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I havent seen my best friend in less then a week and already I miss him sooo much. we only live about 20 mins away from eachother but i wish that I could see him more often.I heard that last weekend when i saw him i was supposed to get asked our by him and he didnt ask me out? why not.I really want to go out with him really bad but I dont want to ask him about it. I love him soo much!And I kno that he loves me. We always make out and shit when we see eachother but it has never gotten past that.I want to go farther with him bc I think that it is right too do. I think that he would but I dont want him to turn me down. We used to talk about doing more but we never have actually done more. I used to think about having sex with him and to be honest I really want to. He isnt a virgin and I am. I just want to be alone with him so that we can talk and be more serious with eachother. What should I do? How do I bring it up to him ?
*thanks sami (link)
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well if you're ready then talk down sit with him and if he doesn't visit invite him.If he turns you down thats not a big deal I mean sex is a big step you don't want to be pushin him into doin something he doesn't want to.So, sit down with him and talk and maybe it'll help.Happy Holidays!!!!!!!
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do you think i should go out with matt or wait for connor?
lost girl
aka-johanna
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I think you should follow your heart which is what I did with you know who so if you like connor go for it or same thing with matt hope I helped and a Merry x- mas
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I am a 13 year old girl. My boyfriend and I have been going out for a while and we are both completely devoted to each other, trust each other and love each other very much. We are thinking about having sex with each other but I am not totally sure whether I should. It isn't my age that is worrying me, it's more the fact that I'm worried about him seeing my body and if I get it wrong or something. What should I do? Should I sleep with him? (link)
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No even if you love him it isn't the right thing to do when you're 13. I know you're not concerned about it but if you get pregnant or something you could die cuz of it. I know it isn't very positive but that's the truth. sex at you're age really isn't good for you...I'm sorry if I'm hurtin you're feelings but this is the advice I would give to you.Oh and Merry X-mas
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I'm 6'11" 430lbs Male. I need a plan for weight loss, and i need to lose it soon. My doctor has suggested surgery, and i do not want to go there until i absoulty have to. It is literally killing me. Please give me some low cost solutions on losing weight. Thanks. (link)
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My dad took this diet and it helped him a lot.It's called the bacon diet you have for breakfast:2 pieces of bacon and egg or 1 egg and either half a grapefruit or 8oz. of grapefruit juice, lunch:salad either butter or ranch dressing, any type of meat, and the grapefruit options,dinner:same as lunch
PS.you have to have salad, only water and grapefruit juice, cut down on coffee,no bread, and I think that's itHope this helps and Merry X-mas
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okay well i really dont have any clue wat 2 do because i like this kid and one day he asked me out but then he just wanted to be friends. well i wanst in a relationship so i didnt care. But one day i saw him and i totally like him again!! i think about him aklot to. i have no clue wat 2 do! help!
thanks signed confused (link)
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Spend time with him and maybe he'll loosen up trust me SoNuLiCiOuSsS told me this and it worked and now I'm withe the guy of my dreams so talk to him spend time it'll pay off hopefully.Merry X-mas!!!!!!!
