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pain?


Question Posted Monday October 9 2006, 11:30 pm

I've been having sex for about 4 months now and it's been great. The last two times i did though it really hurt..not becuase there wasn't enough lube or anything but it felt like really painful afterwards..what could be the cause of this? Has anyone experienced this?

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karisue answered Sunday October 15 2006, 6:19 pm:
a few times my boyfriend & i have had sex to where it was unbearable pain afterwards, but that was only because he went harder, or he pushed it farther up in me.
if your boyfriend did the same, then thats the cause of the pain.
but if you two had normal sex like you always do, you could have an infection.
my best advice would be to see a doctor if the pain continues..

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Vikki27 answered Friday October 13 2006, 5:39 pm:
I have the same problem. My partner and I have been together 3 and a half years now and been sleeping together around 3 years. Over the last year, sex has become very painful, to the point we can't really do it any more.

I'm going to the doctor about this next week and I would recommend you do the same. Painful sex can be a symptom of muscular tightening (can be the result of a condition called Vaginismus) or an infection and any number of other things so it is always worth checking. When it comes to that area of your body, you can never be too careful.

Perhaps it would be a good idea to request a smear test. This way, the doctor or a gynaecologist can ensure there's nothing going wrong 'down there' and put your mind at ease. You could also discuss the pain issue to see if there is anything further that can be done. In some cases, referral to a sexual therapist can be helpful, particularly in cases where there is muscular tightening, as this can be a psychological problem, rather than physiological.

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piglet answered Tuesday October 10 2006, 5:57 am:
yes iv been with my boy friend for 2yr now we were togrthrt almost 1yr befor we had sex together and like you it was good but then i stared to get a sharp pain but you should ask your partner to stop and i advise you go to the doctors or if you feel inbaressed witch is normal just ring up your doctors and ask over the phone if there is anythink you can do without having to go to your doctors or maybe get a friend to ring up on your behalf good luck

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