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Hello im piglet aka katie/kate

I though if i tell you abit about myself then you mite feel more comftable talking to me and asking me questions ........

im 18yr's of age i like to spend alot of time with my boyfriend he's like my best mate i can tell him anythink witch i think is important i live in the uk(england)dorset i live with my nan and grandad my mum beet me up and kicked me out iv not had it easy .......

ok so iv told you abit about me.......

if you ever need advice or just someone you can talk to about anythink i will try to help you can e-mail me of if you have live messenger then add me to you's and we can chat about what's bothering you.......

you should never keep your proble's or worry's locked up no matter how big or small you should alway's find someone to talk to wether it be a family member a friend or me don't lock thing's away talk about them.......

i will always answer any questions left for me and thats a promise .......

hope to here from some of you soon
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p.s i no it says my favorite categories but you guestion dose'nt have to be any of them im here to help and i will do my best


E-mail: katie.piglet804@hotmail.co.uk
Gender: Female
Location: pool in dorset uk
Age: 18
MSN: katie.piglet804@hotmail.co.uk
Member Since: October 9, 2006
Answers: 63
Last Update: December 25, 2006
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I'm a virgin. I'm 15. Every time i talk to my boyfriend about sex, he wants me to be on top. I guess because he's really tall this is more comfortable for him. But for my first time, I think it would be a little weird to have to make all the moves, considering he's NOT a virgin. I'm afraid about being on top for my first time. I'm afraid that once I feel pain I'll tense up and pull him out of me....that would me a totall mood killer...I don't even know what my question is..I guess I'm just looking for comments or what not.
-Yes, I am ready for sex so telling me I must not be ready isn't going to be any help to me-
(I'll add adittional information later if anyone needs me to) (link)
well iv read the other answers and im not going to tell u to go on the bottom i just want to say talk to your boyfriend about how yuor feeling about being on top and with it being your first time im sure he will understand (if he no's) but i will tell you when me and my boyfriend of 2years first had sex i went on top and i did have to do all the work he did alot of it aswel good luck hope this helps


What are some things guys do when they like a girl? Not like what they do to their girlfriend, but what they do to flirt with someone they like and want to notice them. Also, what do guys really like in girls. (Answer truthfully please)

Thanks in advance. (link)
guys all have differnt taest in girls but just be yourself guys tend to make it clear by doing alsorts of thing like showing off giving you alot of eye contact little things you will pick up on so keep a look out for them little things ok


In class yesterday I was sitting next to a girl who I don't really know, and she rolled her sleeve up and I saw she had cuts all up her arm, and that some of them were bleeding. She didn't know that I saw. Now I don't know this girl at all, but I do know one of her flatmates a bit. Should I speak to her flatmate and see if she knows this girl is cutting herself? Cos I think her flatmate could help her much more than I could.
Thanks! (link)
yes you should tell her flat mate just incase this girl takes it to far one day and really hurts herself but you could also try becomeing her friend aswell and talk to her maybe she just needs someone to talk to and that purson could be you just have a think about it good luck x x x


What are really fun hings to do with friends? not too many people just like 4-6. It has to make me seem like a reall cute sweet and fun girl. What can I do? How do i act? What do i wear? (link)
just be you dont change if there you real friends thay will like you for you


How far have you gone for your other half, I am not asking what you are willing to do, I am asking what have you done for him or for her. Like surprises, money spent, romantic places or trips. (link)
well iv spent alot of money on my boyfriend and iv done alot for him as he has for me but is not about how much u can or cnt spend on him/her it always the though that counts and just being there for that purson when they need you most good luck with what ever it is you tryin 2 do x x x


me and my boyfriend have been dating for like 3 years and well latly if feels like he doent want oto be with me. like if we get a chance to be alone or just us he always has someone come over or somehting and early in the week i asked him to come over for the day on sat. and he said he'd think about it now is going to pplay football and im so mad at him and i was so upset last night i jsut dont know what to do. and with trying to talk to him i dont know what ot say. please help. (link)
well its not much but uv been together 3yr just tell him how you feel and whats makeing you feel that way but sometimes people grow apart friends, family, boyfriend and girlfriends its just the way life is sometimes crap i no but i think you jst need to talk godd luck x x x
let me no how u get on katie.piglet804@hotmail.co.uk


how do i stand up for myself at school .. im the type of person that keeps it all inside until i freak out because i get so mad. (link)
i wood like to say if someone is bothering you give them a good smack but DONT that would make you the one in the rong and make you just as bad as them i think you jst need to find someone you can talk to maybe a best friend a family member or if you like u can email me if you go onto my column (pigle) my email address is on there or if you have live messenger add me to your and when we are online witch i am most nights then we can yalk more about whats bothering you x x x


