okay my name is Kristina a.k.a Munchie and I would upload a pic but I cant do it because my computer is messed up! Anyways I'm 5'1 and I weigh 102 lbs. Yes I EAT! I love food, but I know how to stop when I'm hungry. I love having friends and family! I hate the fact that I'm short. I have a myspace and if ya wanna add me my email is sexyhotchick_87@yahoo.com and you can see my pictures on there! I LOVE Jennifer Love Hewitt! she's so little and cute. I'm single right now. I also have dark brown hair and a round face. LOL! I love this website! And if you need me to answer I question then I will because I love giving out advice!
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i love it when this boy plays hard to get but when i can have him i dont want him AT ALL
why?! (link)
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haha. I think I can help. If you want him to like you not love you then play it back. If he wants to play then you play. just don't make it seem like you really like him. Guys can tell when girls really want a boyfriend and I guess that scares them. I wouldn't know I'm a girl. Really though don't try so hard. He might find that as a turn off and never want anything to do with you. I know from pesonal experience. haha. I hope ive helped you girlie.
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I know this guy and were kinda friends but i really like him I call him some times and he told me he likes talking to me he's a tease so i don't know when he's serious.what do I do do you think he might like me. (link)
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Umm. No! Sorry. I hate to tell you that but guys do that to me and stuff. They say sweet things so I'll have sex with them and it doesn't work because I've figured it out and now I know that they are just lying so they can get some pussy. They really just throw you away right after that. It hurts and all but that's how they are. Especially if he's a lot older than you. Then they really just want sex and sometimes not even that. So be careful with these kinds of guys. If he's not comitting himself to you and taking time out of his day to talk to you then he's not serious about you. As much as it does hurt. He really is playing you. I know you hate to hear that but guys are mean like that. They really could care less. Sorry girlie. If ya wanna talk then just drop something in
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15/f. I apologize, this is really long.
Well, I'm beginning (and have already BEEN) to be VERY depressed. And I mean, sometimes for no reason at all. I can't talk to ANYONE. My parents don't understand...and tell me "Oh...don't be ridiculous...there is nothing wrong with you. Everyone passes through this stage". etc. It's driving me nuts. There is too much pressure from school (having to get straight A's or else my parents will EXPLODE), I HATE my friends. They haven't ever done ANYTHING for me. NEVER. They never.......care. :( When I look at them...I see FAKE USERS. They talk crap behind me...which I can prove. I've been cutting myself...and I can't stop. I have NO ONE to talk to and no one to confide in. I don't know if I have some kind of mental illness...but I feel so freaking ALONE in this world. So very lonely. NOBODY and NOTHING ..(LOL) understands me. I feel like an outcast. I'm constantly judged by everything. music tastes, clothes, grades etc. I'm so different. ARGH. I want a therapist and I was wondering (after writing such a long paragraph) if I'm in need of one. :/ Any suggestions? Do therapists actually help? Thanks in advance. (link)
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Yeah. I'm not gonna agree with those stupid people below because you don't need one. Trust me! They really can't change anything. I've been to one and I'm 14 years old. So I don't want you to think i'm 18 and I've been through this. Hell, I'm still going through this. i hate everything! I really hate my life. It sucks. My friends seem to not wanna hang out with me or anything. So I hate them now. My parents and or family don't understand me. They say the same thing over again. It's a phase. You'll get through it. I understand you because I go through this everday. What's worse is I'm not even suppose to be in 8th grade so people call me stupid and I just want to belong but stupid people won't let that happen. Yes, my friends are all fake and they all want me to be just like them but I'm never enough and that pisses me off! I can't be perfect. Nobody's perfect and I'm not nobody.. Look, I'm going through it too and if it ever changes (like everyone says it will) then I'll be sure to keep you posted. I am so touched by your problems that I want to talk to you more just because my life sucks too. Do you have myspace? If so I'm avril lavigne. Search by NAME not DISPLAYED NAME. If you have it and if ya wanna add me. haha.
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okay all of my friends and so many people tell me how gorgeous and beautiful i am. but i cant find myself to believe it. and no guy has ever told me i was pretty. and ive never had a boyfriend. i feel so ugly..... (link)
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Okay first of all if people say you're pretty for no reason at all just because they see you and they're like oh you're so pretty then more than likely you are pretty. I used to think I was ugly but I realized that girls that are ugly are never told they're pretty until they ask. So dont ask people. Just see if people notice how pretty you are. People tell me I'm pretty for no reason. they just say you're so beautiful. I didn't believe them because I've never had a boyfriend that tells me I'm pretty all the time. I still dont have one and I think i'm pretty hott. I'm not really beautiful but i'm pretty enough. And its natural most really pretty girls dont have as many boyfriends as ugly girls do so bee happi. Ok! the way you act can make you hotter too. So bee happi. haha. I had the same problem but know I know im not ugly. you are probably really hott. so dont worry. its just a phase.
