to this place and has gotten into illegal drugs, as has one girl I was kinda 'hi in the hallway' friends with, and she got expelled and charged by the police for it. Now my problem is, I will NOT stand by and watch my friends slowly kill themselves with a load of alcohol, drugs and cigarettes, but how can I stop them? I can't say anything about how dangerous it is because that's like preaching and they know the dangers but don't care. I am thinking of breaking friends with them...three of them are moving into my house in a couple of months and I have told the two of them moving in with me that smoke and drink that they can forget moving in if they think they can smoke in my house and they just laughed. I don't want to preach and I know if they don't want to stop I can't make them...but what do you think I should do? I am NOT standing by and watching them die. There's also the added problem that I am extremely asthmatic and being in a house with smokers would (I've checked this with a doctor) kill me within a month, but my friends won't listen to this either. I love them all loads but I am not putting up with this any more and I am not putting my life on the line because they are too selfish to stop smoking. CAN I make them see sense? Or should I just break friends and move on?
Thanks!!

Tell them you're seriously scared. Start leaving little information packets and "Nicorette" patches in places you know they'll find them. Eventually they'll get the picture and use them.

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Hi...ummm I just started a make-up buisness where people can tell me what flavor or color of any kind of make-up (like lip stick, gloss, etc.)
and I really need the money! Does anyone know how I can get people to know about and buy my products? I'll rate high!!! Thanks!

Pass out fliers around your school and organizations you're in

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sorry i didnt no what this went under, so i put it under friendship.

anyways, im going to my friends sleepover tonight and if i stay up most of the night/all night then i get a headache, but the thing is, i think everyone is going 2 stay up all night and i dont want to be the only one asleep, while everone is having fun.

has anyone got anything i could do to help me not get headaches??

Take some advil right before you leave your house to go.

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umm my friend who isnt really now used to abuse me and my other friends.. when i finally got the guts to tell her to stop she gets mad... she hits u so hard and it makes you feel like you want to die. shes hurt a lot of my other friends to and she even hurts guyys=.. well so anyways she hit me really hard on the head and i didnt say anything so then she says i dont think she felt that and kills me with two more slaps... so i went home crying and of course my parents fournd out. my mom accualy went over and talked to them. she doesnt even care and now i think she is going to tell everyone else a whole different story even though i have witnesses. also she is friends with most of my other friends too even though im better friends with them then she is. i am just scared that no one will believe me or she might accually hurt me again. im so scared i dont even no wat to do now... HELP!!!

If she keeps bullying you, it's best to go to a counselor and talk to them. They WILL help you. They'd actually probably put her in Anger Mangament or something. And you shouldn't worry about what anyone else thinks. It only matters what you think about yourself.

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What are the best excersises and best ways to excercise for a 13 year old in middle school that wants a flat stomach, keep a flat stomach, and build some muscle? And how often should I excersise?

do crunches and sit ups. it'll flatten out your tummy. start at 50. stay at 50 for a week, then move up an extra 50 every week you complete.(i.e.- - 1st week:5-;; 2nd: 100;; 3rd: 150.. you get the idea)

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my boyfriend said something really mean to me about the way i look earlier today on the phone. i hung up on him and he keeps calling back and i wont answer. he left a message saying "if you ever stop being mad at me call me, ill understand if you dont though" i want to call him back...what should i say?

what exactly did he say? apparently he feels really bad about it to constantly call you back and hope you'll answer. talk it out with him and tell him it hurt your feelings.

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ok so i was making cookies, then i discovered that we had no butter. can you substitute oil for butter? if you can how much oil for 1 stick [1/2 cup] of butter?
thanks

no, you cannot sub. oil for butter. it would mess up your cookies bad.

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