whenever i shave my legs, i get these dots on my legs. no, not razor burn or anything they're not red, they're like kinda black dots. what can i do to make these go away? (i use a gillette daisy disposable razor and i just got it, so its not old or anything. and i use skintimate raspberry rain shaving gel, if that helps) thankss (link)
if it itchy or sore it could b the raspberry shaving gel i get the same if i use somethink fruity so i jst use dove 3in1 mosduriser its like a creame bath wash thing but it works for me try it see how u get on

p.s dnt use anythink purffume it could make it worse soz if me spellin is crap lol


ok so...my boyfriend and i have been together for a year and a half and we have sex plain and simple. but lately it seems like every time we do he rips me maybe??? if that's what it is...is it normal for that to happen repeatedly if we're having sex twice a week? and if that's not what it is basically i bleed a VERY little tiny bit so what could that be?

any advice is helpful. thank you so much!

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i think the best thing you can do is go and see your doctor or if your abit shy ring up and ask but for somethink like that you will most likey have to go in and see your doctor but ring and ask first if your shy good luck


i just found out that my nan might be moving to spain soon bcoz shes just been made redundent. anyway my mum wants me my brother and my step dad to move out there, but i dont want to move there bcoz i just got settled in2 my school, i have loads of mates nd everything, nd im really happy living here, plus i wont be able 2 see my dad that often and its my mums dream 2 live in spain.
i dont really want 2 talk 2 her bcoz she'll be all upset and will blame everything on me and i dont want her 2 be like that!! please help!!!! (link)
well i fell for you well you could got but still stay in contact with all you friends + you can come back her for hoildays + stay with your dad + see all your mates or if you wanted to you could stay here + live with your dad try talkin to your mum she mite understand if you were eavein school soon you could always spend 6month here + 6 in spain or if youv got awile before you leave school you could stay here with your dad well you finsh school then do the hole 6month thing good luck let me now how you get on
katie.piglet804@hotmail.co.uk or if u have live messnger then add me n let me no how you get on x x x


I am currently "going out" with a 6th grader and I am an 8th grader. I normally like taller guys, but hes shorter. and hes really sweet.cute. and i like him a lot. but im so self concious and i worry too much about what other people think
is it too weird?
please give me honest opinions. (link)
o dont think it matters at all that hes a 6th grader and your an 8th aslong as your happy then why should you care what other people think if anyone says anythink just say year but im happy good luck with it all if youd like to talk more e.mail me or iv got msn messanger if u wana talk any time bout anythink big or small

katie.piglet804@hotmail.co.uk


15/m/Missouri
I still really like my exgirlfriend- my nextdoor neighbor whose a very religious girl- but I think she deserves way better than me. Like, once she was at my house helping look after my lil sister. When my sis was in bed I started messing around with her and pulled her down on top of me when I was laying on the couch. To put it bluntly, I was horny and started pressing my cock into her genitals. I also nearly took off her bra, but she stopped me. She deserves someone that will respect her more than that. It makes me look bad that I nearly violated her. But you know what makes me look worse? What happened with one of my other girl friends. We were making out of her bed and she was topless. I was grabbing her boobs and rubbing them and she wasn't gonna stop me. She even had her hand down the back of my pants. Well, I made myself quit because my ex was on the back of my mind the whole time. I like that my ex was bold enough to stop me. She's got morals. But my friend obviously doesn't. I want to be better. I want to raise my grades and behave better and control my temper etc so maybe someday I'll actually be worthy of going out with my ex again. But by then she'll probably have moved on. It sucks to want her so bad and know that I can't have her. I'd like to go out with other girls, one in particular, but I'm not sure if it's a good idea. My ex and I broke up because I went away for the summer... Her brother convinced her I was cheating on her, but I wasn't... She knows that now and we're "just friends". Is that how it should stay? (link)
well i see what your saying i think you should talk to this girl about how your feeling that you dont want to push her + u respect her + her religon try to prove to her how much she means to you like i take it she nos your doing things with other well you need to stop that i think you should show her its not all about sex + foreplay you need to show her you cear like ask her round to watch a d.v.d but dont come on to her at all leave it up to her but talk with her good luck hope it works out for you


16/f

ok so this has never happened to me... I'm not one to act like this AT ALL.

I have the most amazing boyfriend(17) ever. He is perfect for me in every way.

I think about him every second of the day and at night.. I stay up for 2-3 hours thinking about him. Whenever I don't see him for a few days I miss him so much I cry (sad, I know).

Sometimes he'll drive across town just to see me for 10 minutes then, 1 minute after he leaves he'll call me just to tell me he misses me.

