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Hey guys! I'm Kaylie. I will be as straightforward, and honest as I possibly can. Feel free to ask me anything!
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Ok so I'm M/16. When I was like 5, me & my friend would do some sexual stuff. We got cought checking eachothers thingies. I was young & probably curious. (My friend started it) I now have a tranny porn problem. I found it by accident while looking at regular porn. I am not atracted to dudes! I am shy but theres this girl I really realy like. But this stuff is making me feel dirty & undeserving & weak. I try not to watch tranny porn. But I keep relapsing. I've never felt any "way" with a dude. But I have with girls, a few of them actually. But still, am I gay? I don't stare at behinds & bodies of girls as often as my friends. I still do though (when no ones around) So they call me gay
Of course you're going to be curious when you're little -all little kids are- , but no, you are not gay. You are really attracted to girls, and that's how you want to be. I think you need to tell your friends that you ARE attracted to girls, and that they need to quit calling you gay.
As for the porn thing, you're not going to quit watching porn, unless you do something about it. If you have any magazines or movies with porn in them, then throw them away. You have to motivate yourself to not get involved with porn and follow through with it. Believe me, I'd say at least 97% of girls hate it when guys are involved with porn.
I hope things work out for you, and if you need anything, feel free to inbox me.
umm i am13 and my breast growing right? and ive noticed one boob is bigger by a bit plz answer me cuz its a total freak out D:
You've heard that one hand/foot is bigger than the other right? It could possibly be the same for boobs. Or, it could be that one is growing faster than the other, and the other one is probably slowly growing. If you are worried, I suggest that you should go talk to a doctor. If you need anything else, please feel free to inbox me.
-Kaylie
If a guy looks you in the eye, what does it mean?
To me, when a guy looks me in the eyes, I know that he's really listening to me. I know that he really does care with what I have to say.
Also, I agree with Melwillhelpyou because it could also mean that he likes you. Do you like him back? If you do, you should tell him, and give it a shot.
If you need any other advice, feel free to inbox me. :D
ok so i came back from a school field trip yesterday and when we got there she started being a little rude to me. As the day went on she got worse. When we got back to school she was completely ignoring me. Then today I came to school with a majpr sunburn from yesterday. When i got to school she wouldnt stop hitting it. I told her to stop many, many times but she would just ignore me and hurt me more. Later on today she was eavesdropping on me and my friend and i was saying how my sunburn on my left shoulder hurts really bed so she comes and hits me x3 harder. I snap on her and start crying but she continues hitting me. Can anybody give me any advice. She has been my best friend for almost 3 years now. Thanks by the way im 12 years old and a girl she is also 12 but 1 month younger.
Sounds to me she's not being much of a best friend. Because you guys have been best friends for 3 years now, she might have started taking advantage of you. If you keep asking her to stop hitting you (don't think of this as childish, cause most of the time it works), then you need to talk to a responsible adult, and to her. If she won't stop after you talk to someone, then you need to stop being her friend. Best friends don't treat each other rudly. I hope things work out for you.
16/F
Okay, my friend always asks me how my boyfriend and I are doing and I always just reply with 'fine. After all, I like to keep my relationship with him between us, that and we're both too shy to start gushing about how we cuddle and stuff. Not to mention, our relationship involves mostly talking to each other. I like this relationship and it's my longest and best so far. Well, my friend exploded one me the other day about it and she asked what the sex was like and I was like what the heck?! She's younger than me by a few months and she already has weird problems of her own. Yet, she kept saying that I should've had sex with him by now, three months is enough. Uhm, nooo, I'm only sixteen and he's younger than me, so there's definitely no freaking way it's legal. Is there anyway I can get her to shut up about it without actually being rude? Because I think she might be trying to anatagonize me... You don't HAVE to have sex in a relationship, right? Especially at age sixteen?!
No, you don't have to have sex. In fact, you shouldn't! At least until you're married.
I think you should tell her that having sex is not what you want right now, and that she should stop bringing it up. If you feel uncomfortable with it, then tell you feel that way. If your friend is like any of mine, she'll stop talking about it when you ask her to.
my extended family ignores me at family parties. i dont know what i did
Even if you didn't do anything wrong, sometimes families can be that way. I guess it just depends on if they like you or not. Personally, I hate being ignored. Sometimes I just let them ignore me, but there are other times when I will talk to them. Since it's your family, I think you need to talk to them, and ask them if you did anything wrong. When I've asked people if I've done anything wrong, they usually tell me that I did nothing, and if I did do anything wrong, I just apologize, and fix things. I'm not saying you did anything to make them ignore you, but you just gotta communicate with them. After all, they are your family.
