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Friend is being rude
ok so i came back from a school field trip yesterday and when we got there she started being a little rude to me. As the day went on she got worse. When we got back to school she was completely ignoring me. Then today I came to school with a majpr sunburn from yesterday. When i got to school she wouldnt stop hitting it. I told her to stop many, many times but she would just ignore me and hurt me more. Later on today she was eavesdropping on me and my friend and i was saying how my sunburn on my left shoulder hurts really bed so she comes and hits me x3 harder. I snap on her and start crying but she continues hitting me. Can anybody give me any advice. She has been my best friend for almost 3 years now. Thanks by the way im 12 years old and a girl she is also 12 but 1 month younger.
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Sounds to me she's not being much of a best friend. Because you guys have been best friends for 3 years now, she might have started taking advantage of you. If you keep asking her to stop hitting you (don't think of this as childish, cause most of the time it works), then you need to talk to a responsible adult, and to her. If she won't stop after you talk to someone, then you need to stop being her friend. Best friends don't treat each other rudly. I hope things work out for you.
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Tell her in a firm projected voice, that she's not being much of a friend. She's being ANNOYING, and a PEST. Tell her, regardless of how long you tow have been friends, it doesn't give her the right to act like a complete stranger.
If she continues getting out of line, the its time to give the friendship a time out, until she knows how to act.
Good Luck
-Cinnamon B-
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