Hey. I'm in my early twenties. I'm currently pregnant with my first child...Well for a couple more days atleast :-D! I live in sunny Sun Diego. I'm married, to a Sergeant in the Marine Corps...
I am here to help and get help. I'm not trying to portray that I'm a perfect person with no problems, but I have been through alot so I figure I'd help people learn from my mistakes...
I've been through alot, from my father death, to my best death, to middle school/high school/college, bad relationships, good relationships, engagment, marriage, deployment, pregnancy, stress and depression...
I am deffinetly here to help 110 % so if you want to talk dont hesitiate i'm here for all of you...xoxox
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14/f, im 5'7
what should my weight be? like whats a healthy weight?
thanks
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140 would be your ideal weight.
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15/f
i orgasm really easily. like i spent the night at my boyfriend's house recently and during like 6 hours of sex i had 57 orgasms.
one time, when our sexual tension was really high, in 10 minutes, i managed to have about 15 orgasms.
what causes this, and is this irregular? like is something wrong?
i dont fake and i know that they are actual orgasms.
what makes this happen? (link)
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wow your a lucky girl. most men have to work hard to give a girl an orgasm...dont be worried, your just very very lucky :-D!
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Does sperm really die when it hits air/oxygen. Like from all these answers ive seen yes, but theres a few that say it doesnt?
whats the truth? jw. (link)
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Medically the doctor told me that it does. I'm pretty sure it does if I was told by my doctor. So i dont really know what to tell you besides It does...lol everyone will probably fight back and fourth on it, but i'll stick with my answer.
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mmkay, me and my boyfriend have been talking about having sex and where pretty sure we're foing to. it'll be my first time so I got a couple of questions. Like I know it hurts so like if you have to compare how much it hurts what would it hurt like? also how efffective are condoms? What are my chances of getting pregnant? what should I know before I do this? I'm sorry, I'm just really confuesed. I really think I'm ready for this and I really actually want to.
someone please help! lots of awnsers please! Thank you so much!
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Honest truth, it hurts some women there first time and then it doesnt hurt some women. The pain is bearable. Dont freak out too much about it or your just going to have yourself all worked up. Be prepared to bleed alittle though because most women do if you didnt know. Make sure he takes it slow the first couple of times.
Condoms are pretty effective, just make sure it fits him right, and make sure that if it breaks he pulls out right away.
Your chances of getting pregnant are very likely if you are safe and use a condom. Dont freak yourself out about the whole situation if your not ready dont push yourself...
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Last night i had sex with a guy and we used a condom.
He cummed in the condom and im pretty sure that there werent any holes.
Then a while later, we did it again.
We had another condom and we did it for about 5-10 minutes and then we realized there was a hole in it.
He said he took it out right when it broke,but I dont know for sure.
He said he didn't cum and I know he didn't,but I'm still worried.
Also, a few nights before he stuck in me for literally 2 seconds and he didn't cum ,but Im very scared of pregnancy.
Do you think im pregnant or is there a good chance im not?
By the way, I have an irregular period so I cant trust that exactly.
How long before side effects start to show and what will happen first?
Thanks so much! (link)
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Dont stress yourself out. Really. Relax or your not going to start your period. Stress is the number one factor to missing your period. I'm pretty sure that your okay, he pulled out, and condoms are pretty safe. But if your still worried then wait about three weeks and take a pregnancy test. But please dont stress yourself out.
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what does it mean when a girl says she's "spotting"? and how does that connect to thinking you're pregnant? (link)
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Spotting is when you bleed little bits throughout a period of time but dont actually have your period. It's usually associated with pregnancy because it happens to most pregnant women when they first get pregnant due to there period stopping.
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Yesterday I went to a funeral for a friend that recentley died (june 16, 07) Its so unreal, I cannot believe that it had happened.
Our whole school was basicly at his funeral, or thinking of him and his family.
It was so unexpected and random, why him?
I'm having sucha hard time grasping the fact that he's gone, and I could cry and cry,
I wasnt even that CLOSE to him, like some others, and I seem to be showing so much more emotions about it.
What do I do? Have any of you ever lost any friends?
he was only 16. (link)
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I actually lost three close friends in high school and my father. The way I look at things is that it's going to be hard in all reality it's hard to lose anyone to death, and it's expecially hard when you dont get to say goodbye...even if you wernt that close to that person you still have emotions towards the situation, which any person who is caresmatic would.
