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E-mail: jenn-hansen@hotmail.com
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Location: DeWitt, IA
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Age: 20
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Member Since: December 19, 2006
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Okay, I know that just about everyone on this site (or atleast the girls) has at one point thought about what to name their kids one day, so I need your help. I need boy & girl name suggestions middle names would be helpful too. Thankyou guyss I appreciate it. (link)
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Caleb Jamison is one of my favorites for a boy...and Jackson James.
Olivia Jordan for girls, and Isabella Grace
Hope this helps.
Jenn
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I am only 6wks preg. with my 2nd child, with my 1st I was so sick, adn didn't show until 6months or so. with this one, I am already pudging in my tummy, and you can tell. Is this because I am so little, to is it normal? Its so weird I figured it would be like my 1st pregnancy. PLEASE HELP ME (link)
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Like others said before, every pregnancy is different. But I would say that you are more aware of wht pregnancy is like so you recognized the symptoms sooner. This is why it may seem as if you are bigger. I hope this helps.
Jenn
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OK I'm 15/m and I have a bit of a problem. I've asked a similar question to this relating to sexual stamina so here it is: When me and my girlfriend have sex its really good. The only thing is that I dont feel enough. She's really tight and all but it just feels like I'm numb or something, I feel like there should be more. Is there any way I can increase feeling there? Is it normal to be like that? (link)
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Well...my first question to you is, do you feel anything during masterbation? I am taking this from Talk Sex with Sue...but you may be afraid of getting her pregnant, or other scares and that decreased the sensations. Are you using a condom? If you are, and she is on birth control that might help. If not, try masterbation prior to having sex, this causes the penis to be more sensitive. You may also want to consider asking your family docter. I hope this helps.
Jenn
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okay so I love my boyfriend to death and does lots of sexual favors for me and vice versa. we have been together almost 2 years now and we are both 17..well he loves blowjobs and I absolutely cannot stand the taste of semon..I need to know what to do..but don't tell me to tell him know because I want to give them to him I just kinda bear with it and deal with it..and well do the deed. So no guys I do not tell him no, I just do it..but I end up having gag reflexes deep down in my throat..any suggestions how to fix my little dilemna?
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I agree with the condom idea...that way his erection to going to last longer...as well as protection for you and him. But if that doesn't work. Suggest that he start eating healthier. If you eat more fruits and veggies the taste of seman isn't as strong. I hope this helps.
Jenn
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okay so after my boyfriend and I have sex and he pops inside me..he claims that it feels really weird if he continues and sometimes even hurts..and hes fine a few minutes later..why does this happen? and how can we stop it? I mean it would be nice for the 1st round to last longer ;) (link)
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The penis is a very sensitive area, and it is relatively common or there to be a certain amount of discomfort. I would try a cock ring, which you can purchase at your local sex store in order to the the "1st round" last longer. You slip it over the shaft of the penis (under the balls, I believe) and this will cause the erection to last longer. Make sure to read the directions. I hope that this helps.
Jenn
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I just got my phone and I have Cingular. I heard after 7pm u get free unlimited minutes, then i heard sumthin about calling people from your same network is cheaper. Tell me please if any of this is tru, and if you no any other advatages that come with having Cingular. Thanks! (link)
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All I can say is switch to VERIZON! I just want to say that Verizon is the best in my area...I would hope it is also in yours. It has the best plans, least dropped calls (this is VERY true), and they have free roaming. You might want to rethink Cingular, but who knows. Good luck in your decision.
Jenn
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Ok well..
Im a healthy person normally, just like any other teen, I eat lots of chocolate and junk food although I stay very thin.
But recently,
I havent been eating atall..It just doesnt cross my mind too eat,
Im sticking with about half my dinner a day.
And my sleeping pattern has gone totally wrong.
I used too go to bed at around 12-1 2 the latest,
Now im either not sleeping at all or im going to bed about 6am and waking up about 5pm.
This isnt like me...
Im scared Ill lose too much weight, I lose weight quite easily and im already underweight.
Any ideas as too why?
p.s Ive quit college an dont have a job, so life is an all day bore at home on the computer. (link)
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This is probably stress related. Talk to someone...me if you want, to get some things off your chest. Just make sure that this person will be unbiased in whatever is bothering you. Just make sure that you are staying healthy. Drink lots of water and eat fruits and veggies. I hope this helps.
