Q: so at times i get sooo depressed that all i do is cry and yell and im never fully happy and i think there is something wrong with me. one time i even took pills not to kill myself but in hopes id end up in the hospital just so people would finaly notice i exist (my friends. and family) what can i do to be happy? i want to be. but i cant talk to my friends or family about it..

Q: okay well im the girl with the friend that took my clothes. and last night i was awake at like 2:00 in the morning and i couldnt stop thinking about it so i got on myspace and first of sent her a message that said..

one of my good friends told me that you had one of my brown tanktops and was wearing it. and possibly my jeans that were missing. i just want to know if you have my tank tops and my jeans and if you do i would like them back please. not to go off randomly on all of this but that just what i heard and my clothes were missing sooo yeahhh. im not gonna get mad if you have them but i just want them back because thats a lot to be missing.

and then i was like well thank you.
and i will talk to you later or something


and she got on today and so did i and she read my message but didnt send anything back and now i feel super retarded because shes probably gonna go tell her little stupid boyfriend about it and all her other friends and they're gonna be like wtf? and mad at me. i know i should of done it in person but i was so mad that i had to do something about it last night otherwise i couldnt go to bed. now i dont know if she is mad at me or what? so it would be weird to call her now and stuff..

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General question. I would like to hear everyone's thoughts on the true nature of forgiveness:whether forgiveness is possible, or whether it is a man-made delusion. Any concrete examples are much appreciated.

Q: Okay so i got grounded last thursday because i got caught drinking & lying. My cell phones taken away and im grounded. my parents said im grounded until i "earn their trust back" how am i suppose to earn trust back if i cant leave the house? any suggestions? I'll rate =)

Q: the subject said it all

Q: Alright, well me and my boyfriend are almost at our one year anniversary and im just looking for ideas of what i could get him as a gift? we have the day planned out, but i want to get him something for our one year?..


thanks any ideas appreciated

Q: my best friend in the entire world isnt speaking to me!! i dont even know what i did wrong, and she just wont tell me. whenever i approach her she just turns around. any ideas how i can find out whats wrong?

Q: 16/f

lately or recently i have lost like 3 tank tops and expensive pair of jeans. i thought that my friend mandi took them because like i was at her cabin with her and i brought them up there and when i come home there not in my bag? well i was soo PISSED OFF. she said her aunt found some in the bathroom and was gonna bring them to her house but she said she came and her mom wouldnt let her in because she didnt know who she was (mandi's parents are divorced) and i knew that was a bunch of BS. and i felt bad because my family isnt the richest and clothes are that CHEAP these days so i couldnt go buy myself a new wardrobe and replace the clothes i lost. well mine and mandi's friend lisa were all together one night and lisa is like mandi those are my pants you are wearing! and mandi is like lisa no there not my dad bought them for me and shes like not uh i remember i had them in our locker when we were sharing them and you brought them home and lisa is like if they are size 7 they are mine so she checks and they are 7's! and mandi still denies it but hollister doesnt make those pants anymore they're an old brand and she said her dad just bought them for her when she told me that her friend jackie gave them to her and amanda wears like a 3/4 not a 7! and then i was like woww she probably has my clothes too! and i was like lisa did you see her wearing a brown aero tank top with a little tan butterfly in the corner? and shes like yep shes worn that around me before! I KNOW SHE HAS MY CLOTHES. i asked her about it though and shes like nooo i dont have them sorry. and i cant go to her house because its an appt. and she never lets anyone in her house trust me ive tried! and i dont want to go snooping around her room. im soo f'in mad though! one of them were a new tank top i just bought too. me and lisa cant trust her around our stuff anymore! and this year she wants to share a locker and i was like ookay. but that was before i knew all this stuff! last year we shared one and she like took all my pencils without asking then i didnt have any! i just dont know what to do anymore..now i dont really want to share a locker but im really bad at like saying no and im scared she will share one with lisa then and i wont see mandi anymore! and shes like the only one i see at school..or hangout with in the morning.

Q: Ok well i started going out with this one guy named jonathan.The thing is dat he knows i like somebody else and i know he likes somebody else.Yes it seems wierd but we told each other that since the beggining.Its like we like each other to but it kind of feels wierd to know he dosent only think of me...i know he probably feels da same way but i dont know.I seriously dont think we are going to last.Although i wish it did=/So if you were in my place what would you do??

Q: sorry if this is long, but i really need help. every summer, my parents encourage my sister and I to do math to get a head start on the school year ahead of us. my mom used to assign me pages of problems to do, and when i finished she would give me 100 dollars. (keep in mind, i'd been doing this all summer). at the end of last school year i asked her if i could do a french tutor instead of the math and still get the money and she said yes. well she didn't get around to signing up with a tutor until a month into summer (it wasn't like she was busy, she was just sort of putting it off). and then when she finally made arrangements the tutor asked her for a days that i was free and my mom didn't get back to him in time, so by then it was a month and a half into summer and i wasn't going to have a tutor. then i started working on math by myself, really hard!! i finished 3 units which is 119 pages of my text book. today i asked her if i could still get the full money if i did a little more math and she said no!!! i feel that this is her fault, and i shouldn't get punished for working my butt off doing math, just because i couldn't get started because she was too lazy to schedule a tutor for me. is there any way that i can reason with her without being rude, because i've been counting on that money to be able to spend on something i've been saving for for 3 months, and without it i'll never get it. help!!

Q: hey how do you get a cool background like yours on your advice column, im new to the scene and i'd like to make my column personal and stand out like yours.

thanks so much hun!