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ok so me and my gf have been dating for awhile now
and i mean weve felt each other up and stuff
but i havent figured her yet and i mean i had the chance too but i didnt knw wat to do
any tips?
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Just do it!! haha.
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So at camp this past week this guy was like asking all these girls to be his gf and to give him blow jobs and stuff, and he kept on saying that he wanted to be alone w/ me, and whenever we were he'd be like "oo i think ur so hot let's get freaky!" then i'd be like "ok let's do it!" adn he'd be like "haha ur stupid." like he would get my hopes up and then just yank away the opportunity. What kind of a mental problem does this sound like to you? (meaning him)
it made me feel even worse about myself. I'm crying as i write this. I can't seem to get over this, it's like i'm taking it personally like he didn't want me just because of my appearance or w/e even though he already said i was hot.
:(
help.
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omg! girl he sounds young. like 13 14 young. I'm 15 and the guys my age act like that too. the truth is he's really nervous because it sounds like he's never done anything sexual with a girl. So he froze up and said you're stupid so he wouldn't have to deal. he's probably not ready for sexual things and you don't sound like you are either. Now the guys I hang out with are 17 18 and they are not immature like the guys that are me age. You might need to hang out with a guy that's 1 or 2 years older than you because he won't be immature and he will have sex with you if he really likes you. I'm not telling you to go out and have sex with an older guy but it's easier to talk to guys when they are a lil bit older than you. they are also serious when they are talking about sex. they really wont play around. well hon I hope that all helped.
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girls are so complicated cuz when i try to do somethin they always complain and whenever they are sick ill talk to them all night but they say i didnt talk long enough? and whenever they misss me i do whatever i can to get to them but they say i didnt try hard enough even though i got there and i even brought flowers a chocalate? sometimes i dont get girls or should i say some girls?
what should i do? (link)
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Wow! you seem very sweet. Dont let that lil girl get to you. Hon I hate to say this but she doesnt like you at all. Just tell her to give you a break. A guy did all that stuff for me before and yes it was sweet but I didnt feel the same way as he did. That's why I told him I should give him a break. I wasn't really honest with him but he got the idea. She doesnt sound like she's feeling you at all. You need to find another girl. There are a lot of girls that would kill for a guy like you. Really. There are all kinds of girls that want to have a boyfriend like everyone else. You will meet a girl one day and she'll love the fact that you brought here stuff like that. So dont worry. you'll understand one daay.
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well, i've known this guy for awhile but recently we started talking. we hung out for the first time in school Friday and likee were all close bcause he was saying how he doesn't want any hookups anymore and wants to get into a serious relationship and he said he thinks i'm the right girl. So yeah we talked on the phone for a couple of days he would call like 2x a day maybe but he hasn't called me since saturday.
i don't think hes waiting for me to call him, because hes not shy about calling.
i don't think i should call him because even my mom said i was look like an idiot, and that if he wanted to call me he would. i just don't understand what went wrong! (link)
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Well honey I think you should just calm down! Guys sometimes tell girls that they love them because they want to get in your pants and it's called being used. I disagree with the others because a guy has said that to me before and then after that he ignored me and really didnt want anything to do with me and I asked him why he said he loved me and he replied that he was using me and he also said he was very sorry. He might really like you though because the guy that used me didnt want to even talk to me on Myspace so I think he might be thinking about it and when he's done I think he will call you and tell you how he feels. See he's being put under alot of pressure right now because he's used to a non serious relationship. I really can't tell you if you are being used or he likes you and he just needs time to think about everything you know gather your thoughts? Well I really hope he likes you and you have a great realtionship! Much LOVE!!!!1
~ S.O.S
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Do i really need love? I mean all my friends have at least kissed one guy and I haven't kissed, hugged or made physical contact with any of my past bf's. My first bf only touched my leg. My 2nd one was too creepy to do anything. My 3rd one never talked to me. How can i get a good boyfriend? HELP. I'm not enjoying being single much anymore. Please, i need emergency dating tips! PLEASE! I want ot date again. Sure my first experiences sucked, but still... Not all guys are shallow, right? HELP! (link)
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well i'm 14/f and I still dont have a b/f but ya know what i just spend my time with friends and I'm learning how to love myself without a guy! After all you have to love yourself before anyone else can love you and that's what you should be learning while you dont have a b/f. And if you have alot of confidence then you should exspand that! One day you'll meet someone that sees that you have alot to offer and they'll love you for you!
