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feeling uglyyy...
okay all of my friends and so many people tell me how gorgeous and beautiful i am. but i cant find myself to believe it. and no guy has ever told me i was pretty. and ive never had a boyfriend. i feel so ugly.....
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Okay first of all if people say you're pretty for no reason at all just because they see you and they're like oh you're so pretty then more than likely you are pretty. I used to think I was ugly but I realized that girls that are ugly are never told they're pretty until they ask. So dont ask people. Just see if people notice how pretty you are. People tell me I'm pretty for no reason. they just say you're so beautiful. I didn't believe them because I've never had a boyfriend that tells me I'm pretty all the time. I still dont have one and I think i'm pretty hott. I'm not really beautiful but i'm pretty enough. And its natural most really pretty girls dont have as many boyfriends as ugly girls do so bee happi. Ok! the way you act can make you hotter too. So bee happi. haha. I had the same problem but know I know im not ugly. you are probably really hott. so dont worry. its just a phase.
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*sigh* i know how you feel... I kind've feel the same way. But then I try to tell myself over and over, that looks arn't everything. Ive found that people are always attractive and beautiful when they've found themselves, when they know who they are, accept themselves for who they are, and are confident about it. To have so many people tell you you're gorgeous and beautiful, belieVE THEM!!! If they say you are, you are. The comments that have been made are amazing. Beleive them, they are so true. Makes me feel better too =')
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that is exactly how i felt. i felt like i was really ugly, but all my frends and family said i was so beautiful! but i never believed them. i finally realized that everyone has a special beauty to them. i'm not sure what myne is, but i became more confident that i looked good.
i finally got a boyfriend and he always says im pretty. we've been going out for 10-11 months!
i know that everyone has a special someone, and there must be someone that thinks your beautiful! you just need to be confident, and trust that you will find someone!
and dont forget, its not whats on the outside that matters, its whats on the inside that counts!
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Okay, first off, guys can be such weniers,lol.
They aren't going to come up to you and say your beautiful, because they just don't know how. Look for the signs, if you have any friends that are guys, do they look at you a lot, do they talk to you a lot? This can mean that they can't take their eyes off you, and probley do like you, just don't know how to say it.
And I am the same way with my looks, even though my friends tell me I am pretty, I never believe them, all you have to do is trust them, their your friends and you should trust them with something like this.
Hope this helps,
AlyssaBT4T
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Don't let yourself down, you must be better than half the girls out there...looks aren't everything you know, what makes a person beautiful is their inner personality and a lot of confidence.
if you think you're beautiful then everyone will think so you're beautiful too..but if you let your self down and criticise you're looks people will actually pick up on that.
..you've heard that saying right??..."i think so, therefore i am"
and keep repeating 'i am beautiful, it's probably the guys who are too blind to see, and maybe need their eyes tested'.
...to be honest i think guys are most likely to go for you know the type of girls people categorze as 'tramps' because they know those girls are easy catch, and they just use these girls for fun......... but you will find someone special who will like you for you inner personality (what most girls probably don't have) and you're friends tell you you're pretty then they're right, friends never lie.
hope i've helped sweety take care...and think more positively about yourself.
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WEll it could be that your are so pretty that boys find you intimidating. You shouldn't be surprised to learn that boys, (and girls) many of them think that they are not pretty or good looking either, and the absolutely hate the thought of rejection, so won't ask a girl out no matter how hot they think she is.
What you are feeling is normal for your age. THis will all change when you get older. All of you, the people you know and see around you, your friends....they will all mature as they get older and feel more confident about talking to members of the opposite sex.
It will take some time. Listen in a way, you could look at it as being lucky, because there are a LOT of jerks out there, and you are better off if some of them never talk to you.
Not ever having had a boyfriend does not make you ugly. Jeez, that would make half the girls in the world ugly. And that is not so, looks do not determine how many boyfriends you will have in your life.
If you feel ugly at 13 just because no boy has ever asked you out, what are you going to do when you are 16, and no boy has asked you out, are you going to commit suicide.
Start now to find your self worth inside you, and not based on how many boyfriends you have and you will be a lot happier. I remember feeling the say way when I was young, but now I look back on it, and guess what. I had more boyfriends in my life than any one person deserves. And listen, I could have missed more than half of them, and been a lot happier. So my point is, there will be lots of men in your life....and while now you may look upon that as being a wonderful thing.....it really just presents a whole new set of problems. Don't rush it. Enjoy your simple life while you have it. It won't last for long.
And if you want to know how pretty you are, don't look at the girls in current magazines and on TV, they have special make-up artists and hair dressers and special lighting and special cameras.THey don't look that good in person. Go to the supermaket and take a good look around. You'll see that you are very pretty.
Michele
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