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Doest this make me gay?


Question Posted Friday June 17 2011, 8:06 am

Ok so I'm M/16. When I was like 5, me & my friend would do some sexual stuff. We got cought checking eachothers thingies. I was young & probably curious. (My friend started it) I now have a tranny porn problem. I found it by accident while looking at regular porn. I am not atracted to dudes! I am shy but theres this girl I really realy like. But this stuff is making me feel dirty & undeserving & weak. I try not to watch tranny porn. But I keep relapsing. I've never felt any "way" with a dude. But I have with girls, a few of them actually. But still, am I gay? I don't stare at behinds & bodies of girls as often as my friends. I still do though (when no ones around) So they call me gay

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kayliegirl125 answered Friday June 17 2011, 5:49 pm:
Of course you're going to be curious when you're little -all little kids are- , but no, you are not gay. You are really attracted to girls, and that's how you want to be. I think you need to tell your friends that you ARE attracted to girls, and that they need to quit calling you gay.

As for the porn thing, you're not going to quit watching porn, unless you do something about it. If you have any magazines or movies with porn in them, then throw them away. You have to motivate yourself to not get involved with porn and follow through with it. Believe me, I'd say at least 97% of girls hate it when guys are involved with porn.

I hope things work out for you, and if you need anything, feel free to inbox me.

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Kaye2918 answered Friday June 17 2011, 3:52 pm:
Um I think your just curious I mean I don't you got over your curiousity but you might be bisexual but if you say you don't guys sexually atractive then there is no way your guy.

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Xui answered Friday June 17 2011, 12:56 pm:
If you are not attracted to guys nor can you see yourself being with one then you are not gay.


Gay defines someone who is sexually attracted to a male.


Also, Different people like different types of porn. You like to watch older people having sex, Does this make it wrong? No. I personally also like to watch people who are older having sex. (Not that old) but my point is it is not dirty nor wrong to have fantasies. Also, Just because you checked out a few Dudes penises still does not make you gay, It makes you curious. As you stated above you were young, Nowadays if you were checking out a guys penis I would again probably say you are just curious. Unless you have sexual contact with a man you are again not gay. You shouldn't feel dirty nor weak, You are a typical teenager and again your tranny porn is just a fantasy and something you enjoy watching. Not at all something to be ashamed of.

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