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Jealousy, surprise surprise.
I'll admit this straight up, I get jealous; I'm human. It was never a huge problem because I'm happy with who I am, until I got my recent boyfriend whose known as a flirt. We've been dating for about 9 months now, and we're doing great. But I still get jealous because he'll go to movies alone with one other girl, and right now he's in Italy on a group trip with a girl who is totally in love with him. I trust him for the most part, but some nights when I sit and think about him I worry about what he might be doing. He won't be home from his trip for a few more weeks. So what can I do to stop myself from dying in jealousy, also for the future? Thank you.
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Hey, well one of the biggest parts of a relationship is trust. You need to have it there and lots of it, for the relationship to work. Theres always doubts in every girls mind about there boyfriends when there around girls that are obessed with them. Thats normal. I myself am i VERY jealous person when it comes to my boyfriends even talking to other girls. I admit it. Thats why i try to stay out of relationships until i find the right guy that i have hardly any doubts in and can pretty much trust him 99.9%. You should do the same, or talk about the issues of trust with your current boyfriend.
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Im the jealous type to.
I believe you are madly in love with this guy.
You should trust him.
But the possiblities of him doing sexual stuff with this girl may be possible.
Me?? I would have never let him go to the movies, or Italy with another female..
Why?? Because if my boyfriend was a flirt I couldnt trust him to be faithful when Im not around.....
But im sure your boyfriend is diffrent and if he says he want do anything I say trust him....
But I believe a man has 2 brains...
his mind and his dick...
Sometimes a man may follow his mind and say no...
While his dick says yes...
So I say think twice...
Trina
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I'm sorta a jealous person, but when i was younger and just in a boyfriend girlfriend commitment i was def. very jealous.
First off he should be just going to the movies with one other girl. I dont care if it is his best friend, your his girlfriend, she isnt. Even if they dont do anything, I wouldnt be okay with that. Not a cool thing to do. I'm completly serious on that one.
Second, the way i started getting over it was by just telling myself that he is either going to cheat on me or he isnt, his choice, and i always hoped for the best.
I dont know if I was much help but thats the way i use to look at things and it help. I wish you the best!
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I am a jealous girl too. But most of the time, it's because my head is trying to look out for my heart. you know what I mean?? You are just trying to prepare in a way for the worst. No problem there. Try and think of the things thst makes you care so much about this guy. It'll put you in a good mood and make you smile. Remember good times and stay optimistic. =]
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