Every time I'm with him everything seems to fit just right (like a puzzle, he says). We are so comfortable with eachother it's unreal. I feel like I've known him forever even though we've only been dating a few months.
(he told me he feels the same about me)


What's going on with me? I feel like I'm going crazy! (link)
well im happy for you i think youv just found your first love + its going well for you dont worry just be happy + good luck x x x


I am 14 years old. I have tried to insert a tampon but it feels weird and it wont go in all the way!I dont know what to do and i dont know what im doing wrong. (link)
its hard to tell you how to put a tampon in but alls i do no is if you can feel it then your doin it rong i wood have to no what tipe you are tryin to use be for i could tell you what your doin rong my e.mail address is on my advice column or if u have msn messenger den add me and we can talk bout you proble you will find my advice column under the name piglet if not den my address is katie.piglet804@hotmail.co.uk xx


I've been having sex for about 4 months now and it's been great. The last two times i did though it really hurt..not becuase there wasn't enough lube or anything but it felt like really painful afterwards..what could be the cause of this? Has anyone experienced this? (link)
yes iv been with my boy friend for 2yr now we were togrthrt almost 1yr befor we had sex together and like you it was good but then i stared to get a sharp pain but you should ask your partner to stop and i advise you go to the doctors or if you feel inbaressed witch is normal just ring up your doctors and ask over the phone if there is anythink you can do without having to go to your doctors or maybe get a friend to ring up on your behalf good luck


hey i always hear men and stuff always talking about hott girls they had sex with and stuff and how they were shaven and everything...well do junior high boys and around that age really care if a girl shaves down there? because i know people my age are having sex now. (link)
only ever do what you want to do and what feels right to you dont ever do anythink that dosent feel right to you xxx


everyone always says that you should be totally comfortable before you have sex, and that if youre nervous youre not ready.. but then people always say youre gonna be nervous your first time. so how can you tell? (link)
yes you should be comfortable when havein sex and comfortable with who you are haveing sex with yes you will be nervous for your first incounter with sex but you will no it feels right but dont be pushed in to anythink you dont want to do and allways use a condom or some kind of protshion good luck x


I'm a 15/f and swim quite alot and I do weight lifting. I'm in good shape and have a ntaurally high metabolism... I do eat alot 'cause I swim so much. Below my belly button I have a little bit of fat that just won't go away. I do a ton of crunches every day and I've even starved myself for a few days and stuff but it just won't go away, any suggestions on how to lose that lil flab of fat? (link)
i was talkin to my boyfriends mate who is a fitness traner and he said you maybe do to much exsersiz your not giving your body time to grow and ejust dont no if this will help but no harm in trying good luck


I love Matt.We have been together for 4 years. Were both 22 years old.He is my love,my life, literally.We had a child together 2 years ago and gave him up for adoption right after i had him.I chose not to see his face after i gave birth for i might want to keep him.I did this because i know that i couldnt afford a child and i didnt want to put him through tough times.We found the perfect family and he is theirs now.We never told anybody about this and now its starting to bother me.im not getting into detail but Matt has decided that he feels married and doesnt want me anymore.Do you know how bad it hurts to hear that from someone that you would take your life for? Our house got raided by the swat team for marijuana and Matt is getting sentenced on 10/20/06. Im scared that he is trying to get rid of me before this happens.And his friends have no respect for me.They all diss women and make me feel like a piece of crap.Im deeply depressed and i am afraid that i need help.All i want is matt.I cant eat, sleep, barely talk.I have no strive for life.He says im holding him back!from what? HE IS A FELON.He cant really do ANYTHING.I just gave him 1200 cash in september for his birthday so he could buy the sr20det engine from Japan.I love him so much.I need help before i hurt someone.Everyone says,Jes you can do better you dont deserve to be called retarted,stupid,annoying,dumb,idiot,etc.from the love of my life.He keeps kicking me out of the house and i just cant leave.Now he is going to buy a half a million dollar house with the guys that put me down.How can someone fall out of love like that.Our sex life is great.He wont ever get better than me(and i say that because i know that im his"fit")alright im done.THanks (link)
hiya jess i understand that matt is the love of my life iv only been with my boyfriend for 2years + thats along time to me my boyfriend had a bike crash in april this year + he almost died i swar if he died i would kill myself but he live + doin well he cant walk but i still love him the same i think you are very depressed witch i think you no yourself you've been through alot together i think thats why your finding it hard to let go even tho deep down you no the best thihg to do would be to let go think if you still had your little boy you would have walked out along time ago for the sake of your baby i dnt no if any of this will help but stay strong if u would like to e.mail me my address is katie.piglet804@hotmail.co.uk good luck i wish you all the best in the end i hope you do whats right for you x x x


Does anybody know any good affordable sites to getting your ged online or diploma or even highschool online please answer i need help? (link)
i dont no how much this will help but iv seen a websit advtised on tv give it ago hope it will help www.ics.tv good luck




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