Jenn
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I really don't know what to do. A lot of guys have tried to finger me and I just can't have an orgasm, ever. I masturabte a lot and always have an orgasm by myself. I try to help the guys and show them what to do, but it doesnt even feel good at all. Do u think maybe me masturabting a lot has affected this? am i ever going to be able to have an orgasm with someone else? please help, im really worried. (link)
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First, I just want to start off with this...87% of women are unable to orgasm through vaginal intercourse. So, you are not alone. But I would make sure that you are communicating with your partner. When he finds a spot that you enjoy let him know, ie: moaning, yes, etc. When he is pleasuring a spot that isn't working for you, gently suggest a different spot. Don't tell him that he was wrong, just point him in the right direction. I hope that this helps.
Jenn
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me and my boyfriend have been together for a little over a year and sex is starting to get old. we dont really have any fore play at all anymore. just a few kisses and then straight to sex and then like 5 minutes later he ejaculates and goodnight. are there any new things we could try to spice things up or just to get his attention. btw, i already talked to him about it and he agreed that we need to figure out new stuff. 23/f. thanks (link)
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Well, I have some questions for you. After he ejeculates does he get another erection quickly? If that is the case I would suggest pleasuring him first and during that 20? minute break between erections he will be pleasuring you. That way when he is erect you both will be ready to orgasm together. This is also great for making foreplay last longer, because that is generally what women get turned on by. I would also suggest some sex toys. Example, a cock ring keeps an erection longer and prolongs the time before ejaculation. This way sex will last longer. I hope that this help.
Jenn
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i don't want to gross anyone out, but this has been bothering me.
every once in a while i get a thick, almost mucus like discharge from my...let's say "nether-region" (im a female). it's an almost clear, but kind of white color.
does anyone know what this is? (link)
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It is completely normal if it does not smell. It should be a clear odor-less muscus discharge. This usually occurs about two weeks before the start of your period, each person is different but just watch it and take note. That way you are more prepared for your period. Don't worry about. But just be careful and aware of your body...because if the mucus changes you may have a yeast infection of some other medical issue.
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two questions:
how big are vibrators? my bf and i can both only get 1 finger in me, so would a vibrator hurt alot? also where could i get one? i cant get order one and i have no siblings or older friends that could get it, and if my mom ever saw it she'd FREAK.
and also whenever my bf fingers me with his one finger lol it usually feels pretty good like it hurts a little but its like a good feelin pain yanno but when i do it it does nothing for me so ill usually jus rub my clit or whatever. why is this? i do the same thing he does but it seems like it hurts a little more and just doesnt feel good.
by the way im 16. (link)
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The reason that it doesn't feel the same when you are "fingering yourself", or masterbation is because of the emotional connection. Try thinking more of your guy in more romantic situations. Such as, a date or candles, not necessarily in the sexual way. This way you are thinking of him and just enjoying him being him. Just a suggestion. Also, I would suggest a clitoral vibrator for yourself, and maybe a small dildo or vibrator for your guy to use on you. But take it slow. You vagina is a muscle, but you don't want to tear or do any harm. I hope that this helps, and have fun.
Jenn
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well i have this boyfriend, and he is older and more experienced then i am. He says that he loves me and he wants to be with me I love him soo much. He says that he wants to take it to the next level. Where im from alot of the girls my age arent virgins and dont care bout sex or nethin. Im young but veryy mature for my age, i dont know what to do, I feel that im ready but i dont know. (link)
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Well, it is a little difficult to know exactly how to answer this question without your age..but just ask yourself this "Will I be with this person for the rest of my life?" If not, is this person even worth dating, let alone giving something that is truly special and unique to you. I know that it might seem like the right thing to do at the time, but I don't want you to even regret it. So make sure that you think it through, and look at the question of whether you can be with this person forever or not. I hope this helps.
Jenn
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Ok, summary. I'm 23 years old, smart, mature, grounded, and I think I'm pretty and have a great sense of humor. The problem is I have such a hard time attracting guys. I could be thinner...but what I don't understand is, I have a friend who's younger than me by a couple of years and it's like she jumps from one guy to the next.
We're a lot alike, except I'm not really into the partying scene anymore and I don't have a lot of baggage as far as my past goes. It's pretty clean, cut, 2 serious boyfriends and that's it. She has a lot of baggage. Am I doing something wrong?
