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ok so i am entering a youtube contest where you have to interview your guinea pig. the best vid wins. i really want to win very bad and i have no interview ideas so that i can interview my guinea pig. can yu give me some hilarious interview topics and questions and ideas? thank you so much! xxx
The best video is gonna be funny, but it is also gonna be educational...
How does your guini pig feel about being a rodent? Does he/she feel rats give rodents a bad image?
Guini pigs live 5-7 years, is yours middle-aged, young, old?
The point is, google guini pigs, find out some interesting info about them, and then figure out a way to turn that into a question...for example; their teeth grow continuiously their whole life, so you could say something like, "I've been told your teeth never stop growing...do you think flossing is important?" (OK, that one's kind of dorky, but you get the point.) GOOD LUCK!
18/f
I have been seeing an ex again and he makes me happy (he is only an ex because i fell out with im his sister) very happy but my parents hate him so much. i want to be with him and like wise but he said to me 'i want to be with you but not as a secret, let me know when u have told your mum' what am i to do tell her and win him or dont tell her and loose him?
You can date whoever you want, but just remember that your parents are the best friends you will ever have in this world, and all they want is what's best for you. Only you know whether they hate him just because they don't think anyone is good enough for their little girl, or if they have good reasons for hating him. To tell the truth, it kind of sounds like he is a little controling and plays some mindgames. Who is he to determine or insist how you handle your own parents. your relationship with your parents is YOUR relationship, and he has no business trying to cause drama, or intrude at all. If it were me, I'd tell him exactly that, because you gotta set things straight from the beginning, or else he will always try to control your relationships with other people.
hi i have seen my brouthers friend a cupplet of times and today i saw him see i went to my brothers group called younge fire fitter and he is aparelty he has a eating disorder and can anlly eat chips and tosto but i love him and i only get to see him ones a year or 2 if i am luckly but i dont now if he likes me and really cute and i dont now what i should do plz help p.s thank you for lissening xx
Know how you have to look at this? Girls in his life are gonna come and go, but you're more special than they are. He respects you, he's gonna always look out for you because you are his friend's sister. I know it's not exactly how you would like it, but you guys are in a really hard place. He knows if he gets with you and it doesn't work, he is ruining his friendship with your brother (and your brother would probably be really upset), but even if he gets with you and it does work, his friendship with your brother will never be the same, and all of his friends will not really trust him anymore, cuz you're not supposed to mess around with your friend's sisters.
If you tell him how you feel, he might say "I gotta be with her,who cares if my friendship is over?" But chances are he will probably start acting differently towards you, and he might even feel uncomfortable being around you. I think it might be best if you kept this crush to yourself, maybe flirted a teeny little bit with him every once in a while, and appreciate the fact that he will always look out for you.
I need a cute nuckname for my bf we r both 14. Hez really shy, he haz a sense of humor, he tries hiz best 2 make me smile, he cares for me, he haz red hair n hez taller thn me. He callz me some nicknamez such az princess, hot stuff, n sexy. I asked if he wanted me 2 giv him a nickname n he sayd kinda. I gav him some but he didn't like thm such az: my prince, cuti, dummpling, Romeo, sweetheart n much more. I ran out of ideaz n I need some help thx :)
People love the sound of their own name. Try to find some kind of cute, special way to say his name, or add on to his name. Everyone calls their boyfriend sweetheart, dumpling, stuff like that. Give him a name that nobody else uses, so it will be something special just from you.
what's the right age to use vibrator ..?
I don't think there is a right or a wrong age, but there is plenty to explore about your body sexually by your self before you start bringing in extra gadgets. Masturbation is quite natural at any age, and if you have thoroughly gotten to know yourself with your own two hands, then you can bring in a vibrator for something new if you feel you need to.
18/f
My boyfriend is 20. The reason why I call him my boyfriend, is because we recently broke up but we still act like a couple. So here's the story...
