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is it worth the risk to tell my mom about him? He doesn't want to be a secret anymore!
18/f
I have been seeing an ex again and he makes me happy (he is only an ex because i fell out with im his sister) very happy but my parents hate him so much. i want to be with him and like wise but he said to me 'i want to be with you but not as a secret, let me know when u have told your mum' what am i to do tell her and win him or dont tell her and loose him?
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You dont have to be afraid to tell your parents about your love.. But when you tell them try to understand their feelings maybe they feel like this boy is taking you away from them... let them know that no matter what you will always be their little girl and you love them.. also remind your boyfriend that he needs to respect your parents and earn their respect... he needs to treat you well and be kind and they will in time see that he is right for you good luck
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You can date whoever you want, but just remember that your parents are the best friends you will ever have in this world, and all they want is what's best for you. Only you know whether they hate him just because they don't think anyone is good enough for their little girl, or if they have good reasons for hating him. To tell the truth, it kind of sounds like he is a little controling and plays some mindgames. Who is he to determine or insist how you handle your own parents. your relationship with your parents is YOUR relationship, and he has no business trying to cause drama, or intrude at all. If it were me, I'd tell him exactly that, because you gotta set things straight from the beginning, or else he will always try to control your relationships with other people.
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I agree with Zane but on the other hand your parents might have a reason or two why they hate him im not telling you to lose the guy because you have to follow your heart but as the saying goes parents know best but then again sometimes their just trying to protect you from getting hurt but they cant protect you from life forever
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You are an adult, You are entitled to date who ever you wish. Your parents may have their opinions but they cannot tell you who you can and cannot date as you are legally an adult. If you live under their roof then yes, They may throw the whole "Their house, There rule" at you which you would have to accept they likely would not want your boyfriend at the house. Therefore, You may need to work around it and spend time elsewhere.
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