me and my boyfriend have been dating for like 3 years and well latly if feels like he doent want oto be with me. like if we get a chance to be alone or just us he always has someone come over or somehting and early in the week i asked him to come over for the day on sat. and he said he'd think about it now is going to pplay football and im so mad at him and i was so upset last night i jsut dont know what to do. and with trying to talk to him i dont know what ot say. please help.
But the important thing to remember is that both parties in a relationship need space. Don't push a relationship to the extent where it seems to him like you're breathing down his neck. It doesn't seem like you're in that kinda situation now, but just words of advice :)
Don't be mad. If you want to discuss this with him, do it when you're calm and ready to tell him what you wish he'd do, and tell him how much his actions displease or hurt you. And make clear to him that you'd like your time together to be special and with him alone.
piglet answered Friday October 13 2006, 3:59 pm: well its not much but uv been together 3yr just tell him how you feel and whats makeing you feel that way but sometimes people grow apart friends, family, boyfriend and girlfriends its just the way life is sometimes crap i no but i think you jst need to talk godd luck x x x
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