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All of the other girls I know are always just SO happy and smiling all the time no matter what, it's like nothing could ever upset them.
I, however, am always frowning and mad/depressed looking and I can't help it. I just never feel happy. I have never been truly happy and whenever I do smile it's fake unless I'm laughing at something.
And the happy little perky ones are the ones who attract the most boys. Isn't it true that men are attracted to happy women?
I want to know how to be all happy and perky and cheerful and pleasant all the time. I've tried thinking happy thoughts but it just doesn't work. I only think about things that make me pissed, because my life is filled with them, and things about myself that I hate (plenty of those too).
please just answer. (link)
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Wow! I don't know how old you are but I'm 14/f and I hate my life with a passion but I just act happy because acting sad doesnt get you anywhere and neither does acting happy. Because I'm always happy acting and I still cant attract guys but my sad sister can because she's two years older than me. So if you are 14 or 15 then just wait because guys will notice you! Believe me those girls that act like life is sooo fucking happi and nothing worries them at all are so fake, like me! Haha! But that doesnt mean you get b/fs becuz your happy! I still think that guys dont like me but I'll just wait for two or three years until guys are suppose to start going out with me because right now i'm just too young to hook up.
I really hope I helped you because I have the same problem!
~ Munchie!
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me and my boyfriend just broke up i want some sad love songs to put on myspace and just to listen to. (link)
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Well it's an old song but I love Heartbreaker! By Mariah Carey!!!! Its the best
~ Munchie!
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Hey, i pretty much just started having bulimia.. but i'm stopping now.. trying a different direction in loosing weight.. i read all these things that can happen if you have bulimia.. about how long does it take to get those affects!? Because i definatly donnntt want them; and i reallyyy hope i don't!! ANSWER THIS ASAP!! pleaseee (link)
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okay maybe you should talk to a therapist or something because you have to change the way you think because advice is not going to change the way you feel! Talk to your parents or somebody important to you if you dont wanna talk to a complete stranger. There might be a reason to why you are self-destructing. And there are ways to help that with or without drugs! I don't know how old you are so I can't tell you whether or not you could just be going through a drastic change that is messing with your mind but I can tell you that being that way is not going to change anything in your life because it's only going to change your body and it might make you feel worse!
I really hope this helps because i feel for you!
Munchie!
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i dont know what this is but everytime
i eat and sometimes drink something
my stomach hurts and like it really bothers me
and its been holding me back from doing anything
and its summer right now
and im mad!
i dont know what it is
but im kinda scared
cuase its been happened for like a week
and the stomach ache goes away after awhile
but its really annoying and hurts!
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I think you need to see a doctor as soon as possible! This could be something serious and it could be treatable if you go to the doctor now! So please see a doctor so you can find out what it is. I think you could probably research on the internet about this stomache ache.
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The first day of summer starts Wednesday for where I live, and my boyfriend and I are hanging out that day. I think it would be cool if we had sex for the first time (for both of us) that day, kind of as a first day of summer first time celebration, since we've been together since last summer. We've talked about it before but we decided to wait till we're ready, but I'm not really sure how to bring it up again, what should I say? Do you think he'll be willing? Any advice will be appriciated. Thanks! (link)
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You could ask him are you ready now cause I am!
~ Munchie!
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How do you make your eyes look wishful and inviting without the use of makeup? (link)
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There is no way. But I'm sure you have very pretty eyes.
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How do you make out (link)
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Well if you're a girl you kinda just let him kiss you and then it's really easy from there on. Because I used to be very nervous about making out and I just let this guy kiss me and we kept doing and all night long and now its very easy for me to make out. If you're a guy then you kiss her and stick some tounge in there and then thats it!
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How can you stop having a panic attack? How can you make it go away?
NO links, just advice (link)
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okay I think you need to see a doctor. Because they could probably explain to you why you are having these panic attacks but idk if you can cure it but just ask a doctor and maybe they can give you something to help with it. I dont know what's causing it and if you do you can probably research on the computer how you can treat it.
I really hope this helps you!
~Munchie!
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16/f
Where I live, I'm only two years away from being at the legal drinking age. Of course it's bad for me to drink, but I rarely do. My question is about not drinking the alcohol, but just keeping it.
