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Hey there, my name is Amanda.I am the type of person whom will tell you things straight up. Go ahead, ask me any question. If I can't answer it, I'll try my best to help you find it. I'm online a lot so questions will be answered asap.

Also, I love to get feedback. So, please take the time to rate my answers. Thanks.



Anyways about me,
Loverocks has just been a nickname for me for about 6 years now. I am 26 years old, happily married to my hubby of 10 years. I am a stay at home mom of 4 great kids. Proud cub scout and girl scout mom. Also proud to be mom of a gifted child. Me and my hubby are starting our own auto repair biz. So...I'm a part time mechanic. Right now one of my main goals is to raise my kids the best I know how. I love to pull minor jokes on my friends and family. Dance with my kids and listen to my rock and country cd's.

advice

year-round, i wear simple black eyeliner on the rims of my eyes, but lately, due to my allergies, it has been smudging off underneath my eye (near my lashline). this is because i tear up when the wind blows or especially when i'm in contact with pollen.

typically, i would be okay with that because i can live without my eyeliner... EXCEPT when i have my allergies. because of them, the rims of my eyes are pink / red, and without my eyeliner, i look sickly as if though i have bloodshot eyes (which i do most of the time).

i reapply my eyeliner before 8th period (i have 9 periods) (my crush is in my 8th period class) and it looks fine again, but i was wondering...

question: are there any tricks that exist to prevent eye liner from smudging off of the RIMS of your eyes?

please do not tell me to just "apply the eyeliner along your lashline" because that's not what i want. i need my eyeliner on the rims of my eyes because they turn pink / red only because of my allergies. & don't tell me to go without eyeliner because it's "bad" for my eyes. it's not.

I would suggest maybe changing liners. Avon has a great liner called Perfect Wear Eyewriter liquid eye liner that is smudge proof, water proof, and lasts all day.

Also have waterproof mascara too.

~Loverocks~


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okay, so i have this friend, i just met her this year. anyway, she doesnt feel good about herself at all and she always things like \"omg, i am soo fat\" and she always says that all the guys like me and dont like her and blah blah blah. i never tease her and i always try to help her but she always disses me and it bothers me. i defend her alot when people tease her but she always goes to my bf ( because their close friends) and she tells him that i am being mean to her. this week was the worse week ever because everytime she saw me and him together holding hands or whatever she would get pissed and she would tell me to stop. i told my bf and he started to see the picture. i havent talked to her for a few days. what should i do????

You have done all you could for this girl. But she ain't returning the kindness. Sounds to me as if she is jealous of you.

I would not hang out with someone like that.

~Loverocks~

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ok so i think i might have a problem but i'm not sure.
me and some friends when we want to have a good time..take a few of my prescription pills
at first it was once in a while when i did it,
but now i see myself doing it more and more
and i can't get rid of the pills because i do need them...but i am tempted to take more than what is prescribed when there around.
i take them in school too, today i slept through 3 classes because when the meds wear off you get low.
i don't consider myself a pill popper but i'm on my way to being one.

I'm not here to preach to you but just telling you my opinion and facts I know. First of all some meds are addictive anyway. So, my opinion would be to just stop taking them when you dont have to. Only taking the amount perscribed. Because this is nothing to play with. For one it isn't good for anyones health taking more that perscribed. It could cause problems later on in your life. Also, there can be very bad side affects from it even death.


~Loverocks~

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okay well my boyfrind lives far and i only see him once in a while. i trust him and everything just that when i was looking at his myspace prfile i saw that he had a picture of his old crush and above the picture it said: i will always be loving this sexy girl aqua...when i read it it got me mad and i dont know what to do..someone plz help me..

I would ask him, why is it on there. Also, let him know how you feel about it.

I personally wouldnt like a pic of a crush being on my guys space period. But thats just a preference.


Hope this helped
Feel free to ask me questions.

~Loverocks~

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fifteen/female, well here is my problem -
i show no emotion, what so ever it's like i can't cry when i'm upset mad ect, and i just want to cry sometimes- but i can't -i hold it in, because when i do cry i think to myself [WOW ARE YOU REALLY CRYING OVER THIS? WOW SUCK IT UP AND STOP BEING SUCH A BABY ABOUT IT BLAHBLAHBLAHHHHH!] its like that ALL the time i cry or start to anyway, and i don't like it, i don't like holding it in; it's making me become someone i don't want to be and it's driving me insane!!! i just don't wanna be that person anymore i dont wanna hold everything in side; and like i can't talk to my friends about it because i feel as though thay don't want to hear it and i'm talking to much, so really i don't know what i should do; it' has been this way for a long time a very long time and it makes me SUPER mean because i hold everything in i have no emotion really!

in all honesty what would you do? any advice would do me good work so please

If you dont want to show your emotion if front of anyone my suggestion would be let it out in a restroom or your bedroom. Then, gradually work yourself up to showing your true emotions in public. Also what might help is keeping a journal or diary.

Holding it in as you have found out only makes things worse.

Hope this helps

Feel free to ask me questions.