I actually texted him asking if he was disappointed because I didn't kiss him all day because he came over to my sister's apartment and we ate dinner. And he said that I was really sharp and that he was disappointed, and that he was actually looking forward to it. So he confirmed that I was moving on. I was like, "I thought that's what you wanted, you would be more relieved." And he was like, "yeah but it would be upsetting honestly." And I actually told him that I was hoping that he would do it instead because I always had to make the first move. He said that he wasn't sure if he should or not, because he thought that it would eventually lead to sex. I was like, "I'm on my period...." How could it lead to sex when I'm on my period. -__-"
So I also saw him this morning before he went to work. He laid next to me for a while, and he asked me the most funniest questions ever. "Do you wanna kiss?" my response was, "what?? I didn't think people usually ask." And later on he forgot about it. I felt bad because he was hugging me and I wasn't really acting like anything. So I turned around and hugged him. Guess what? He kissed me. I got that feeling, you know that feeling when you're happy? My heart literally felt like it fell into my stomach or something, and it was beating really fast. After he kissed me, he went back to hug me and it was just silent, but comfortable. And then I was like, "are you happy now?" And he was like, "about what?" And I was like, "nvm... I thought you were happy. lol" And he just kissed me again and smiled.
I feel bad, because he said that he wanted to have sex kinda. But he told me that even if I wanted it, reject him because of "man's integrity or man's pride"?? something like that. He says that he would draw a line when it comes to our relationship, such as not acting like a couple and stuff. He says that he will become that person. So he may draw the line again (his 3rd time). Do you really think he is if he already crossed the line 3 - 4 times??
Later on we went to go eat frozen yogurt, it was cold. And he offered just to eat outside, he didn't hold my hand, or kiss me afterwards. He was kinda acting... Cold hearted again.
So I was really upset, but I didn't show it. And then when we were driving back I just looked around and he was like, "Can I call you big eyed beauty for now on??" And he goes, "pear face beauty.... Round face beauty. Round eyed beauty.. etc." And when he dropped me off at my house, I forgot what happened but I remember that I said, "NUH UHH... You didn't hug me when I was cold." and he was like, "my work place was really hot so I was enjoying the cool air." And I was like, "you barely held my hand... etc." And I wasn't paying attention to his excuses. And he was like, "okay come here." And he tried pulling me towards him to give me a kiss and a hug. But I just sat there not wanting to move. And he was like, "okay. fine." And I left.
There was a conversation in the car when I was like, "what would you do if my job was to stand outside of an athletic store, advertising while wearing my bikini?" And he was like "I wouldn't do anything about it, but I would mind though." And I told him at the yogurt place that he lost some points from me because he wouldn't hug me, and he was like "haha, ok." like it was nothing! He's good at hiding his feelings so I wasn't sure if he was bothered by it, upset because of it, or he really didn't care. Or maybe he thought I was joking?? HELP!
I'm gonna tell you the truth, but you're not gonna want to hear it. First of all, you are acting a little like a needy ten year old, and second of all, you're expecting him to read your mind, and be all romantic and snuggly, but you're not willing to give him the same. It's like everything with you is this constant need to keep proving he cares, and then when he does that, there's something else he's supposed to do to prove he cares, yet again, except you don't tell him he was supposed to do it until you're upset that he hasn't done it. Think about how you would feel if you had to deal with a person who was always questioning, who analyzed every little detail, and needed constant reassurance. It's way too much work, and even worse, it makes you come off like you're so insecure and needy.
It seems to me like either he really just doesn't care about you like you want him to, and you are refusing to accept it, or he really does care about you, but and you just can't deal with it so you are sabotaging your relationship. You know which one it is, so just be honest with yourself.
I have been married a little over a year. I didnt know my husband very long before we got married but I loved him I know I did and I still do but he wont work, he doesnt help with house work unless i beg him to please help me. He complains when i go to work and has to stay home with our daughter. I have a 3 year old son who isnt is. But my son knows him as his father. It just seems like he is constantly yelling at him. Hes spanked him before and left a big hang print but he doesnt touch him now since i yelled about it and made him apoligize. We have been arguing a lot. We have our good days and our bad but it seems to just get worse. Weve has fights were hes taken a part off my car so i couldnt leave but he told me to get the F out. I love him and care about him I just dont know what to do. I am looking for support and advice and your opinion please and thank you
It is hard to be a step parent, but I think it's even harder to be a biological parent trying to be fair to everyone. Your always in the middle, and no matter how much your husband likes your son, there is always a part of both of you that will remember.