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i've been with my boyfriend for 19 months and i love him more than anything. the other day i had a dream i was making out with this hot kid at school. does this mean anything? by the way, this is like the 3rd or 4th dream i've had of this kid. (link)
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If you love him you love him don't let a dream mess up your relationship.Merry X-mas
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im in love with this guy. weve been going out for almost 9 months. its real love, not just your average 14 year old junk. anyway.. i just totally dont feel like i deserve him. hes way too good for me. he loves me and he wants to be with me, but i just want the best for him. last night i broke up with him because i think he can do so much better. i want him to be with someone that does deserve him. i cant stop crying and i stole his cape (dont ask) and im attached to it. i miss him so much. but weve broken up and gotten back together so many times, it wouldnt be fair if i got back with him now. what should i do? please help me! (link)
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I used to and I still feel this way about someone but it's all in your head call him and calmly tell that you thought he needs someone more than you so he'll understand when I broke up with my first boyfriend I didn't give an explanation and he was up my butt about it. so if you do some thinking you might figure out that you love him...Merry X-mas
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does anyone no how the hair curlers work ..like the ones that you get at like cvs. or rite aid. like tha one you put in ur hair because whenever i try to put them in they end up falling and it doesnt even really curll... so please help me andtell me how to put the curlers in =) alright thanks a bunch! (link)
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I for one I don't like hair curlers cuz it turns out as small puffy curls so I prefer the curling iron.If your trying to curl it up then you know how and if your tryin to get it springy then you take a small amount of hair put the clasp at the top pull it down gently to the rim thne bring it horizontical then curl it in.Hope I helped with your hair problem
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Well, My parents bicker and fight about things that they shouldn't. My dad is being a real prick and my step mom ends up in tears. It pisses me off why he has to be a real ass, but I am always told to "mind my own business" or to "shut-up". I get very stressed out and I hate it! It pisses me the F*** off and I have no say in anything that goes on. So, this is the part where you throw advice my way :-/ (link)
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If they won't let you in it talk to someone and if you don't trust that person write it in a diary. I have a diary and I let out a lot of emotions in it. Diaries hilp a lot so either do one of those or something else.I hope my advice helped!!!
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hi there is this one guy in school and we both like eachother. He asked me out and I wanna say yes but I dont know what people will say because I am white and he is black,i'm not racist or anything I am just afraid of what ppl will say.My friend says it shouldnt matter and i dont think it should either but the other side of me is saying don't date him because of what ppl say
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If you really like him then go out with him it doesn't matter show other ppl its okay and some ppl might look up to you and start mixing just do what you want
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okay..theres this 1 spot on my head thats hurting like really badly!! its swollen and hurts whenever i touch it just like when my hair hits it, it starts to hurt. Any 1 have any idea what it might be??And should i ask my mom to take me to the doctor? thanx
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if you don't know what it is and it's really irratating you should go to the doctor or who knows you could have a concussion so tell and you'll feel better inside and out lolz!!!!!!!!
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i broke up with my boyfriend like a month ago and i felt really low and i slit my wrists with exes on one arm and i really regret doing it now, i mean nobody would ever guess that i would be cutting myself. in gym class some of my friends asked what happened and i told them it was nothing but i think they are going to tell someone. i really don't want to talk to anyone about it because i stopped and it's not a problem anymore. i know now that it wasn't the best way to deal with things but now everytime i need to wear a t-shirt people notice my arm, and theres scars that won't go away. i tried putting coverup and stuff on it [yea i know im a retard lol] but they are really noticeable and i'm scared that if my parents find out they'll get really mad and not trust me anymore. i'm just really confused. what should i do?? (link)
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I have been hurt also nut I deal with it just like you should I'm not saying it was stupid I'm just saying let your feelings out in a healthy way.Look you've probably heard the saying time heals all well your arms will heal eventually but for now be faithful and if you're gonna hide it with makeup hopefully your good at it lolz!!!!!!!!!!Hope your arms heal
