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so at times i get sooo depressed that all i do is cry and yell and im never fully happy and i think there is something wrong with me. one time i even took pills not to kill myself but in hopes id end up in the hospital just so people would finaly notice i exist (my friends. and family) what can i do to be happy? i want to be. but i cant talk to my friends or family about it..
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i understand wat you mean it is hard to talk to others really hard everyone has their own life and they dont understand what i did wich realy suprisingly helped becaame a christian and i still have doubts about god but i dont care now i know he is up there and his job is to care and love you for you and he doesnt nag like pearents hahaha i dont know wat your religion is or if you have one but i seggust you have one and i know that probably everyone else who gave you advice probably gave you there email and said you can talk to me but i mean it with all my heart right now i think i am probably going through alot of wat you are and it may help to talk to me mizztalk_alot@hotmail.com if you dont want to talk to me thats ok too.it may help for you to start a journal or poetry listen to music and think of happines maybe one day when you work up the courage you can talk to a family member who you trust but dont do it unless YOU think it is the right thing to do because only you know wat is going on your head and pills and stuff wont fix it i promise you that
EMAIL ME if you want i will be happy you care about your self enough to take the next step also even if you dont want to talk about your problems i am here to let you know you matter lol now if you arent afraid of the creepiness lol
goodluck hope i helped
dont worry life will get better
~nikki~
lalagurly
mizztalk_alot@hotmail.com or my inbox
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The thing is you have to learn to accept yourself-you are good at something and maybe you're not paying enough attention to yourself to figure that out. Make some "you" time and you'll realize how much you appreciate yourself. The thing I've learned is to stop craving attention from others-if you want to be noticed then get to know youself...Self love is just as important as anything anyone else can give you. Keep a positive attitude. Get all giddy for things that most people would overlook. There is so much to love about this world that we don't invest enough of our time to. Reach out to others and be the one people could turn to. If will give you a lot of confidence to find out how many people will look up to you and you'll feel more caring too.
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Nowdays depression seems to be a normal part of life for teenagers, if ur not a teenager you need to see a therapist asap. If you are one you still need to see a therapist. Surround yourself by people that care about you. Over the years i'v realized that depression can be suppressed by changing your atmosphere. Where do you spend most of your free time? If it's in your room, redecorate your room. if you spend most of your time at work, decorate your work area. Put pictures up if people you love. Be very social, it'll help you deal with your depression.
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Being happy isnt about having what you want,its about wanting what youve GOT.If you keep whining about how your life sucks god can take it away because there are MANY people living a life lower than yours.I think you should turn to religion,because if you seek God,he WILL help you.But if you are far away from him...why should he??Being close to God makes you see life in a more beautiful way.These pills can kill you and you DO know that killing yourself is a huge sin in islam,christianity and jeudism.What are you going to gain out of that?Losing your LIFE ANNND afterlife.Why do that when you can see life in a beaautiful way?If you pay attention in your studies you will grow up going to a GREAT college and have a GREAT jjob and become RICH and successful and youre NOT going to accheive that success by killing yourself.Im sure alot of people care about you.You just think they dont because you probably lock the door and stay in your room crying all day and when they ask you whats wrong you say "nothing"HOW are they suppoesd to know if you never tell them?Theres this proverb that says "whoso neglects learning in his youth has lost his past and is dead for the future"if you sit around all day crying about how sucky your life is it aint gonna get any better than this.You might even lose it all because you werent greatful.You need to have an aim,a GOAL in your life,and to acheive it you need to take your first step.But a thousand mile journey starts with one step at a time.If you need more help,send me a question in my inbox or in my yahoo email,french_chick2005@yahoo.com
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