It is VERY common for people in this situation, especially women, to notice every time we think we spot a difference or an unfairness, and you may not accept your husband acting in a certain way towards your son, when it may be totally acceptable if he were to give your daughter a spanking. My suggestion to you is to listen to your heart. If you feel as if your husband really loves your son, but is going through all of the difficulties and emotions that any normal man in his position would do, than you have to lighten up and let him know you value his opinion. If you're going to be with him, you will have to be a united team. I have been in this situation, and I think it's best for you to follow your motherly instincts, but to a point. If you instinctively feel like your husband is a good guy, than you have to trust he is going to do what he thinks is best, for the most part, and understand that everyone makes mistakes. Realize, too, that it puts your son in a very uncomfortable position when he hears you arguing, or even senses tension between you. It is hard for every child, but especially confusing for "step" children because of their already precarious relationship. Just make sure you are very careful in what your son hears, and know that little children have remarkable memories and patterns you start now will grow out of control. Never let on to your son that you think your husband favors your daughter. That should be a moot issue in your household, and if you and your husband ever do discuss it, you should be out of the house and completely alone. Don't say things when you think the kids are sleeping because it only takes one conversation to put questions of inferiority in their mind.
Also, accept the fact that your relationship is supposed to be a mess. Noone said this was going to be easy. One great thing you can do for your husband is realize that it is harder to be the parent who stays home than it is to be the one who goes to work, and that is especially hard for a man becuase of social norms and customs. Many people probably tease him about being effeminate.
Plus, when things are going wrong with you, Mr. Wonderful always seems to walk into your life telling you how he could treat you better, and some of your friends are in new relationships and so in love, and it seeems like other guys give you more attention than your getting from your man at home. Pay no attention to that. That's crap and in a couple of years Mr. Wonderful is going to be long gone, your friends are going to be arguing, and guys are always going to pay you attention.
Don't be a sucker, either, and don't let this guy walk all over you, or ever hit you, but at the same time, you are a family. Make sure you remember to be thankful for what you have more than you're wishing for something you don't. it takes two to argue; the only innocent people in this situation are your children, so don't be wishy-washy.
Well not exactly a bad person, I just feel like a weird creep inside. I don't hurt anyone, I never get into trouble either. The thing is that I think I'm kind of slow, I miss good opportunities & I'm shy. I'm m/15. There is this addiction I have. It's not drugs or anything, it's pornography. And after I finish, I feel like an evil, dirty, creep. Then I highly regret looking at it. BUT after a day or so, I feel a need to look at it. I try to quit but I keep breaking the streak. I feel as if pornography messes up my soul & social life. It's like I'm tired of doing it, but I cannot stop. It's also a weird kind of pornography. I don't consider it gay, I DO NOT GET TURNED ON BY GUYS, I WOULD NOT EVEN THINK OF EVEN getting with one, no interest at all. I love girls. But the pornography type it transexual. I started by accident too. I was scrolling down thinking it's a girl then suprise. I do not look at gay porn. See I think the femininism & unusualness turned me on. But I cannot see a guy nude. I cannot stop.WTH!
I think one of the hardest things about addiction is that it is almost like self-punishment. Like you don't look at the pornography to get off sexually, but to punish yourself. I don't know if perhaps you were molested as a child, but somewhere along the line you picked up the message that you are a freak, a creep, undeserving, gross, a pig, a weight on the world, and you ritually punish yourself for such. I am no psychologist, so my opinions are about as valuable as spit and hot air, but it seems to me that you might want to start with the attraction to transsexuals. Are perhaps you really attracted to men but don't want to admit it to yourself, or is there some connection with a "powerful" male that you would like to emasculate? For example, if your father or stepfather was always telling you that you were a piece of shit. It could also be that you are curious about the penis, seeing it as power, or some other object. Maybe you feel as if porn is demoralizing to women, and since there are women you love in your life, you can't bring yourself to demoralize them, but it's ok if it's a male. I mean, before you even get to the root, there are so many layers of what makes you you.
