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i just found out that my nan might be moving to spain soon bcoz shes just been made redundent. anyway my mum wants me my brother and my step dad to move out there, but i dont want to move there bcoz i just got settled in2 my school, i have loads of mates nd everything, nd im really happy living here, plus i wont be able 2 see my dad that often and its my mums dream 2 live in spain.
i dont really want 2 talk 2 her bcoz she'll be all upset and will blame everything on me and i dont want her 2 be like that!! please help!!!!
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Well, sorry to break it to you, but there's really nothing you can do. Your mother's the power holder and the money maker in the house, so if she wants to move, you sort of have to move with her.
What you can do is instead of staying with your mother, why not stay with your father so you'd get to see him alot more and also get to stay where you are and get to hang out with all your friends and everything? And then during the summer, you could visit your mother and family and spend the summer with them in Spain.
But if you don't want that option, then I suggest that before you move, get all your friends emails and phone numbers and everything so you can keep in contact with them, and plus, you can always visit your dad and your friends every summer. Or you can do what some kids do and they live a certain amount of months in one place, and then a certain amount of months in another and just go back and forth.
So just think out those options, and decide which one you really feel like doing more and will make you happier.
I hope I helped.
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well i fell for you well you could got but still stay in contact with all you friends + you can come back her for hoildays + stay with your dad + see all your mates or if you wanted to you could stay here + live with your dad try talkin to your mum she mite understand if you were eavein school soon you could always spend 6month here + 6 in spain or if youv got awile before you leave school you could stay here with your dad well you finsh school then do the hole 6month thing good luck let me now how you get on
katie.piglet804@hotmail.co.uk or if u have live messnger then add me n let me no how you get on x x x
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