Losing a friend is like losing part of you, it hurts, but you cant take all the pain and put it upon yourself. I'm sure you've heard a million times that, that personw ouldnt want everyone being sad about it. But in all reality it's true, smile thing about all the good times that person shared in there life. They got to experiance life, and they were taken for a reason.
I'm not a very religious person, but i do believe that all things happen for a reason and i'm sure as hard as it is to believe that your friend is in a better place and is missing all of you but is not in pain or under stress.
I hope I helped alittle
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I'll admit this straight up, I get jealous; I'm human. It was never a huge problem because I'm happy with who I am, until I got my recent boyfriend whose known as a flirt. We've been dating for about 9 months now, and we're doing great. But I still get jealous because he'll go to movies alone with one other girl, and right now he's in Italy on a group trip with a girl who is totally in love with him. I trust him for the most part, but some nights when I sit and think about him I worry about what he might be doing. He won't be home from his trip for a few more weeks. So what can I do to stop myself from dying in jealousy, also for the future? Thank you. (link)
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I'm sorta a jealous person, but when i was younger and just in a boyfriend girlfriend commitment i was def. very jealous.
First off he should be just going to the movies with one other girl. I dont care if it is his best friend, your his girlfriend, she isnt. Even if they dont do anything, I wouldnt be okay with that. Not a cool thing to do. I'm completly serious on that one.
Second, the way i started getting over it was by just telling myself that he is either going to cheat on me or he isnt, his choice, and i always hoped for the best.
I dont know if I was much help but thats the way i use to look at things and it help. I wish you the best!
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ok, i was in the showerr, and like this kid -__- told me that you have to like do this thing, and it was basically masturbating, and my friend fell for it, and convinced me, and then so i did, and yeah, im pretty sure it was masturbating. but i was just wondering, like i know its just water, but yah.. it like hit this really sensitive spot, and then i started like twicthing, is that what happens? i mean it felt good, but weird. so i was just wondering, was that like an orgasm? anyone ever had that happen to them?? (link)
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Yeah, that is part of masturbating. I'm not thinking that was 100 percent a orgasm, i think you were working up to that point though, you'll know when you have one!!!
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when my boyfriend and i have sex, he doesnt want to finish in my vagina because i'm not on birth control and he's afraid of me getting pregnant.
what are other ways that he can finish. like i dont like the taste of semen so the mouth isnt an option.
do guys finish in a girl during anal?
what else can he do? (link)
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In all reality I hate the taste of cum too, it's not my thing. So I use to just let him come on my stomach and that really turned him on. But to each there own you know, he might want to do it somewhere else.
Also yes he can finish anal, and you wont have any problems!!!!
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is masturbating a sin (im christian) if yes, why? (link)
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In all reality what person does not maturbate? Really, I'm pretty sure your not going to go to hell for doing it. I dont think you should be stressed out about the little things in life.
:-D I hope i was some help. Masturbation is def. not as big of a sin as sex before wedlock so your not doing too bad right?
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i hav a question, i am going to a community college for two years then i plan to transfer to a 4year college as a junior. do i need to get an associates degree before transfering?i want to be a lawyer, i don't know if this has anything to do with it. help please (link)
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Yes. Why pay for your education at a community college if you dont atleast get your associates in general ed? I did it, and it worked out for the best, it's alot cheaper in the long run!!!
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I'm a 23 year old woman. I'm graduating from college by Christmas.
In the future, I really would like to get married, and most people marry someone they met in high school or college. There's no one at my college that I've met that I can see a future with. How hard is it to find your soulmate when you're out of school? (link)
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Not hard at all. Dont stress out about it, because i did and the minute i wasnt out there looking i found him. I found him where i worked, you never know where your going to meet the love of your life but dont stress yourself out. You have to make yourself happy before you get to have someone else make you happy!
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This is an amazing site, and so are the people on here and i thank everyone and anyone who reads this question.
Theres this boy, Mike. Everyone in my school hates him, I don't know why, or how, but hes gorgeous.
He wants to hook up with me, but in school, and you know, I like him and I'm up for it. But in school?? what would happen if we got caught, or out of class for so long that our teachers were looking for us?
And I sit with this boy at lunch, but he is really mean to my friend and calls her mexican, and he is also rude to me in front of his friends. Like his friend jon calls me anorexic, becuase i can't eat at like, 10:00 in the morning, im usually still sleeping then.
But, when i wear a skirt, he trys to feel up my skirt, or tight jeans he grabs my thigh or trys to stick his hands up my skirt or throws pretzles. i dont allow him becuase not to sound self centered im like a popular person in my school and all the guys are always looking at me but its kinda embarissing if hes like putting his hand up my skirt. but i see guys doing this all the time and the girls dont care, i dont get why i do...