"There is a certain way of being human that is my way. I am called upon to live my life this way, and not in imitation of anyone else's life. But this notion gives a new importance to being true to myself. If I am not, I miss the point of my life; I miss what being human is to me...Being true to myself means being true to my own originality, which is something only I can articulate and discover. In articulating it, I am also defining myself. I am realizing a potentiality that is properly my own." Taylor "The Politics of Recognition"
I would also like to add a side-note, which I know will make no difference to the way you feel about yourself...There is nothing wrong with porn. Enjoying it doesn't make you anything worse than a natural human being. I don't know what idiot started the whole rumor that sex is bad, but that is a lie. Sex is natural, and the image of sex is particularly interesting to us. We can't help but look at living things when they have sex. you're not being fair if you punish yourself for being human.
20F.
So I've always thought one of my guy friends were hot. He had a girlfriend for about 3 years, they finally broke up recently. I think they still might have sex though because that's the only person he gets it from. Anyways one night me and him were texting and I decided I wanted to have sex with him. We basically established we'd be fuck buddies or friends with benefits, whatever you want to say.
The question I'm asking is, would it be weird for me to say I'd only have sex with him if he stops having sex with his ex girlfriend? Do friends with benefits do that? Haha I don't really know. Or should I not care who he's having sex with, I just find it a little weird if I had sex with him and he is also having sex with another girl too. Maybe I shouldn't really care as long as I'm getting it from him!?
Please don't tell me not to, or that it's wrong, or anything else I just need people who are going to help me because this is the first time being friends with benefits with someone I'd like to know how it exactly works!
It depends on whether you are developing real feelings for him or just disgusted in the knowledge he could have sex with another woman directly before having sex with you. Maybe without a shower. And every time you lay in his bed you know that someone else has been there too. I have never seen a friends with benefits situation where it wasn't understood by both people that one of them wanted more. Of course, the one who wants more plays the game and acts like they're ok with it, but they're not fooling anyone. The one who doesn't want more gets to tell themselves what a great person they are for being honest and not leading anyone on. If you are developing feelings for him you should come out and tell him what's up. Tell him that you don't expect him to be exclusively with you, and you don't even know what you're going to do about it, but you felt it only fair to let him know where your head was at.
What does it mean when you keeping thinking about one of your exs when you have a boyfriend? Should i take it as a sign?? What does it mean..
It means different things. Sometimes it's just innocent, like you run into your ex, or someone mentions his name, and you start thinking about the good times, and it can even hurt because it's really hard to let a person go. Even if you don't really like your ex, it's always hard when he gets a new girl, and all of a sudden you'll start wondering if you could get him back, or if he likes her better than he liked you...Sometimes, you are having issues with your current boyfriend so you start thinking about how it was with your ex and wondering if you didn't have it better before. It's definately normal to think about your ex, but it's not normal to think about him constantly. I wouldn't take it as a sign, though, because then you're just looking for trouble. Don't do anything drastic. If this is something that has just started happening, try to understand why you're feeling this way, and how you're actually feeling. Have a good conversation with you, and spend most of the time listening. If you find that you truly have feelings for your ex, you don't necessarily have to share that information with your boyfriend, but you definately should not start flirting with your ex and trying to test out the waters unless you break up with your boyfriend. I know it would suck if you were to break up with your boyfriend only to find out that your ex isn't interested, but if you start flirting with your ex when you still have a boyfriend, your ex will think you're a cheat, and he won't take the relationship seriously. Not to mention, you will really hurt your boyfriend because it is painful to get cheated on. See, there's so much to think about. Just take it slow and be honest with yourself, and don't make any sudden decisions.
I don't know what to do with him! I found out from my bff that my bf made a facebook group thing about our relationshp. I went and red a few things on it and it is personal and nothing anybody should know but us so I told him I knew he had a secret he was keeping from me but not what it was so he would tell me or something but he didn't. i kinda thought that he posted stuff and didn't think it was bad and I wanted to give him chances to say so but he just said he didnt have no secrets so i went back to read the rest and he had made it private only so now it is hidden from me.
