I am a single mom of a three year old little girl who i am pushing to be te best person she can be. I am striving to find myself a literary agent so that the words i write dont die with me but change the lives of the people who read my work.
E-mail: jesswilliams06@verizon.net
Gender: Female
Location: Baltimore
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Age: 21
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I have been with my husband for 12 years now. We've had some really great times but I've come to realize that he is more like a brother or a best friend to me. We aren't intimate much and we both seem to be satisfied with that. I don't feel any closeness between us that would indicate to me that our relationship was closer than brother/sister. I'm confused and am not sure what I should do? My feelings are strange and I'm beginning to worry about many things. I wonder if he still loves me and if he feels the same way about our relationship as I am beginning to. What do you think should go on? I don't have any idea on how to confront him about this situation. Should I consider divorce? (link)
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i dont think that divorce is your answer. after you have been with someone for so long they are supposed to become your best friend. think about it- people who can married because the sex is good usually end up divorcing months after the make their vows. so your husbabd being your best friend? probably not so bad. you have a committed man who you can confide in and whose always there for you. besides you can always try for a romantic evening or some kind of something to spice up your life (trying games or just something new or acting out a fantasy). you should confide in him though because he may not even be aware of what it is that you are feeling
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Hi, Advicenators. I'm a freshman now and high school is awesome in many ways but not academics when it comes to me. I'm in all honors classes, and some are easy (such as science and English), but geometry and social studies are making me feel awful.
I didn't finish my first math test in time for the bell, so I got a D, even though I knew all the material. I don't know why it took me so long to get through what I did finish. We have a test coming up this friday and I'm pretty nervous because I feel like the only guy who is doing badly.
Social studies is even worse though because I didn't finish our first essay either, and received a F. Two other students failed too, but I feel like I just can't really work under pressure and I'm not doing too well, overall. I could go to regular instead of honors, but I would have to go to regular science and English, and lose my good teachers in that class as well.
Any advice would be helpful. (link)
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do you have to take all honors classes? i was allowed to pick which classes were honors and which were not. you font want to fail the class because they will make you take it over again as a non honors class
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Recently, my friend has been talking about how "hot" he thinks his teacher his. He keeps saying he fantasizes about her and he worships her. He said he likes walking past her room, he said he wants to buy the yearbook and school newsaper just to oogle and "jack off" at any pictures of her in them. Worst of all, he said he wishes she was a pedophile and if she wanted to molest him he'd be all for it. He also said one day he was leaving school he saw her walking towards her car, he took out his cellphone and snapped a pic of her secretly. Its kind of funny but its also kind of creepy to me. I always thought a teacher is someone you respect, not look at in that way. Is this normal? Or should I straighten him out? (link)
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all guys will have there fantasies but i agree with you, a teacher deserves respect. so give him a wake up call but dont do anything too drastic or he may just react by hurting her in someway.
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I'm trying to start a history club at my school and I'm not sure what to do for activities. I mean what are some of your ideas on what you would want to do in a history club? I mean, I want things that people would actually be interested in doing. Someone told me we should all dress up as historical figures, but I know kids in my school would not want to do that. So I'm left wondering what to do... does anyone have experience with this?
Thanks =) (link)
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watch the dead poet society! or any present day movies about things that happened in past years.... titantic... pearl harbor.... you gett my drift
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Female. 17. My boyfriend and I were having sex today and as he thrust back in his penis hit my clit and made a cracking noise. He said there was only a half second of pain and he maintained an erection and we kept going. Later, i looked it up and it said penis cracking is very serious, but it also said that the penis would turn extremely dark from bruising and immediately lose an erection, neither of which happened. Is it really something to look into? (If it isn't REALLY something, don't tell me to go get it checked out please.. he's Muslim and his parents will kill him, no joke, so we are trying to avoid doctors.) (link)
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if he says its fine it probably is. he would know better then you would if he was seriously injured.
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I know it isn't really sex but I didn't know what else to put it under.
OKay this is mad embarrasing but i figured I'd ask here. I'm 17 years old and I still can't get a friggen tampon to "work". I try to use em but they hurt so friggen bad. I tried the little OB mini ones which kinda work but I'm always afraid i'll bleed through them. It's really embarrassing ... any advice anyone? (link)
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some women just cant wear them becuase they're (meaning your girlie parts) are too small. ive given birth and i still cant wear them cuz they hurt so badly. the only one i was ever able to wear they dont make anymore so i dont really have a suggestion for you just know that some women just cant wear them
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I'm a few months into my 16th year and the guy I'm going out with is turning 18 next month.
