♥our names are ansley and rachel
♥ we have been best friends since 2ond grade
♥ we both cheer for our school
♥ we are both 13
♥ we are very understanding people
♥ we think zac efon is very hott
♥ we both love our cell phones
♥ we love the beach
♥ we love the movies
♥ we absolutely love summer
♥ we love to hang with friends
♥ no question is stupid so please ask!!
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Okay I'm going out with Ross. Ross used to be Kaitlyns boyfriend ( Shes my BFF) but they broke up. And before he even asked me out my best friend reassured me MANY MANY times that it was perfectly fine if I went out with him. She's even had two boyfriends since they broke up.
But now, shes telling everyone she likes him again, when I asked her about it she swore she didn't like him. (BTW, shes got a boyfriend right now) So I don't know what to do, I mean I really love this guy and were pretty serious, and the fact that she reassured me it was okay to date him, and now she's lying to me about liking him has made me to start growing apart from Kaitlyn.
I don't know what to do, .. can yall help me? (link)
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ansley says:: ohkay, so if you really like this guy keep dating him, she shouldnt be able to tell you what you can and cannot do because a relationship is between you and him - she shouldnt be in it. the way she is acting and lying to you are not traits of a true friend, so if i was you i would keep dating him and if she really had a problem with it she would come to you about it
hope we helped ♥ us
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Sorry its long, but I need help. So, I'm 15, and I have a boyfriend, "George". And he isn't the type to get jealous. But I flirt with other guys. And I don't feel bad about it, and shouldn't I? Also, yesterday I almost kissed this guy "Miles", and I wanted to kiss him. And besides all that I like this other guy "Ryan". So now, when I'm around "George" I'm really quiet and not myself, cause I'm thinking about "Ryan". I don't know what to do. Is this normal even? What should I do? (link)
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ansley says - now this is just my opinion but if i were you i would break up with George, because you aren't being fair to him or yourself, if you like other guys, you still shouldnt be with George if you arent being true to him, hope this helps!!
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This may be a stupid question to some, but I thought I might as well ask it.
Is telling a guy you like him really as easy as some people make it sound? I mean, I'm pretty confident and outgoing, but with guys, I can be pretty shy.
I like a certain guy... I mean, I'll talk to him and stuff, but I can't tell him I like him unless I KNOW he likes me, too. I doubt he likes me back, personally. But some people are just like, "Tell him!" and I don't know if I should. So... should I, how, and is it that easy? Thanks in advance. (link)
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ansley - it is different with every person, to some people its really easy, but to some people ((even sometiems the most outgoing)) it can be really hard and it all comes with who you are. If you feel very strong about the fact that you like him, go ahead and tell him ... or if you want to wait and see if he likes you back thats cool too or you can send him little hints to let him know that you like him .. but without actually comming out and saying I LIKE YOU!! lol im not sure that will help, but i sure hope so!
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PS:: good luck!!
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OK so my best guy friend, well all my girl friends say that he likes me, and they say I like him too, which is true. But im way too scared to tell him(for reasons .. i just cant) and i wish he would just tell me ! what should i dooo?
PS-im going with him to a semi formal dance this saturday. (link)
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rachel :- ohkay i know that this is a little bit late but if i were you then i would just ask him if he likes you. also, if you know he likes you then you could take a chance and make the first move. hope this helped!
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My ex boyfriend & I have been broken up for about 5-6 months now. We didn't start hanging out until recently. We're closer friends than we've ever been & it seems like we're climbing back up to being more than friends. We flirt alot & he gave me his jacket. When we broke up, it wasn't an earthshattering reason that would prevent us to date again, so there's a possibility for that. I know I like him but I'm not sure if he likes me. Whenever another guy flirts with me or I talk about another guy he gets really jealous. He even asked my friend if I liked my guyfriend, Grant, & told her not to tell me he asked. Does it sound like he could have feelings for me again?
Thanks for reading, will rate!