I guess what I am asking is if he didn't think this was wrong why did he hide it when i found out? He still denies everything and now i got no proof because i cant see it anymore!!! i have been crying about this and i feel betrayed like he has a secret life on facebook or something! should i stay with him if he isn't going to be honest and still hides things?
Sorry if this is too long!
It sounds like he is making your relationship into a public joke/soap opera. Even worse, he hid it from you. I'm not exactly sure how that whole thing works because I thought if you were his friend you could see anything on his facebook, but I'll take your word for it.
It could be that he didn't realize how bad it was, and now he's rereading it through your eyes. Give it a little time to see what happens. By a little time, I mean til the end of the day.
Also, you don't need to play coy when it comes to something as important as your private life. The next time you bring it up, don't bother to ask him if there's anything he needs to tell you, or play any of those games. Just come right out and say that your life and your relationship is PRIVATE, and how the hell would he like it if you were to make a few little details of his life the butt of a few jokes. Mention, also, that of course you would never do that because you have class.
Chances are, he will realize that he is making a mistake. He probably doesn't really get it; boys don't think anything like girls do, so it's likely he thinks it is just an innocent joke. If he doesn't take you seriously, let him know you think it's a damn shame that he's so boring that he can't find anything else to talk about besides you.
Also, don't EVER confront your man until you have gathered all the facts. You should have copied that whole page before you confronted him about it so he wouldn't have the chance to fib.
I always have a best friend every year, and the same always happens. She betrays me. And we're not friends anymore. Now I'm trying to avoid that to happen again. Please give me advice on how to do that!
Make yourself your best friend.
We'll start off with some history.. I met this guy back in Feburary or March, we met through my boyfriend at the time, and he lived right across the street from me. He was living there with his fiance and her child (her child w/ another man, he met her when she was pregnant and was there from them on). So, I started to hang out with them more and more. And as the time went on, he (we'll call him Tyler) started flirting with me, and telling me he thought I was hot and what not. We (me, him and his gf) went to the beach together, and while his gf (we'll call her Shannon), was on the beach, too cold to come in the water, we went. That's when he invited me to come to his dad's house where he's living at this point due to legal obligations, to stay for the night. I said yes. On the way home, we did something really stupid, and the police were looking for us, so I left, going back home, across the street. I ran back over to give them something I had of theirs I had in my purse, and they invited me in. At 9:30, Tyler said he had to go home for curfew (legal curfew), and I said I had to go home too. We walked out of the apartment, and in the stair well he asked me if I still wanted to come over. I said yes. We went to his house, and slept together. The next day, he got arrested. He went to jail for a week, and when he got out, I was there, because I was babysitting for Shannon while she was at his bail court. When he was leaving, he waited until Shannon was out of the room, and he kissed me. Then he came back for something, and we made out for a minute, he told me he missed me while he was in, and he left. From this point on, he was living in Barrie with him mom, because he was banned from our city. We were talking the whole time, over Facebook. Finally, Shannon took his phone, and found all the msgs back and forth. She snapped. They stayed together. He went back to jail, for 60 days this time. He got out on August 3rd, readded me to facebook, and we talked ever since. We're together now, and he went back to jail on August 11th. He's serving 3-6 months. Shannon and him aren't together anymore, she has a new boyfriend. She didn't even have the decentcy to tell him that it was over, he got out (when he was in for 60 days) thinking they were together, and she's in a relationship on facebook.When we talked while he was out, I found out a lot.. like, she's cheated on him with 6 diffrent guys through out the relationship, including the boyfriend I met them through, and she's extreamly abusive. She's also bi-polar and has a slight bit of skitzophrenia. Now, the point of this question... He's been having a really hard time dealing with the fact that she's not going to let him see "his" son anymore, and just the whole situation. Now that he's in jail again, it's really hard dealing with everything, and it's really hard to love someone who's just not there. I'd just like some advice on what I can say, to help him through everything, and how to deal with this myself. We write eachother all the time, and he's going to call me, so just keep in mind thats out means of communication. Anything is helpful.. please don't tell me I shouldn't be with him, because he's in jail. He's made mistakes, he's a good person.