~Loverocks~

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what is the difference between .com .net and .org

?

got this from wikipedia


.com is commercial
Used for virtually any commercial or non- commercial website

.net is network
Used for ISPs; miscellaneous sites; used
sometimes when desired name is not
available in .com

.org is organization
Nonprofits; personal sites; open-source
projects; sometimes used by commercial
entities

~loverocks~

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my name is april and i am 15/f and i really some help on how to get a boy to see me the way i see him and i really like him but i cant tell if he likes me or not i dont think he has a girl friend.but i would really like to get him to notice me.we talk and all but we dont talk enough to know each other.and i dont get to see him that much but i really need some advice.please help me.

p.s. please please please help me

april

When you can, let him get to know April. The more he knows about you the more he will notice you. Having similar interests helps too.

Feel free to ask me questions.

~Loverocks~

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okay is it incest if it is your cousins (who is like your sister) half brother on her dads side but you are not related to her father?? And i have never seen the boy or really hung out with him but would that be considered incest??

No cause your not kin to him. Incest is when your related in some way.

Ask me questions anytime.

~Loverocks~

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Ok well my question is nothing really like "oh my gosh i like this boy but i dont know if he likes me"

M'kay well i am sort of in a love triangle. Like this girl katie is obsessed with this boy tyler who likes me and who i plan to hang out with this summer. But im not really friends with katie, and i find her annoying. She pretty much stalks him. And from what i hear he thinks i am the hottest thing since microwave popcorn. But i dont know how i feel about him. I mean i dont want to hurt katie if i were to date him. But yeah can you help me??

Well, if your not really friends with Katie then... Hang out with Tyler more and see how you feel about him. If you like him and all go for it. I wouldn't worry about her.

Ask me questions anytime.

~loverocks~

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Im kind of shy so im not all that loud during sex and until recently it hasnt been a problem but the guy ive been seeing kind of thinks i dont like him or like having sex with him so since im not going to be loud or anything like that considering his roommate and my friend are on the bunk above us usually how can i show him or whateve that i do like having sex with him?

The best thing is to talk to him about it. Show him in other ways too like for example whisper things like you feel so good or pull him to you.
Anything physical that you can think of to say I love this, I want more.

P.S. Also try your best to let your emotions out. You dont have to be outragously loud though. Just enough for your guy to hear a little.

Hope I helped.

~Loverocks~

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14/F

i have horiable study habits.

i pay attention and take noted in class. but i lose some of them. so the night before a test, i have my friends fax me over the ones i lost. then i have trouble paying attention to those! so i just read over each a couple of times, and get a C on every test!

im extra bad at diagrams. somtimes i dont even bother drawing them. they just dont click in my head.

im pretty sure i dont have a learning disability because i get straight As in my other classes (Bs somtimes) but im still not great at tests. usually i get B+ or A-. except math.

math and science are my main problems.

im starting high school next year, and i want to be able to get straight As. any advice? please help!

thanks so much

I would check out www.math.com and www.science.gov
They have some cool things you could check out over the summer.


If possible try keeping all your notes in there own notebook or just one big "notes" book.


Hope this helps
~loverocks~

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ok so when i was little anytime i would get mad or something this blue bubbly would appear like a little bit above my collar bone on my right.. and my parents would either have to calm me down or take me to the emergency room i think its like a vein but like i want to no exactly what it is? or if anyone can tell me if they have heard of this or seen it or something because i havent had it since i was probably about 7 and i just noticed like a blue spot where i guess it use to be ive been really stressed out this last week... what is this?

I am going to say a vein problem to me. This is what I got from webmd

"Veins can become buldge with pools of blood when they fail to circulate the blood properly. These visible and bulging veins, called varicose veins, are often associated with symptoms such as tired, heavy, or aching limbs."

Hope this helps.

~Loverocks~

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alright so i've been cheerleading since i was in second grade. i cheered for football for 2 or 3 years and then a competition squad the rest. im in 7th grade right now and am trying out for the JV squad at my school. im trying out soon like in a week or two but clinics are thursday monday and wednesday (this week and next week) and then the following monday are tryouts. i know i can do great and all. but i worry about things too much. i know its silly but i do. my 3 best friends are trying out with me ( they have all cheered before and are good too) i can do the dance and cheer well and motions great and im really good at acting happy and corny and having an "attitude" on the cheer floor but i do need work on my jumps and i can't do a back handspring or anything above that. i can do a cartwheel but thats about it. most of the girls cant do those things anyways, infact alot of the girls have never cheered before. not all but quite a few. i guess what i am asking here is does anyone that cheerleads NOW have any good advice for tryouts and not just the basics like smile or anything like that but something that will really help. and how to do better jumps like what kind of stretching and things like that. i really really want to make it!!! i love cheerleading so much.


thanks to anyone who trys to help me =]

I've honestly never been one but I'll try to help
here is some cool tips i found

http://aescougarcheer.com/Cheer101/basics.htm

they also have tips and even has stretching techniques

hope this helps & good luck.