We just had our first kiss and it was my very first kiss, but he's had two or three girlfriends before. It wasn't awkward at all, the situation we were in was practically begging for it-- he had been holding me for half an hour and my lips had been settled on his cheek, it was dark and we were all alone-- but I know I was really dfjsdf about it. He did like the pecks, no tongue, and it was really romantic, but all I could focus on was, shit I suck at this. Like I know I got better because when I kissed him goodbye later it seemed natural but at first I was like, doing nothing. He didn't say anything about the kisses afterward though which I'm not sure is good or bad.
Next time we're alone and the time seems right, should I admit he was my first kiss? The situation couldn't have been better, it wasn't awkward and thankfully I didn't make any major mistakes but I just feel like such a loser that I couldn't have done better at first. Opinions? Stories? haha;)
Please say your age and m/f... I'd love some guy responses haha :) (link)
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okay let me just say how totally awesome it is that you waited until you were 16 to have your first kiss. most girls dont. and second of all most guys like knowing that they were your first kiss because its something that you will remember for the rest of your life. however some guys are a little bit weary of it. and it sounds like that you did pretty well for your first kiss. im 21 years old and just realized that not every kiss had to be about tongue in your mouth and that there is such a thing for as a sweet gentle kiss, which is what you guys shared. now i wasnt the guy you were kissing so i cant state his opinion but from where i stand it sounded preety good to me. and you could always act like a blushing school girl(which you technically still are) and tell him the truth and that you want him to teach you to do it how he likes it... hope i helped
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...is this a good or bad sign?
We were on our third date the other night and a few of his good guy friends happened to be there too (it was an obvious coincidence, not planned). I had never talked to any of them so after he introduced me I didn't say much, but while he carried on his conversation with them, he was a little aggressive about me taking his hands and pulling me closer to him. I was basically wrapped around him.
I know guys like to show off their girls in front of other guys and I know its good that he is so proud of me but most guys I know shy away from PDA around their friends, not move towards it. What does this say in terms of what he'd be like in a relationship? - We're 17 btw.
:)thaanks. (link)
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the simple fact that he wanted his friends to know you were with him and didnt mind being "wrapped" around him is good. but its up to you to decide because there a thing as too much possessiveness. pda is awesome and i for one love it. its when the guy pushes you away you should worry then its as though hes trying to hide you. so him pulling you close is good as long as he doesnt become to possessive
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i live in florida and have a book i wrote (my first)
where do i go to get it published or who can i contact?
thanks! (link)
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you need to research literary agents. i am doing the same thing for my book. you need to find an agent and research them. then theyll tell you how to send in a query letter and synopsis. you have to meet that specific agents guidelines. try going to writers net or google literary agents
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is the world really supposed to end in 2012?
like I keep hearing all these stories about it.
and it's starting to freak me out!
I see ads about it EVERYWHERE..
and I hear atleast one person talking about it everyday.
does anyone really know when the world is going to end? or is it just a bunch of crap?
it's just really starting to scare me.
I don't wanna know when i'm going to die.
and for it to be this soon freaks me out because i'm still really young i haven't done alot in life yet. and if scientists know so much about it isn't there things they can do to prevent it?
please someone helppp!
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evolutionists think that it is, bit I believe that God is the only one who knows the future. He says in the bible that only He knows when the world will end and I believe him. Sure there are alot of predections about then the world is goin to end but the only one who knows the truth is the one who created the earth. i am young also and there alot that i still want to do but i also know that the life that God has planned for me will be exactly the life that i need.