I'm going to give you the advice, but you're not going to want to hear it. You should think of Tyler as a friend. Keep in contact with him, but tell him you're not thinking about having a relationship with him. You can even tell him that at one point you would love to be able to have a relationship with him, but right now you can tell he needs to spend some time thinking about himself.
As his "friend," you will be able to give him advice differently than you can as his girlfriend. Tyler is all over you because he is attracted to that giving part of you. This doesn't necessarily mean he's a taker, but it does mean that it's very easy to hop the fence into enabeling.
Tyler may be a good person, but he's just not ready for a relationship. You are not going to be able to save him, and he is obviously looking to have a child. It sounds like you would love that idea.
You know how Tyler's relationship is with his stepson, so you know if he really loves the boy, or if it's just an excuse to stay next to this girl. If he truly loves the child, stay out of it.
No matter what the future holds, this person could really use a good friend right now, and so could you. You should concentrate on being that to eachother, and if it's right the rest will come.
My husband has been on short term leave from work for about three months now. could this be why we are not getting along and dont agree on anything right now? Normally he works out of town and comes home on the weekends.
A change in schedule is stressful for both parties, plus, you're both kind of used to doing things on your own. It will take a little time to adjust. It's ok to disagree, as long as you respect eachother's feelings.
It's normal for people to go through phases. All marraiges go through times when you feel as if you can't stand your partner. He knows the deal-breakers and so do you, so if you want to stay together, don't cross them and your marraige will last. Don't forget to be best friends.
okay sooooo heres the story:
i was getting ready to go baby sit for my neighbor which i would do on a regular basis
i had my shoes on and was walking out the door when she called me and she said
\"the doc said i cant go back to work\"
so i was like why didnt you tell me this earlier? i was over there because i took her daughter to the pool.. she said she didnt kno until then. that sent me through the roof so i was like no thats b.s you dont just not know when you can go back to work.. so we got in a hugge argument which lead to my mom and her arguing( they were friends)
which led to my neighbor saying that i said i didnt wanna watch her kids anymore which i would never say cause i love her kids to death. but anyways, that was about a month ago and we havent spoke then she moved out but was in the process of moving out at the time. but i dont like having unresolved issues.
shoulld i call her?
should i wait for her to call me?
and if i call her what do i even say?
Try to see things from her point of view; she's going through a tough time, sick, out of work, raising kids, and the fist thing on her mind might not have been clearing everything with you. You're not a parent yet, but when you are you will realize that your family depends on you, and it is very scary to be sick. She was probably hoping right up until the last moment she could get back to work....
This is not to say that she didn't totally take you for granted, or consider that you might have been counting on her.
I really don't know, because I'm not there, but I'm sure there are some things you might have done differently if you put yourself in her shoes. If you think you owe her an apology, you should call her and give her one, even if she owes you an apology too. It kind of sounds like you and your mom might have ganged up on her a little, and she already had alot on her mind.
I signed up for college and start my classes this week but I have a big problem. I applied and got a big student loan to carry me through this year of college or whatever and I just don't know about being able to repay it later. They want me to repay it 2 years after I graduate and I'm like I don't think that might happen because of the economy and how hard it is to find a job. I'm going to be like a teacher maybe but I'm just starting out with basic classes. What happens if I can't repay the college loans anyways though?
I go to school now, so I haven't started repaying any loans, but from what I can tell, the program is very fair. Don't even think about not paying them back, because if you borrowed from the government, there's just no way to avoid it. Think of it as a forced good credit rating. It seems, though, that the program is very fair, and as long as you are giving it an honest effort, they're willing to work with you. Recently, Obama relaxed the payments. It used to be that a person had to pay back at least $40.00 per month, but now it goes by a small percentage of your income. Just remembre this, the more you borrow, the more you're going to have to pay back, so don't borrow just because you can. I know so many people who get it all in one lump and spend it all before the middle of the semester. Please put yourself on an allowance and pay your monthly bills through January right now, so you don't have to think about it again. Don't go overboard on Christmas, etc., play up that "broke" college student. Don't loan money to your friends and family.
