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best friend gone...
my best friend in the entire world isnt speaking to me!! i dont even know what i did wrong, and she just wont tell me. whenever i approach her she just turns around. any ideas how i can find out whats wrong?
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what i did was, talk to her mom. if you talk to her mom on the phone and tell her "hey, something is up with ____ she wont talk to me and i really dont understand what i did wrong. can you talk to her for me and see whats up?" i did that and i found out what was wrong. if that doesnt work, try talking to her friends and see whats wrong from them. you can also give her some treats and presents and show her you care about her, and then tell her, i dont know what i did, but i want to find out what i did, but i cant do that unless you actually tell me. if you tell me what i did wrong, we can make this friendship work.
I hope I helped!
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The same thing happened to me awhile ago. She wouldn't even talk to me. Then I asked some of the people she talked to & I found out it was becasue she thought I liked her boyfriend, which I def didn't. So just ask people you both talk to and trust. You don't want to ask any random people and have her find out and be even more mad at you.
I hope I helped <33
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well you could send her emials or you could ask your friends she is probably really hurt so becareful wat you say just in case she thinks you are talking behind her back also healing takes time maybe soon enough she will be ready to take your peace offerings.so never stop trying
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There are many reasons why she could be mad at you.Do you flirt with a guy she likes?Did you talk about her behind her back?Do you do drugs or smoke now(mabey she found out)Did you CHANGE in ANY WAY???Ask yourself that.Go ask and make your freind listen to you(if you have NO idea what you did)and ask her what was it that you did wrong.You HAVE to get her to listen.Even if it means GOING to her house uninvited.You cant lose your best freind THAT easily!!
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if she wont speak 2 you at all, try getting another friend too ask her, maybe she'll tell her.
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If you can't think of anything that you may have done to upset her, write her a note asking her to explain why she is acting the way she is.
Tell her that you are confused because as far as you are aware you have done nothing wrong.
It is possible that someone has said something to her concerning you and she cannot ask you straight out.
Tell her that you consider her to be your very best friend and are hurt that she will not talk to you now.
If she refuses to acknowledge your letter, there is not a lot you can do about that. However, if you are friendly with her Mum, ask her if she knows what is wrong.
I hope that you can sort out this mess and I wish you the best of luck. Best friends are really hard to come by so when you have found one, stick with it if at all possible.
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