She's my friend and I think she's great, but I'm just confused as to what she's got that I don't. I personally (and I'm not the only one) don't think she's prettier than I am. I know she's got more confidence than I do. But I'm not the kind of person to just walk in and be all up in someone's face, I'm very down-to-earth and laid back. She's still in the partying scene, while I'm getting out of that and I'm wanting to find a relationship that's not all about partying. Am I lacking an important relationship quality?
I'm in college, work full-time (Monday-Friday), go to church, outgoing, friendly, good sense of humor...
Someone help me because I'm really beginning to second guess myself. (link)
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First of all, never think that anything is wrong with you. You are perfect the way that you are. I want you to always remember that. As for guys, well...I am not sure. Are you friends with a lot of guys? You might just be overlooking someone that is madly in love with you. If not, then your right guy just hasn't come along. Which is fine, because this gives you more time to enjoy life. I am having a hard time with this saying at the moment, "the right guy will come along when you least expect it". But the problem with this saying, is that you want to think that you are not expecting it, but you truly are, deep down. It is just built into us woman. The whole "marriage material" thing, well, my guess is that you are very marriage oriented. For example, you want children and look forward to your wedding day. This may also mean that people your age just may not be ready to settle down, have you thought about dating someone older? I don't mean ancient, but a few years older, look for someone with the same hopes and dreams. I hope that everything works out for the best. Good luck.
Jenn
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I'm 26 yr old male and my brother passed away a few years ago, leaving his son who is now 12. I'm am still very close to my nephew. I talk to him on the phone alot, email with him, etc. His mom is a terrible mom, who happens to have 2 other kids from 2 other men and wastes the social security money from my brother on cigarettes, alcohol, and frivilous items. She pays no attention to the boy and he stays with his grandma most nights because she doesnt wake him up in time for him to go go school. I'm afraid my nephew might soon turn to drugs, alcohol, etc. I've also noticed quite a lack of self esteem. I know that he has had 'girlfriends' but have yet to see them or meet them. His friends seem to be good, but I believe Im too old to be able to judge 12-13 year olds. He needs a man in his life and everytime Im in the area he always stays with me (I live 2 hours away). I plan to move back into the area soon and feel that he may want to live with me. Heres the questions:
1. How can I help to make sure he stays on the right path until I get there? I've already had the sex, drinking, pot, and cigarette talks with him.
2. How could I approach to his mother the possibility of him living with me, which I want to happen for his sake.
3. If he were to move in with me, would it be wrong to ask for the social security that HE should be getting for my brother's death so I can start a fund for him for college, car, etc.? (link)
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Okay, well...it is a very good thing that you recognize a difficult situation and want to do something about it. I don't mean to be stereotypical, but most males wouldn't do anything. So, for that, I admire you. Alright, down to the questions. I am not exactly sure how to have him stay on the right path until you get there. One of the things that I am thinking of, is relate to him on his level. For example, if he has a MySpace. Join MySpace and comment him, asking specific questions about his life. That is a way of keeping taps on him without looking like it, do you know what I mean? Just a suggestion, again, I don't know if that is an option. Second question, again tough, but I would look at whatever she is complaining about the most, for example, money problems. If that is an issue, suggest that you could have the nephew move in to relieve some of the stress. You could also go with the approach of a male figure. Showing the nephew your brother through you. You know, taking him to baseball games or something that he would have done with his father. Which, I am sure that you already do. Third question, I don't think that it would be wrong to ask for the Social Security, but she may be unwilling to give it up. Go ahead that open a saving account, or whatever, and ask her if she would be willing to contribute to the account with the social security she receives. That way she knows for certain that the money is going to her son, and for his future. Not saying that you would use it for thing else. I hope that this is helpful, you are in a difficult position. Let me know how things work out.
Jenn
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so here's the deal....... i really want a myspace! yes i know people...... "myspace is stupid. its so out of style!" but you know what i really want one. all my friends have it. Im not stupid! i know not to accept anyone as my friend unless i know them. I know not 2 put any personal information or pictures of myself! im a very good girl! and safe. i dont drink or anything. None of my friends drink and they're parents are more strict than mine! and i want one to talk to all my friends! espcially since vacation is coming up! And another thing is that i have a cousin that doesn't really talk to me because we never see each other. WHen we do see each other its small but online we talked alot on my friends myspace! and i liked it! he's my only cousin on that side of the family that i can tell eveything too especially right now ............... so i know im old enough and im smart! do you think its right for my parents to keep me away????? (link)
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As long as you are careful, I see nothing wrong with MySpace. Maybe your parents would be more comfortable if you showed them what MySpace was really like. For example, help them to set up profiles...that way they feel included and are able to "check up" on you when they need. But, I would also suggest to you to set the comment option to...approve before posting. That way you still have some privacy. I hope that this helps.