I am 39, going back to college, and the one thing I can tell you is you will want a decent credit rating when you get older. It will be the difference between whether you own a house, or whether you rent an apartment. Don't worry about paying back the loan, just yet, worry about budgeting your money.
I had sex with my boyfriend and got pregnant, confirmed by 7 tests two months ago (yeah LOL i didnt wanna believe it). I have morning sickness sometimes but not too bad I don't think. Anyway I know Im going to start showing some time and get a big belly and dont want my parents to know I'm pregnant. I was thinking to tell them like right before I give birth and then they can't really be that mad because the baby will be coming so quickly then. How can I hide that I'm pregnant? I want to hide that I'm pregnant from my parents so I can't figure it out. They don't even know I had sex. Should I wear big sweatshirts and oversized hoodies? A girl at my school said it would work. I was also thinking of like trying to gain a bunch of weight so they think I'm just getting fat? help
Well, it's not all about you, anymore, and so you don't have the luxury of being an immature baby and lying to your parents. You have to think about what's best for your child. Judging from your words, it sounds like you have chosen to have this baby, and so he/she is going to need medical care. How would you feel if you were to lie to your parents until you had the baby, only to find out your child suffers from a condition for the rest of it's life that could have been prevented? OK, I might be making things sound a little serious, and chances are, your baby is heathy and beautiful, but you are a mom now, and you have to act responsibly.
One more thing. Remember--NOONE has the right to tell you what to do with your baby and your body. This is legally YOUR decision to make, but I would want to hear what my family had to say so they could give me advice.
This is not a test, this is real life, and you want your baby to be born with all of the things he/she is going to need. The longer you wait, the less time you have to prepare. Your parents have jobs and lives and you are being completely selfish by thinking it's ok to throw this at them last minute. Stop being a baby and start thinking about what's best for your baby. You have to be the strong mature one because this baby is an innocent life, it didn't ask to be born, and it deserves the best mom you can be.
Girls Out There, Do you all notice when a guy is staring at your boobs or butt? How do you feel about that,do you just want to smack him on the side of the head or do you care at all?If u don't care would you show them off on sometimes just to get a guys attention?I just want to know how girls think
I'll expect guys to stop checking me out when I'm ready to stop checking them out--never! As long as he is a gentleman he can flatter me all he wants.
Before I start please don't judge me.
I am a girl who uses craigs list to find gigs in dallas area to supplement my exotic dancing career. I do bachelor parties and stuff.
Today I log on to craigslist.com and it takes me to my local one: http://dallas.craigslist.org/ and where it says adult services it now say "Censored". I read some stuff but I don't get it. It says it is still there but only people from certain places can see it?
How do I get around this censoring so I can get back to work?
Oh and why did craigslist censor adult things anyway?
It all started with the Craigslist Killer. That ass ruined it for everyone. It is dangerous, though, the way things were going. You always gotta make sure you can walk out of there, and with the craigslist ads, it took women's intution right off the table. You've already gotten yourself into a situation before you've had a chance to know what it really is. Stay safe. Call clubs and do amatuer nights. That way you're in a public place and protected.
I been dating this girl for about 4 months now and we've been having sex all the time. I'm 22 and she told me she just turned 18 when we hooked up at first. Last night she stayed at my house and was like she needed to tell me something and told me she's really 15. I dont know what to do because that's illegal and I dont want to be put in jail for this. I'm getting paranoid she's going to tell her folks and her parents are going to press charges since she's underage / a minor. What do I do?
I can't tell you what to do, but the law doesn't want to hear that she lied about her age. As an adult, you're supposed to be responsible for knowing that a child is a child, no matter how grown up they want to pretend they are.
I know that some girls really look older, but come on, you couldn't tell for 4 months that this girl was young? Are you totally lost, just being pulled about through life by the call of pussy?
It is time for you ito wake up and start participating in your life. Stop doing things just becuase you can and start to think about the consiquences and how your actions affect other people.