But the question is, is he using me just for giving him a bj.. or does he really like me? i like him, but its embarissing to like him, i mean really. he is one of the most hated [but was really popular in 7th grade im now in 8th grade] boy now. but hes gorgeous and really nice to me.. (link)
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I dont understand how boys are puttig there hands up your skirt in middle school. I wouldnt go putting out sweetie that's just making a bad name for yourself. Just wait things out, and who cares if he's the most hated, if you care for him thats all that should matter not your popularity.
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I love my boyfriend to death and we've been together for a really long time but how do i know if he really loves me? But he never calls me back but tell's everyone how much he loves me? (link)
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If he expresses his love for you to people i'm pretty sure you've got nothing to worry about. Most men have ADD and cant expect a phone call. I mean damn i hardly get one from my husband. hhahah Things you'll learn. I wouldnt stress if he loves you he loves you dont question it.
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My boyfriend of about two years, just recently got his stationing and will be in Korea for two years, I get to see him in 6 months, but I'm not sure about when I'll get to see if after that. His flight leaves at 5am, which is 3 minutes. I saw him last on Friday night.
Does anyone have any ideas of what I can do to make the time apart easier on us, and our relationship?
And also, what can I do to keep myself busy, and not all depressed. Any help would be amazing.
Thank you so much.
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I'm not an amry wife but i am a marine wife. It's tough hang in there. Just remember to cherish what you've had. And cherish every moment you two have on the phone together, cherish ever email he sends. And believe me when he gets home, it'll be the best feeling ever. I think that deployments are good for some couples, because it really makes or breaks a relationship. But if you hold on strong to what you guys have you'll be fine :-D!!!
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I have a problem with getting attached so quickly and so much.It may be a problem with my current boyfriend and I don't know how to stop.I always seem to want to know what he's doing or thinking.I mean it isn't ridiculously bad to where I'm obsessed,But I know it may effect being so close.. and if/when it ever happens..that me and my boyfriend might break up.I'd be a wreck.I honestly don't know what to do or how to approach it in any way,But then again.My boyfriend is kind of the same way.Not so much as me,But he always want to see me or talk to me..whatever.It would be nice if I could just chill out or something.I'm just worried that I won't be okay in the future.I want to over-come it.How do I approach this? (link)
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It's tough I know. Being over attached happens to the best of us. There really isnt anyway to change it besides waiting it out, Being over attached will fade with age. I know it's not the answer you were looking for but it's the blunt truth!
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hi. well i need help with my boyfriend. i love him so much but he really wants to meet my family my mom knows about him but doesnt want to tell my family. i feel bad he gets mad but what can i do? im so sad hes a good guy and i wanna be with him forever but hes sad he thinks i dont want him to meet them n stuff. =( (link)
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Why is your mom acting that way. Did something happen or does she just hold a grudge against someone having intrest in her daughter. I'd sit down and talk to her about it. And let her know by not telling the family about him, she's pushing you both away. I think that might make her think I'm sure your more important to her then stressing out over a boyfriend meeting the family!
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i cut. i'll plain out say it. i've been off and on it for about 2 years. I also burn myself when i cant take it anymore. my mom thinks that i dont cut anymore.the only reason i did it before was because of my step dad. he used to abuse me when i was younger and my mom did nothing to stop him because she thought Me and my sister were lying.i got a councilor that i cant see anymore and my parents dont bother to get me another one. my dad picks my sister over me all the time so im falling through the cracks and cutting more and deeper.what should i do? (link)
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Sweetie. That not fair to you at all. You know that there are plenty of free hotlines for you to call and talk to someone right? Because these feelings your having aren't normal. You shouldnt ever want to hurt youself. It's not fair to you, that your family is treating you this way you deserve better. You are better than this. Go to google and find some places you can call and talk to someone about whats going on in your life, see if that does help. If you ever need someone to talk to let me know I'll always be here to help.
I hope your realzie that you've got alot of potential and I know that, just by reading what your wrote. Dont let the way your parents treat you ruin your life, it's your life live it to the fullest and dont let anyone hold you back.
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What could I do to get my hair a lighter shade without dye?
I heard you could do something with lemons but yeah.. (link)
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lemons are a mess. but you could try putting lemon and water together in a spray bottle, and tying that, or you could try sun in...jut be careful with it and put it where you want it...you can get it at any drug store.
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