I have a place in my room where I can hide as much alcohol as I want and it will never be found. Whenever I get the chance to buy it, I do. But then I just stash it in that place and rarely drink it (once every few/several months at a party).
What I like to do however, is measure it, pour it and make calculations. I enjoy knowing that it's up there and calculating how much I have and what percentage of alcohol it contains. I'm not sure why I do this, but I find it interesting.
Could this lead to problems as an adult? Is this potentially risky behaviour? I guess I just like knowing I have something I shouldn't, and not feeing the need to actually drink it.
Thanks! =) (link)
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okay yes! this could lead to problems in your near future. If you can't stop once you start drinking then you could form an addiction to this. But most 16 year olds that I know drink but once they turn 18 they dont seem to find any fun in that. So you might be okay just try not to drink alot to the point where you throw up or pass out. You really need to be safe so you dont get addicted to alcohol because you won't have a fun time after that.
I really hope this helps!
~ Munchie!
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im really like sad i guess.. to the point of crying. and its just so messed up. im 15/f - first of all, it just feels like everyone aruond me is getting a boyfriend or has one, and if they dont have one, they're talking to a guy they might like and that lieks them. no one likes me. idont know why. it just really bums me out, because i know i would be so happy if i had a boyfriend or a guy i liked and don't tell me"oh it will all come in time" or "they should like you for you" or wahtever. just please help me.. how can i talk to guys more, so i can like get a boyfriend or start liking someone or get someone to like me. how can i get more confidence and be more "flirty" and just show that i'm out there and looking or whatever? (link)
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okay, Oh my god! I had the same problem and no I dont have a boyfriend. What I did to get over this is I just started living. I mean okay here's my problem it's just that my cousins are like a year older than me and they both have boyfriends that love them. And all my friends have boyfriends so I was like freaking out thinking that I'm strange or ugly or fat because I felt like no guy wanted me but you know what I did ? I just said whatever I'm gonna live life until he comes to me because it's senseless to try to be like every other girl or worry about why you dont have a boyfriend. that's the only way you're going to find a boyfriend and its to wait. Most girls go through this and they find a boyfriend when they're like 16 or 17. But that varies. I just keep telling myself i'm gonna find one and I'm sure you're a great girl but I hate to tell you this but it will happen when it happens and you'll look back on the days when you worried about everything and you'll laugh! And to be honest with you most girls get in those serious realationships and they get hurt and its not all its cut out to be because my cousins are still unhappy with their boyfriends and I'm happy because I don't have to deal with a guy at all so my life right now is easy cheesy. You also are probably not ready for one if you worry so much about having one.
I'm srry my answer was so long and if this doesnt help I'm srry!
~ Munchie!
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well,i have this problem that im mad shy and its ruining everything.I need help overcoming it and how do you start by making freinds with someone?I have alot of freinds but like,in the beginning of theschool year,how do I start it the freindship!?HOW DO I OVERCOME SHYNESS!!i need help on this,ive been in situations where im with even my own family and they all talk and i just sit there,smile and look pretty lol HELP! (link)
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Well here goes my brilliant answer. yeah so see I'm shy,too just not as shy as I used to be. and I always hate when guys say i'm shy because I feel like they don't want to be around me because I think I'm boring. There is a way to overcome some of your shyness. The reason why I am shy is because I'm afraid of rejection. And 1st off you have to figure out why your so shy around people and then you can find a way to get over it and say so what I'm a little shy but I can get over it. Okay now if it is rejection then just walk up to someone and just say hi. They will be nice to you but you have to find something that you have in common and then talk about that. If they dont like you then move on to another person cause after all there are not all gonna be your friend. I used to be really shy but then I started talking to different people and they really liked me and now I'm shy but not that shy. And know that you will have people that dislike you. But there will also be people that think you're really cool. I used to think nobody liked me but I just talked and it was so easy to make new friends after that. And I dont know what your deal is with not talking in front of your family but your family is your family they wont judge you or laugh at what you have to say, in other words they wont reject you so just talk with your family. They love you, right? so they are also gonna respect you its not like they'll make fun of what you do or say. Also try doing things that make you a more funner person like hang out with a friend and do something crazy but not too crazy. Do something that's "ok crazy!" Something that ppl will respond to and think you're cool. That doesnt mean smoke or drink or have sex. Just let lose and get a lil crazy like play a practical prank on somebody. Not one that will make you get in trouble but you know what I mean. Well I hope this has helped you!
bye, bye!
Munchie!
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