XO Jane (15/f) (link)
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rachel :- well it does seem like he has feelings for you. but then again sometimes guys are just like that. if you really want to know if he likes you then you should just ask him. if you dont feel comfortable doing that though then you could go to one of his friends and ask them.
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ok well, here we go. ive been going out with my bf for almost a year now, and i LOVE him so much. but the thing is i SERIOUSLY think he deserves ALOT more than me. and today i got braces on for the second time and i look REALLY bad. i dont want him to freak out on me and i dont want to be a bad gf AND an ugly one!!! should i break up with him or just keep it goin?!?1 im so confused and i give out 5's (link)
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ansley - OHMYGOODNES! first of all girl everyone is beautiful in their own way!! if this boy likes you he likes you for who you are not what you look like and thats what really matters! and if you really like him you shouldnt break it off because looks arent everything. its great you care about your boyfriend but you dont need to change to make him happy, be yourself and if he has a problem with the way you look then you shouldnt waste your time with boys like that anyway! good luck
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My boyfriend said I was irresponsible and lazy just because I'm not going to school today. One. day. And he refuses to let me kiss him, when I next see him and now he's ignoring my calls&IMs. I don't know. (link)
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ansley - i dont know how you feel but to me he is deff. overreacting, just because you missed one day?! if he gets mad over that then your relationship probably isnt meant to be .. if he really cares for you ... he would talk to you if he had a problem
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I am not the type of girl to just have any kind of boyfriend. He has to be my "boyfriend material". There is this guy who everytime I talk to him I get this smile that WON'T go away. Everytime I think about him I get so happy. But the thing is he is known to cheat on girls. So I know if I went with him there is a high chance of him cheating on me. And I don't want that. Oh yeah he likes me to (he says that to me, his friends, & my friends like everyday) So I guess I want to know why am I having feelings for someone that I know can hurt me and how can I stop or is it just one of those things you can't help? (link)
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ansley - my advice to you is this :: i would stay away from this boy because like you said, he will probably end up hurting you in the end, but if you really really really just cannot get him out of your head and you want to give him a try you can, but be careful!! hope that helped!
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sorry if this is difficult but im 13 (almost 14) and have never had a boyfriend. My firends tell me all the time im beautiful and i dont think im ugly or anyhting. the thing is ive had offers and stuff, but never really felt like i should be doing it. maybe its form my parents influence but up until now i didnt see anyhting wrong with it. whenever i think about it makes me feel as if no guys want me and that something is wrong with me and then i start to cry and feel really bad about myself?
what im asking is 3 questions
1. is there something worng with me?
2. should i be doing something to help me get a boyfriend
3. what things do i do? (link)
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rachel says :: ohkay ... first off there is nothing wrong with you. there are lots of girls our age that have never had a boyfriend. you dont need to change yourself just to get a boyfriend, so the answer to your second question is no there is nothing you should be doing. you basically just need to be yourself and not worry about getting a boyfriend. if someone you like asks you out i say go for it but dont let getting a boyfriend (or having one once you get one) control your life.
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so I got a 2nd hole on the lobe of my ear 6 weeks ago, and it's time for me to finally take it out.
but I try to remove the backing, and it's being stubborn && won't come off!
are there any tricks to help me get it off?
thank you in advance!! (link)
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just keep pulling and twisting it and if that doesnt work get one of your family members or friends to help you ... if worse comes to worse go back to the place where you got your ear pierced, maybe they can get it off! good luck
hope we helped!! ♥ us
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Ok so here it goes this may be long and im sorry if it is. Ok Im 15/f and my boyfriend and i have been going together off-and-on for almost 2 years now. I love him soo much i just cant seem to get him out of my mind.The last time we broke up was the worse,and i started dating other people well about 4 months later so did he and it really hurt me alot. Well we actually stopped talking and i lost my bestfriend of 11 years over it. Well a few months past and we still didnt talk and he finally called me oneday and we started talking again but i had a boyfriend. I finally broke up with the other guy and me and my ex got back together. Well last weekend he went off to his uncles house and promised he would be back by 7 but he wasnt...so another guy thats bestfriends with my cousin called and i needed a way to my dad's house and he was nice enough to run me and my friend down there. We never touched like as in kissin or huggin or nothin. And i like the other guy but not like that and my b/f thinks that i cheated on him but i honestly didnt. Everytime i tell him he doesnt say anything and he throws it up in my face alot. What should i do about this?