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okay so im a 16 year old girl who likes a 14 year old boy, I honestly dont care what people think about it, but thats not myproblem. my problem is, i like him a lot, and hes a really friendly guy and i met him not too long ago so yeah but i cant tell if theres anything there yet, like, im friends with his sister, and ill call for his sister to talk to her, and the guy i like will pick up and talk to me too...and i asked his sister if he always does that, as in pick up the phone and talk to her friends at the same time she is, and she said, hes NEVER done that before, so i thought that was really cool, and so yeah, i went to a party at his house yesterday a christmas party and everyyyyone was there, which was a lot of fun, so we were hanging out, and i told his sister that i was gonna put my jacket in her room, so i ran upstairs and 10 girls followed me, and it was really crowded up stairs like REALLY crowded, and then adults came up too so i was like stuck, and my someone opens the guy that i likes door, and he kinda looks out and sees me and then the door closed, you hear him run and open the door and he goes "JENN!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!" and i was like HEYYY! and then we chilled for the ENTIRE night, we were up in his room just laughing at everything possible he was shooting his air soft gun at kids that botherd him we were just being dumb lol, then we went up to his attic thing where he has this HUGE car racing thing set up and everyone was up there, and me and him were talking and he kept on looking at me, a lot, he was just looking at me and stuff, and yeah, so thats how it was the whole night, and then at the very end we were on his trampoline and i had to go so i jumped off cuz he was talking to everyone, and he goes "JENN!" and jumps off and hugs me and then he was like "ill probably see you in a year" and im like " DUDE...SLEEPOVER REMEMBER?!" and he was like OH YEAH! and so yeah, cuz were ALL having a sleep over like 30538304 of us together so itll be a lot of fun but what my question is, is do you think there is ANYTHING there?? because i mean i know you guys dont know him or me, but hes 14 and im 16. I really like him and all and hes just a REALLY nice guy, so i dontknow if hes just REALLY nice and always happy to see me and talk to me on the phone or if he has a lil sumthin for me....oh, and he broke up with his gf 2 weeks ago and he said that he found out that 20 girls like him at his school and i was like "well are you gonna ask one of em out" and he was like " I dont kno, theres this one that i might but i dont know what the concept of it is, like i dont get it* and im like * well...if you want her to be your GF then you ask her to be your gf...if you want her to just go out on a date with you, then you just go out on a date* and he was like * I dont know, they all want me to be their bf* and i was like * well do what you wanna do :) its up to you* and he was liek * yeahh* and so yeah, he still hasnt asked her out or anything so HELP ME PLEASEEE I dont know what i should do, i really like him (link)
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I think you should ask him out or wait til he will and if it takes more than 3 times you see him ask him out your self and if you don't you'll be sorry unless he asks you out in the future well I'm just another girl like you with the same problem so I'll give you the advice somone gave to me GO FOR IT!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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i think i might have breast cancer. there is a lump in my breast and i don't know how to tell my parents or my boyfriend. i dont want to go to the doctor until i am for sure that i might have it. I don't know what to do! please help me!!! (link)
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It isn't right to not tell cuz if you have breast cancer it's not good. Tell somebody like your mom they're your family they'll always except you no matter what!
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i used to go out with this guy. he wasnt exactly a loser but some ppl thought he was. so i got really insecure about it and stupidly dumped him. this happened about 4 weeks ago. lately i have started to regret dumping him and i miss him so much!! should i tell him this? (link)
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If you love him or really like him just ignore everyone else just think that they're b****es for not knowing how sweet or funny or whatever you like about him believe me i've been through with this. So, just tell them suck on these and stick up your middle finger(and your thumb)!!!!!!!
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Well, about four years ago, my father divorced my mother. It took a little over three years for the divorce to go through. During that time, my father treated me like crap. He was constantly yelling at me, picking on me, and just making me completely miserable. On time, he told his family that I should go to fat camp, and they all laughed at me. He's called me "fat, ugly, stupid, and a piece of sh**." I tried running away, but he caught me, and dragged me back. He also dropped me off on the side of a highway in the middle of winter, and drove off. He lead me to become so depressed, I would hurt myself.
Their divorce was finaliazed, but we had to move our of our house and move in with my grandma. I still visit him on Fridays and Sundays. He's been making us look at houses for him, which makes me really upset. He won't support us at all because he claims he has no money, but he owns his own business, and I've done some detective work, and found out how much he makes. I hate going with him because all we do is look at houses, and it bothers me because we had to move out of our house. My 16th birthday was in September and not one person from his side of the family realized how old I was. My father didn't even have a cake for me. This was one of the most important birthdays for a girl, and he totally ignored it. He just left yesterday to go with his girlfriend to Florida, and didn't even invite us, and also waited until the night before to tell us he was going. He doesn't plan on seeing us when he moves to Florida in a couple of years. Should I just stop goign with him? I'm 16-years-old, and I would rather spend my Friday nights with my friends. I want to have a father, but not one that makes me feel so crappy. What should I do? Should I continue to visit him for the sake of having a father, or should I just forget about him? Thank you so much for helping! (link)
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That's so wrong I was learning in family life that that is verbal and emotional abuse.If I were you I'd talk to your guidance councelor at school cuz that's just wrong
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