Q: hi im 13/f and i am really confused i went out with this guy for like a year.during that year he never once kissed me,never asked me to call him and we never held hands or anything but after a year he broke up with me.i dont no the reason but he did. i still have really strong feelings for him.so a year passed by and he is in a lot of my classes.in one class he sits right next to me and lately he has been talking to me a lot and flirting and he even likes to sit under my desk during class while we r watching a movie.he even told me to call him and gave me his number and walks with me to my next class,he invites to hang out with him at lunch at school, lately i feel like closer to him then i have when we were going out,why is hes doing this
cuz if he likes me still why did he break up with me?if he asks me out do i take the second chance cuz i really like him alot? help soon please
t.l.h.

Q: My oldest and best friend is moving to Ethiopia later this week. His parents had a leaving party tonight and as I am going away tomorrow it was the last time I will see him for the forseeable future.

At the party my other best friend (female) got upset and her younger sister accused the friend moving away's dad of feeling her up. My female friend's older sister then said that he had also felt her up. The man they accused is also their dad's best friend, and they were in hysterics. I heard them telling their dad and then the whole family went home.

Both my best friends were involved, so obviously I was very upset by this situation. The friend moving away is convinced that it was all just a big misunderstanding but I have no idea what to believe. I was already upset from having to say goodbye to him, and I don't know what to do.

One best friend is accusing my other best friend's dad of sexually abusing her siblings. I'm trying to stay out of it because it's none of my business, but it's not as simple as that.

What am I supposed to do?

Q: I purchased a pair of socks for my brother's not-yet-born child and plan to give them as a gift at the baby shower, which is next month. These are really nice socks, made out of merino wool, and (for socks) they were kind of expensive.

However, I fear that if I just give a pair of socks at the baby shower, I will appear cheap and unwelcoming of the baby. Should I just give the socks but explain that they are 100% merino wool? Should I buy multiple pairs of merino wool socks? Should I buy an additional gift?

Incidentally, this baby will be the first full nephew I will have. My half-siblings have had seven children between them, but this is the first time a full sibling has had a child.

Q: Ok one of my friends kathy she is 18. Well she met this boy named joe that is so to say 22. Everybody thinks he looks older than 22 and looks like a child millester and al this. There is not one person that i know of that likes him. Well kathy has been driving his car and she aint got no license. Yet he lets her. He is working at the bowling alley and nmot getting off til 2:00am or something like that on weekends. Well she is out with him all the time and aint at home taking care of her son. He is 15months old. Her mom does have temporary custody of him but still. This week i havent exactly been acting myself due to a real bad feeling bout joe. I havent been myself due to this real bad feeling as far as joe. Tuesday this bad feeling hit me so hard that i scared my friend kirstie which is her sister and i got so tensed up that i started crying. And i aint one who cries hardly at all. Every once in a blue moon i will. And the bad thing to is i havent had this bad of a feeling in like 2 years since her babys daddy called and threatend to kill her. So i was wondering if you knew anything i could do to get her and joe broke up specially since nobody likes him?

Q: Does anyone have any advice on how to deal with a sibling moving out and going off to college? My sister and I are a year and half apart and she's moving out in a little over a week. We're really close and I just can't imagine her not being here.


We also have an older brother that moved out 4 years ago but I guess I didn't notice as much since I still had my sister.


Now, I'm going to be all alone (well...with my parents) and have the whole upstairs of our house to myself basically and I know it sounds kind of dumb, but it's scary. Has anyone else felt this way and had to deal with it?

Q: I'm obsessed whith a boy who doesn't even like me anymore. He and i used to like eachother and we hung out everyday, talked on tha phone and stuff. But now we hang out like once every 3 days, & rairly talk on the phone. I try calling him but he always says "oh i have to do this i'll call you later" but he doesn't call. So then i'll start to think maybe i'm annoying him i should just give him some space, so i won't call him but then he calls me and asks me to hang out but i'm busy with someone else. and so the other day i was like wow we never talk anymore and he said oh it's cause your too busy for me..& so now all i want to do is sit at home and wait for him to call because i really really like him.but now i'm wasteing my summer waiting for him to call. please someone help me not be so obsessed because i know he doesnt like me as much as i like him and i just want to know what i should do?

Q: Ok well over the summer i have been hanging ouy with this guy named Pat and like at first i went to his house and we were just like friends but after a while he kinda started holding my hand when we were watching tv and stuff and were not even going out and he is not allowed to date till school starts and im starting to really like him but i no its wrong to do stuff and were not even dating yet but its really hard to tell someone u like to stop. so what should i do please help.

Q: well this girl isn't exactly my friend but like she is so mean to me because supposbly i'm 'full of myself' I don't say anything too bad just once in awile i'll be like wow i llok good today or i'll say something nice about myself. But she freaked out about it and is so rude. for an example we both have pages on this site and on her page she posted this about me.


lets play guess who.
whore.
turns into a bigger slut when they get druunk.
talks about themself NON-stop.
paper thin hair.
huge greasy nose.
gorilla face.
little white short shorts.
black and blonde hair.
totally fake, all make-up.
does shit with every guy.
walking std.
icky spaced out ridged teeeth.
puussy and ignores people cause there scared to hear the truth.

and i don't know what to do, i tryed saying sorry and makeing up with her but she just stared at me the whole time and made rude faces.
and it's really bothering me because she says such rude things about me.PLEASE HELP ME FIND OUT WHAT TO DO.. :(

Q: Is it just me? Or questions on this site getting stupider and stupider? I mean, you should come to this site and talk about your problems, and try to get them worked out. More and more I'm seeing people talk about Myspace and things that they could really find else where. Is it just me? Or dose someone else out there agree that this needs to be cut down jus a bit

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