My friends tell me hes bein to controlling and to dump him...but i cant see my life without him in it.What should i do?
Ill rate 5's for any answers!!
Thanx,
Jessica!! 15/f (link)
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we think your friends are right. he is a little too controlling. if he thinks you cheated on him and you didnt then he obviously doesnt trust you enough for your relationship to last. if he is constantly throwing it in your face, and he doesnt believe you then maybe he's not the best guy for you.
hope this has helped you ♥ usss
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My boyfriend of two years is really starting to annoy me. I love him to death but hes ready to settle down and i dont think im ready. He asked me to marry him and im only 15 years old,and im not ready for that kind of commentment...yet. And since then everything has been really weird between us. If i talk to another guy (like this guy ive been friends with for along time)he gets all jealous and we fuss. I really love him and all but i dont think im ready for a serious relationship like he wants. What should i do? How do i tell him without hurting him?
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ohkay ... first of all, yall have to be sixteen before you can get married without parental permission. second of all, if you talk to one of your guy friends and he gets that jealous, then he must not trust you enough. and trust me, without trust, a marriage is sure to fail. no offense but asking you to marry him at age fifteen is a little unusual, it seems like he is looking for love very early, just tell him that you arent ready to settle down and that you dont know what you want yet and if he doesnt understand then he might not be for you.
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hey .. my name is michele (i'm on lauren's login thing). i'm 13/f. I know relationships aren't a big deal right now, but I really like this kid Frankie. We talk sometimes in school, but we don't have any classes together, but we talk a lot through texting and online. Sometimes it seems like he likes me, but other times I'm not really sure. I like him though, but I don't know how to tell him. I'm sure questions like this have been asked so many times, but should I tell him? or how can I tell him without worrying about being completely embarressed?
Thanks !!
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guys are hard to read sometimes. you can never tell if they like you or not. you should just tell him how you feel and see how it goes. if he doesnt like you back then just move on and dont even waste your time with him. you can still be friends, but dont even bother with trying to get him to like you in the more-than-friends way.
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14/f...ok so I know this guy named Warren. We recently made a bet that I would go a whole day without listening to his ipod. I lost. And the bet was that whoever lost would have to give the other person something. He said on the phone that he wanted a kiss from me and today was my chance but I was nervous when he mentioned it to me and played dumb. He said that I knew what he wanted and I said no I dont just tell me and he said nevermind. Now I'm afraid that I wont get a kiss from him and I don't know how to bring it up that I still owe him. Any ideas?
THX
I RATE HIGH (link)
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ohkay ... one day after school when no teachers are around and one of you are about to leave just kiss him. then if he asks about it then just tell him that it was for your bet. he wouldnt have told you he wanted a kiss if he didnt want one.
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first of all is age 14 alright to be making out? but that's not as big a question as this...how far can you go before it is considered sex? like can the tops be off...but it still be making out?
i'll rate high thank you for anyone who answers! (link)
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ohkay ... so it's ohkay to be making out at age 14 if you really like this guy ... but dont go too far.