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15/f
So I have decided to have sex with my boy friend for the very first time. I haven't been pressured into this decision infact when I told him he asked me to think it through and make sure for a fact this is what I want. I know this is what I want, because I love him with all my heart and soul. He is my everything and I want to give him everything I can and he already contains my heart and mind because I love him with all my heart and I think about him all the time. The only thing left for me to give him is my virginity and this is because I want him to have it. So I know I am ready for sex and I was just wondering if like I could get some pointers as to how to make this the easiest on me, my body, and my beloved, cause he doesn't want to hurt me and I know it is going to. Basically is there anything I or he can do to make it hurt less?? (link)
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have you ever watched the secret life of the american teenager? it pretty much lists ever sex scenario ever encountered in a teenagers life. you either regret it with guilt because its with the wrong person, or too soon. its bad or you wind up pregnant.. i reccommend watching that before you commit to it. i was 16 when i lost my virginity to a good friend of mine and though i done regret him having it i wish i has saved it for mr. right. because now ive given evrything i have away to someone that is not my husband and all i have to give him is second hand goods. so consider it and wait and consider it and wait, i think its great that your bf wants you to be sure because most guys like to be your first because a girl never forgets her first
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Well, I am a girl and I am 17 years old. I have know this guy for 6 years now and he has been there for me through everything. I literally can not live without him. I always call him my guardian angel. The other day i met one of his friends an we ended up making out. It was just a casual high school type of thing. Im young i like to have fun thats why i dont date to much. After i dropped off the guy my best friend grabbed me an kisses me. To me honest it was kinda like kissing my brother. Anyway we tried it again saturday an oh my god it was the best night of my life. Like iv never felt so strong for a guy. I just cant decide to follow through with this crazy connection, be causal friends who fool around, or go back to normal as fast as possible. We bolth dont have serious relationships ever! thats why im afraid we could both easily mess this up. But when someones your soul mate you just know (link)
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take it slow... you shouldnt be in a rush to jump into a relationship. my nest friend and i are sexually attracted to each other and i feel the same way about him as you do. but now hes married with kids and im so excited for him. when people get married its more then sex its about being friend and sometimes your best male friend will make the best forever partner.... just take it slow and see where it takes you. enjoy the ride but you also need to wonder if its worth the risk of losing him. i mean if you say lets just be friends then that will change the relationship and if you say lets be together it will change. its a follow your head and heart not hormones decision
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ok this is what happening
my parents are out with family friends, and they'll be back any minute so I need your help
heres some background
i volunteer on my cousins softball team (im 17, the girls are 15)
and whatever yea i met this girl, her name is Allison, and we're going out for a while. We have a lot in common, sometimes i help her with her homework. I helped her on an english essay and she still got a C. This is because her teacher is a prick... anywayz
So she came over like an hour ago, and i really want to lose my virginity, so I ask her to have sex
"no i cant its not right" she said but i told her "dont worry i know what im doing, ill be done in like 10 seconds, plus ill give you 2 n64 games if you say yes"
So I gave her diddy kong racing and ken griffey jr baseball, and then she goes to my room. shes a bit confused and scared.
Then i think to myself - yo I need lube right? Cuz I hear you guys on TW saying you need to lube up her clit otherwise it wont fit in properly.
Ok so I have no lube, but i really want to lose my virginity - so i grab some butter from the fridge, but its cold, it wont melt - so i microwaved it for 8 minutes, and then i put it in a glass and poured it on her cooter, now shes saying i burned it.
I don't know what to do, my parents are going to be back any minute and shes crying in the bathroom plz help you guys are really smrat and please help me.
Any idea how to shut her up? Should i give her another n64 game? (link)
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you could have seriously hurt her.... and you dont ever try to convince a girl to have sex with you. she should completely want it. sex isnt all about the guy its about enjoying the intimacy that two people share hen their in love and preferably married. never ever try and bribe a girl with a game. and you should be in a serious committed relationship before you have sex. and youll be lucky if you dont get into all kinds of trouble preying on an innocent girl. plus you may have seriously injured her.
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im 16/f. I dated this guy last year, he was 14 at the time, and i was 15. He was a year younger than me (he was in 8th grade, i was a freshman) Well, the relationship was stupid and ended in a total of 6 weeks. We fought the entire time, hung out alone a total of 2 times, and it wasnt a real relationship. Well, ive been dating this guy, whos 17/m, for 10 months now. I truely believe i love him. We fight sometimes, but not a lot. Well, the problem is, every time i see the ex, i feel jealous and i just want him to want me. I dont want to be with him at all, i have no desire to be with anyone but my boyfriend, yet i realllly want him to like me. Why is that? Does anyone know what could possibly make me want him to want me, yet i dont want him? HELP PLEASE! this is extremely confusing to me. Thank you (link)
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you want him to miss what he could have had
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Boigraphy of Great and Popular People. I need to find boigraphy of famous people, can anybody tell me where to start? (link)
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google
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My friend went to the hospital last night because she was bleeding and pregnant. She miscarried now and I'm completely shocked. I don't know what I should say to her but I'm certain that she is pretty upset about this whole ordeal. She hasn't called me just yet (her husband let me know) but I want to say something really nice and supportive when she does. I expect crying and the works.