I hope things work out. Good luck!
OK so my husband and I have been married 3 years, and having kids is always something that "we'll have to talk about". Seriously though, my biological clock is screaming at me. My husband and I are 28 and 27 respectively. Having a baby is something we could handle. How do I bring this up to him in a way that won't freak him out or turn him off to the idea?
Thanks!
I'm sure you've heard of this a million times, but "communication is the key." If you want to have kids, then talking to your husband is definitely something you need to do. My aunt wants another baby and her husband started out not really wanting another one, but he's slowly starting to want another kid. So if you talk to your husband, I'm sure that he'll slowly want to have kids just as much as you do. Good luck, and I hope things work out for you!
now this isn't as scary as it seems i'm 22 and my bf is 25 so we are both adults. we just found out we are expecting. its a bit of a surprise but we are very excited. there is only one problem my family. i'm sure his family will be okay with it but our familys are very different. his family are very close while mine is not. since we are not married i'm scared that my parents will be upset with us even cause a fight. i'm very emotional about it and my bf keeps telling me to calm down since the stress isn't good for the baby. i'm scared and really have no one to ask about this sice only my bf and i know about the baby right now. i'm really nervous any advice on how to break the news to my parents without tears being involved. some extra information my bf and i live together for 8 months and been together for more than a year. thank you
Considering you two are adults, your parents shouldn't have to get mad at you. My advice to you is that you should just tell them...maybe in a cute way. For example, get a cute baby card, and put an ultrasound of your baby in it. That's how my parents did it for one my siblings. I hope things work out for you. Congratulations, and good luck!
what medicines can I take to end my life? Either over the counter or prescriptions?
What is wrong with your life that you want to end it so badly? Doing this kind of thing is a terrible thing to do. How much do you want to end your life? What about your family? Don't you think they would miss you? There are many stories told that people don't think that anyone cares about them, and they want to kill themselves, only to find it too late that their family misses them and loves them. I think that you should talk to someone about your situation, and get some help. You have so much life ahead of you. Don't take it away.
i am a 17 year old girl and want to date a 20 year old. i have fallen in love with him but the age is whats getting me, he will be 21 in august. should i go with him and is it completely wrong. i'm stuck, dont know wat to do. any advice will help
Honestly, age doesn't matter. I went out with a guy who was almost 4 years older than me. I think you should tell him that you like him, and see what he thinks after that. If he likes you back, then give it a shot. I think that it's worth a try, so go for it!
I am in a tricky situation where I'm trying to get with this girl. I'm not saying I haven't had my first, I'm saying I have never had a kiss with feeling. I get close to her, but can't find the opening, Im worried if I try she'll think I'm pushy. Please help
Start off by giving her a kiss on the cheek. That will usually tell you if she's ready for you to kiss her or not.
Good luck!
f/16
Okay, I'm having an movie night on the 18th and my boyfriend and I have been planning this for about a week. We're really excited to get our gang of friends together again to just hang out, but recently, one of our friends, D, got a new boyfriend after she broke up with her awesome one about two months ago. Unfortunately, the guy she chose is the one that we all hate. He was a complete jerk to her when she chose another guy over him, telling her that she was a heartbreaking bitch! It was unbelievable, and he's like twenty-years-old or something! She's bringing him over, without actually asking my permission either, which she ALWAYS does. And we're all kind of wondering what the heck we're gonna do when he comes over and everyone is just awkwardly glaring at him... How can I tell her 'no'? She'll throw a hissy fit and it'll probably ruin the mood...?
I agree with AdviceMistress. But I also think that all of you need to give him a chance when he comes over. Guys are stupid, so they say things they really don't mean. So, he could have possibly changed. That's why I say give him a chance. Talk to him, and get to know him. If you don't like what you hear (first of all, don't hate him right away when he starts talking), then talk to your friend about him.
I hope that things work out with all of you. Good luck!
Okaay , so im a 12 year old girl and i dont have my PERIOD YET.So I got a tampon and took out the plastic and just got the cotton and string i put the cotton in and just left the string out for like 3 or 4 minutes and took it out but it didn't hurt am i at risk of yeast infection please help!