hope we helped you! ♥ us
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Hello my name is Rachel. I am 13. I met this guy named Bret recently. Hes amazing and exstremly hott. We've been talking and he told me he likes me. But theres a three years age diffrence you see hes 16. So I dont know if were gonna date. Hes past girlfriends have been models and exstremly pretty..Its not that i'm ugly but I cant compaire to them. He tells this girl Mellisa that he loves her so much they talk all the time but they are just friends. I guess maybe i'm getting jealous easy. But I dont know what to do cause I really like him but i'm not sure if i have a chance or anything. Help Please? (link)
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ohkay ... we think that you deffinately have a chance with this guy. you shouldnt compare yourself to other people. we have this friend, lets call her beth, and she has done nothing for a year but date older guys, and also she is your same age. and about him telling this girl that he loves her ... you can love someone without being in love with them ... if that makes sense. we tell our guy friends that we love them all the time.
hope that was of some help ♥ us
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i need some ideas as to where to go on dates. and dont say the movies.. thats where i always go & so does everyone else. it gets old & boring after a while. thanks a bunch =] (link)
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romantic -
dinner
just at one of your houses doing whatever
fun -
mini golf! hehe ;)
carnivals (or the fair)
mall
go karts
we know thats not much of a selection!
but we hope we helped! ♥ us
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PLEASE take the time to read i really need some advice..thanx..and i rate high
I am 14 years old almost 15 and i have never experienced a relationship with a boy..i never had a real boy friend before and im not concieted but i've been told im sexy,cute,nice body but im just quiet. i do want a boyfriend but i want the right one for me and im scared to go out with boys when they ask me out because i dont know how to tounge kiss and im 14 and where i'm from i should be a pro at kissing now. another thing is that im not close wit my family and im miserable and depressed i live with them but i just am miserable living with them but i dont express that all the time...i recently moved to this school and everyone knoes each other and i want to be popular in that school sooo bad...so everyone can know me for me instead of my looks and for being quiet. i want alot of friends and that i dont have becuase i have a hard time trusting people..but i have a lot of "so call friends"...another thing is that i envy people alot but i try not to because that is what makes me so miserable instead of being thankful for what i have. im not a snotty lil jealous girl or anything but i keep it to myself when i envy someone. and one last thing is that as you can tell im insecure about my self and i try so hard to overcome that and i know "i only have one life to live so i shouldnt care what people think" but..idk i just cant help being insecure hopefully i'll grown out of that.
anyways can i get advice from everything i just mention or just opinions and statements please...thank ya sooo much (link)
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ohkay ... so we think that you should just be yourself and if they dont appreciate you then they arent really your friends. and then about the guy situation ... if you are with a guy and he's pressuring you to do something that you dont want to then maybe he's not the right person for you. if you tell him about your kissing situation and he laughs or makes a rude remark, face whatever then he isnt the guy for you .. but if he understands then obviously he cares about you and what your boundaries are and that you want your kisses and relationships to be special. if you just dont even feel comfortable with kissing him in that way then tell him that you're not all into the pda ((public display of affection)) thing and if he is for you then he will understand.
hope we helped!! ♥ us
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so theres this guy that i've liked sence september and he was dating my best friend (she didnt know i like him) and she broke up with him yesterday and that was right after she found out that i liked him and now i think she dumped him because of me. but earlier he said i was pretty and he sometimes flirts with me and i told him i thought he was cute but hes totally in love with my best friend i want to go out with him really bad but i dont know if he likes me and im thinking my best friend dumped him because of me. i dont know what to do. does he like me? did my best friend dump him because of me? please help. (link)
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do you know if there was anything bad in their relationship? if there was then she might not have dumped him because of you. she also might have dumped him because she wanted you to go out with him. she might have put in the good word for you. its really hard to tell when a guy likes you sometimes so we're not really sure about that. if you REALLY want to know if he likes you .. go to him or one of his close friends and ask!
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When me and my boyfriend are together I can sense some tension, not like bad but like ackwardness floating in the air. How can I ease this and make it more comfortable for the both of us so we can just unwind and relax with each other and just be ourselves? (link)
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if i were you i would just ask him and talk to him about the tension you are feeling ... ask him if he is feeling it too .. and if he is then you can work together to think of ways to help you two unwind and be yourselves around eachother .. but i am certain after you talk to him about it the tension will already start to ease!
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