What do I say to someone when they have a miscarriage? I know it's hard but other than, "I'm really sorry..." I'm lost! (link)
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tell her that her baby is with God. that her baby was so special that God decided He wanted that baby with him. and that when she has her first baby he/ she will be all the more special and all the more loved because of how hard it was to have him/her. and instead of waiting for her to call you should go see her... be her shoulder to cry on... sometimes words arent even needed
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Hmm . . . how should I start?
You see, when close friends are hurt, they may have different ways to support each other:
1. some would lick each other's wounds,
2. some would pull each other up, and
3. some would just become a silent shadow.
None of those methods is better than the others--sometimes we need someone to help us recover, sometimes we need someone to push us forward, and sometimes we just simply need someone to just silently sit there and listen to us . . . of course, a combination of three would be perfect, but not many people are able to do that--and it also depends on the situation.
Oftentimes we select which method to apply based on our very own nature and what we are best at; all the while avoid the method that we are worst at like plague. Well, for example, I am better at encouragement (the second type--pull the other up) than listening, and worst at trying comfort someone (I just can't find the right words to say).
My question is that when you find the need to use the method that you are worst at, should you attempt it anyway? Despite all the risks? I mean, in the worst case scenario, it could have the opposite effect for all you know.
Thanks in advanced! (link)
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your right... a combination of all three is perfect, however not everyone possesses the combination. unfortunealty i do. and its not that hard. when your fried needs a shoulder to cry on, give them yours. make sure they know its not their fault and if it is NEVER EVER EVER SAY I TOLD YOU SO!!! just listen while they blame themselves and be an encouragement to them. tell them that everything happens for a reason and that its up to them to chape their future. they cant change what theyve done but they can change any circumstance that they are in control of
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If you get married AFTER you have children, should you go on a honeymoon? My boyfriend and I are expecting now and are not married. He wants to get married after the baby is born. I think that sounds alright, but then we won't be able to have a proper honeymoon, right? We can't just leave the baby somewhere and if we take the baby with us then it won't be us "getting away" to be together. What do you think? (link)
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leave your child with someone you absolutely positively trust!!! even if its just one night all newlyweds deserve a honeymoon... its not just about the sex its about the intimacy of knowing that no matter what happens that one other person is your only person for the rest of your lives. its about so much more then sex
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Trolls are older guys who pretend to be young girls and guys - or guys who just bring up sex topics just to get off. You can tell by the way they write that they are not 13f for example. And, some of the questions are ridiculous and just want to get people to talk to them about sex. It is clear the trolls/perverts are here. How can we flag the trolls without answering their questions and giving them control over our answer? (link)
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end the conversation... say i gotta go my bf just walked in or my mom wants to get on the puter... plus you can block them from seeing your s/n. you never have to answer a quetion you dont feel comfortable answering. you could just tell the guy that you are uncomfortable with the question call him a perve and say leave me be. if that doesnt work threaten to turn him as a sex offender... its a little dramatic but he should get the point
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ok. so i've been with my girlfriend for a very long time now and everything has been to good to be true up until recently. about 2 months ago she cheated on me while she was drunk and i was out of town. i caught her the next day when i saw the hickey on her neck. now im constantly thinking about that and i love her to much to end it. (blah blah blah, theres plenty of other fish in the sea, dont even tell me that im tired of hearing it". but today i've also come to realize that he may have given her an std which i too now have i think.... and still i love her to much to break up with her. so i just want to know. does anyone else think im being a dumbass about it all? you can be honest. i would love to hear it.. it would actually make me feel better to know that we love each other to much and even though she genuinely regrets it and is sorry for ever being stupid enough to risk our relationship, im still being stupid with my decision about to stay with her. (link)
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somewhere in the back of your mind you will always remember what she did and you will always have your doubts. gone is the safetiness of your relationship and in are the doubts. is she really with her friends? the next time i lleave will hse get drunk and cheat? is that guy friend really just a friend? without trust there can be no relationship.
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