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neighbor arguments
okay sooooo heres the story:
i was getting ready to go baby sit for my neighbor which i would do on a regular basis
i had my shoes on and was walking out the door when she called me and she said
\"the doc said i cant go back to work\"
so i was like why didnt you tell me this earlier? i was over there because i took her daughter to the pool.. she said she didnt kno until then. that sent me through the roof so i was like no thats b.s you dont just not know when you can go back to work.. so we got in a hugge argument which lead to my mom and her arguing( they were friends)
which led to my neighbor saying that i said i didnt wanna watch her kids anymore which i would never say cause i love her kids to death. but anyways, that was about a month ago and we havent spoke then she moved out but was in the process of moving out at the time. but i dont like having unresolved issues.
shoulld i call her?
should i wait for her to call me?
and if i call her what do i even say?
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Try to see things from her point of view; she's going through a tough time, sick, out of work, raising kids, and the fist thing on her mind might not have been clearing everything with you. You're not a parent yet, but when you are you will realize that your family depends on you, and it is very scary to be sick. She was probably hoping right up until the last moment she could get back to work....
This is not to say that she didn't totally take you for granted, or consider that you might have been counting on her.
I really don't know, because I'm not there, but I'm sure there are some things you might have done differently if you put yourself in her shoes. If you think you owe her an apology, you should call her and give her one, even if she owes you an apology too. It kind of sounds like you and your mom might have ganged up on her a little, and she already had alot on her mind.
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