Jenn
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Well I like this boy and we're going out hes 20 and im 16. (he just now turnt 20 on Dec, 12) but anyways my parents now my step dad and step mom knows to. they like him. but i'm worried about the age differnce. i really like this boy hes amazing hes such a sweetheart. he goes to chruch he dont cuss or drink or anything like that. is it such a bad thing that im dating him. we just started dating today. I really want to be with him. I think hes the right one.... please help me
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Dear Confused,
I just recently got out of a relationship with an over 20 year age difference. I don't think that there is anything wrong with an age difference, based on your personalities. I do not know either of you...but, I am willing to bet that you are more mature for your age because your thoughts tend to go for what is important, ie...church, marriage, and a solid relationship. I would not let the age difference bother you, don't listen to what other people say. Just tell them how you feel about this guy, and they should eventually understand. I hope this helped.
Jenn
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ok so there is a guy that i think is really cute, but i've never met him before. well anyway, my friend's bf is good friends w/ him so she said that us four can all hang out so i can meet him and stuff and they want to hook us up. but i've never met him (just been around him) but i think hes really cute. would that situation be uncomfortable for me or awkward? i know it prob will be but what are some wasy to make it less awkward? or should i just not to do it at all...i know backing out is not the answer but what are some things that'd be fun and how should i act? ive never gone on anything like this!!!! (link)
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Okay...I am VERY shy (or I was) but I have "grown" out of it. One of the things to remember is that if he doesn't like you for who you are...then he is not worth your time. Just keep that in mind. But, as in all awkward situaions, there will be periods of silence. During this time...you should ask him about his family, hopes/dreams, and just get him talking and you TRULY listening. This way you will show concern for him and an interest in whatever he is talking about. You may also find that you have more in common than you thought. I hope that this helps.
Jenn
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alright so i'm a guy, and i recently met this girl. and well things between us may have started off too fast. but you can't really undo what's been done. so we had a good thing going, we talked as much as we could, saw each other often, and things were blossoming between us quite well. we'd kissed, hugged, all that stuff, and life was going good. and then she leaves for a couple weeks on a cruise for her cousin's wedding (the cousin was the rich side of the family and paid for the whole family to go) and well we talked as much as we could while she was gone, things seemed to be going great between us. and we were fine. she got back from her trip saturday before this last one. and this is where things started getting lame.
it turns out all the text messaging and stuff we'd done got her a $400 phone bill, and all the offers i gave to help her out she would hear none of. so her parents take her cellphone, and we suddenly lose a major means of communication between us. and as last week went we saw each other once, hardly talked and didn't really do much together. well after the suckage that was last week i decided i had to come up with some way to see her more often one and two give her, her christmas present. so i go to her house this morning, no one's home. that's cool, i wait til the evening and call her house and talk for a few moments but she has to go as her mom needs to use the phone. i call back an hour later (it's 10PM by this time) and i get the it's too late to call thing from her. and that's understandable seeing as people go to bed around then. so i go and check her myspace and find that all the comments i've left her have been deleted, and that she hasn't responded to any of the messages i sent her.
so my question stems from this: could a girl i've been with for about two months lose total interest in me after a week of not talking much? could she be mad at me? am i just pushed out of the picture? what do i do? and how can i get her to realize that we're not gone, we're still on? or do i just take this as a breakup and leave it? she's hanging out with some other guy friend of hers tomorrow during which time we'd have normally hung out and quite frankly i'm pretty pissed about all this. it's like she's not even trying anymore. it's like she's given up on me. what do i do? (link)
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Well, interesting. I was in a similiar position this my guy this summer. He just stopped doing anything with me. Turns out he was deciding where our relationship was going, and after this "cooling" off period things where better. But...I don't know this girl. I would say that she is mad at you, but it is hard to tell why. You should just try and back off and let her come to you, trust me eventually she will if she truly cares about you. It is VERY tough waiting it out...but, do you think she is worth it? Also, when you do get back together make sure that don't hold the "break" over her head. Don't bring it up all the time, that will just make things worse. Hope that this helps.
Jenn
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