My friend like his teacher?? Normal or should I straighten him out?
Question Posted Tuesday October 13 2009, 11:45 pm
Recently, my friend has been talking about how "hot" he thinks his teacher his. He keeps saying he fantasizes about her and he worships her. He said he likes walking past her room, he said he wants to buy the yearbook and school newsaper just to oogle and "jack off" at any pictures of her in them. Worst of all, he said he wishes she was a pedophile and if she wanted to molest him he'd be all for it. He also said one day he was leaving school he saw her walking towards her car, he took out his cellphone and snapped a pic of her secretly. Its kind of funny but its also kind of creepy to me. I always thought a teacher is someone you respect, not look at in that way. Is this normal? Or should I straighten him out?
lusingrip101 answered Thursday October 15 2009, 9:24 am: all guys will have there fantasies but i agree with you, a teacher deserves respect. so give him a wake up call but dont do anything too drastic or he may just react by hurting her in someway. [ lusingrip101's advice column | Ask lusingrip101 A Question ]
sia answered Wednesday October 14 2009, 11:19 pm: its normal to have a crush on a teacher it happens all the time but the thing is its not normal to say those things about his teacher.i hope hes not stalking her or anything like that because hes getting very obsessive.he does sound like he know he cant be with her but just let him know that just incase he doesnt.a teacher will loose her license to teach if she is caught involved with a student. since im studying to become a teacher id probibly want to know if a student was obsessed about me just so its at the back of my mind. maybe tell him to just cool it down alittle i mean its ok to like her but not take piks of her because that illegal..be careful cuz stuff like that can get out of control [ sia's advice column | Ask sia A Question ]
Sweet_LiL_Angel answered Wednesday October 14 2009, 10:36 pm: Guy will be guys. We had this teacher when i was in middle school and all of the guys just loved her. stared at her all the time etc. i mean what he is doing is a l ittle obsessive. but its normal and long and he doesnt act on them towards her. and she doesnt act back. [ Sweet_LiL_Angel's advice column | Ask Sweet_LiL_Angel A Question ]
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