~loverocks~

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Ok, well im 14/f and i havent had my "first kiss" yet and all of my friends have. They always ask me in front of other guys, "have you kissed a boy yet?" and im like, "no." But anyways, i feel weird because all my other friends come in and their like "Omg, i totally made out with this guy and he was such a good kisser!" I know i shouldn't feel like this but i do! Please help.

Well, your first kiss will come soon enough. Don't rush it just to fit in. I know the peer presure sucks. But, be patient that special guy will come along before you know it.

Feel free to ask me any questions you may have.
~Loverocks~

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I'm just wondering what are some good community services that really help the community. In JROTC we do a lot of services and we'd really like some new ideas. Also, if anyone has any ideas to raise money thats really unique, that'd be helpful. Thank you.

Might I suggest going to www.volunteermatch.org there they have wonderful volunteer opportunities for all ages.

Have you thought about any of these http://www.fundraisingweb.org/ scroll down to see the ideas


Also, at big events you could set up a bbq or something and charge per plate. These do great.
I have seen these set up at local fishing lakes, scout campouts,school events and so forth.

Hope this helps.

~loverocks~

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ok, lets start of by saying.. i hav this boyfriend right... weve been together for about a month and a half. everything is going good but theres a few issues i dont know how to handle.
1) his Ex... who happens to be one of my good friends.. the issue is .... i mean, i love her to death.. shes pretty cool with me, but ill admit she can be a real... hmm.. b**** to him too sumtimes. she never liked him. she used him. he fell really hard for her and he had liked her for a while and even wen they dated for that little time.. most of the time she was cheating on him (which i didnt know at the time). well anyways.. even tho she broke his heart repeatedly he still liked her after that for a while. hes tried to hav a few girlfriends after that but they never worked out because 1. him n the girls were usually not friends. 2. he wud always go back to liking his EX, even tho she hurt him so much..
ive tried to be there by his side during every single one of these situations... and ive stuck around because we were best friends, so i know wat would happen each and every time. but this time, he says its different. he even told me he loves me and i told him the same. but back to his ex, im afraid the same thing will happen.. becuz he still kinda considered her one of his best friends still !! and i dont wanna get hurt if he tells me the same old story...
im asking for help on how to make the feelings kind of go away.. i trust him with my heart and to not break it, but the feeling of fear is still there.. is there is way to make it go away?
im kind of happy because so far hes lasted with me longer than the 3 othr gf's after her tht lasted lik a few days...
but he even promises me that he would never hurt me because i mean the world to him, i was the only one that helped him get over his broken heart and hes so amazing and sweet to me.. i know he would never hurt me, or anyone on purpose because he knows what thats like and i know hes not the type of person to hurt sumone on purpose... but sumtimes you cant control your feelings, but i see differences than with the other girls.. *he told me he loved me. *hes lasted with me longer than the other girls *hes still amazing to me, even after this time we've been together and hes not showing any "shifty" signs.. meaning.. he doesnt seem to be "Moving on from me".. at least it seems it because he still acts the same, only every day he acts sweeter to me and more and more amazing and tells me how much he really loves me and that im the first person to realize who he really is and truely accept him..

First of all you probably don't have to worry about your bf. Sounds like he's ver interested in you.

Second, I would suggest telling him that she aint the person he might think she is. Then go from there.

Hope this helped a little at least.

~loverocks~

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i have a friend and shes leaving at the end of the year and her bf is my x-boo and i want to go back out with him but i can't wait and we both want to be with each other but , the prob is, is that he broke up with her yesterday but during 5th peroid they got back together, and he was saying in third "oh i'm not going to back out with her after what she did to me" and u know what he did he ent back out with her, and she just has that thing were she says somthing and hes right there but i have the same afect on him that she does. so what should i do?
thanks for your help samantha b

Samantha,
Let me be honest with you. This is what I would do. Even though I liked the guy I would think of my friend. How do you think she would feel if you were trying to get her guy?

Second think about it Do you really want a guy who goes behind someones back?

But, If you really do want to go through with it I would just be patient cause he might not stay with her after she leaves.

~Loverocks~

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so i cant seem to remember it

and i dont remember which e-mail i had

i sent it to my e-mail but yeah

any way to get it?

All I can think of is going through each e-mail you have and checking to see if photobucket sent the password there.

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i'm 15/f and i have never had an actual boyfriend and i've never kissed a guy. I feel so behind from all the other girls at school. I just don't feel like i want to take on all the drama that comes with a relationship.

I'm not ugly or anything and i think guys don't ask me out because i'm kind of one of them. I love video games and playing guitar, and skateboarding. The dresses and stuff don't really get me.

I'm worried about being single for the rest of my life! I want to keep my guy friends though, they're like my brothers and i'm worried that if i ever get a guy he won't let me hang out with my boys!

Don't worry so much. When the right guy comes along you will know it. One that is ok with you having guys for friends.


~Loverocks~

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books about napkins?
seriously i need a fiction book about napkins

Here I googled it for you. There's a whole list of books on there you might be interested in.

http://books.google.com/books?q=Napkins&btnG=Search+Books

Hope this helps

~loverocks~

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