Because you haven't started your period yet, I recommend that you don't put in tampons. There's no point in wasting one when you haven't started yet.
My advice to you, start out with pads, then when you get more comfortable, use tampons. But if you already feel comfortable, then go ahead and use tampons
i am a male from pakistani want to fuck my mom she is really very sexy having large boobs
Ok, you have a serious problem if you want to have sex with your mom. That is not right whatsoever, and you need to get your mind of that kind of crap, and start crushing on other girls. I don't want to sound mean, but you can't just be thinking about how "sexy" your mom is. Man up!
Well, my story is a little complicated, but it goes like this...I have been dating a guy for a while now and I believe we are a good match. We laugh together, we can have fun together, I can totally be myself when I am around him. I am so in love with him. It may be crazy to say, but I could see myself marrying him. There is just one thing getting in the way of my happiness...my ex. Everytime I am with my boyfriend, I am always comparing him to my ex (not out loud of course). Sometimes I think about my ex when my boyfriend and I are together and I just can't shake it. I am come to realize that I am jealous of my ex's new girlfriend, I'm not sure why. I wasn't with my ex as long as I have been with my current boyfriend and I know my ex and I will never work out, so why am I wondering how things would be different if we were still together? Why do I always look for him in the crowd? How can I get over him???
Sometimes I have the same problem with my ex, but I think of the more current crushes that I have, and I completely forget about him. If you start to think about your ex, then start thinking of your current boyfriend, and you won't even remember thinking about your ex.
But I do agree with Voiceofreason. The only thing you need to do is move on, and be happy with your boyfriend. Besides, if you see yourself marrying him, then you're on your way to moving on.
I am an adult, married for 18 years, work full time, and have my own business, and a family which requires the rest of my time during the week. However, there are some Saturday or Sunday afternoons I would like to meet up with friends for coffee, a movie or other outing.
I only have two friends, and they are busy like me, but I try to make time for them, but they don't reciprocate. In fact, one of them is just plain rude about not returning calls and such, I am very irritated. I don't have time to volunteer or join any groups, clubs etc. So in light of this info, how would one make new friends?
All you have to do really is go up to someone you don't really know (or don't even know at all), and just talk to them. What about your business? Maybe you could make some friends there. Trust me, talk is sometimes the only thing to make friends.
I have a friend that I like and I think he likes me too. He shows interest sometimes. My friend says he be looking at me. She thinks he likes me but is waiting for me to make the first move. But another friend said that its bad for a girl to ask a guy out and that if a guy really likes he would ask u out no matter even the fear of rejection wont stop him. Do you think that is true or could he really be scared?
I'm a girl, and I've never been asked out by a guy. I've always asked them. So, no, it's not bad that a girl asks a guy out. Go for it! Sometimes the guys like it when the girls make the first move. Good luck!!
Well first off I am a 30 year old Pastor. I have a lovely wife and 6 children with another on the way. Last night I had a few drinks and ended up having intercourse with another man. The worst part is I enjoyed it. I know Im going to hell for doing that with him. But do you think Im gay?
First of all, you were drunk. Drunk people do stupid things all the time. Because you have a wife and kids, you need to let go of the guy who is a total stranger, and spend time with your wife. She is the most special person you have ever had. Don't let her go just because you got drunk. I hope things work out for you.
My boyfriend and I get invited to the same parties, and he tells me that he doesn't want me there, so I don't go (even though i really want to), and he does go. When i say that i am going to a party he is also invited to, he will say he doesn't want to go. Should i take a hint from this or not? It just makes me feel like he doesn't want to spend time with me. Also, we have gone to parties together and it was fine, so?
To me, it sounds like he is avoiding you. It's obvious that he doesn't want to spend time with you, so you need to end it with this guy.
Good luck!!
this lad and me have started hanging out and he said he loves me i dont know if i believe him because he keeps saying its a joke then says ts not. he has hugged me alot and held my hand, even kissed me on the arm but i still dont know if he loves me?
There's two kinds of love: friend love, and love-love. It sounds to me that he love-love's you, but I think you should ask him that just to be sure. If you feel the same way about him, tell him. And the whole hugging you, holding your hand, and kissing your arm thing, that's his way of turning you on. Enjoy it because it's a rare thing that guys will do that to girls. :D Good luck!!