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I DONT KNOW
well i have this boyfriend, and he is older and more experienced then i am. He says that he loves me and he wants to be with me I love him soo much. He says that he wants to take it to the next level. Where im from alot of the girls my age arent virgins and dont care bout sex or nethin. Im young but veryy mature for my age, i dont know what to do, I feel that im ready but i dont know.
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well hopefully hes not pressuring you because than theres something wrong there and if you dont know than maybe your not quite as ready as you think you know im 17 and still a virgin and i still have my douts and thats how i know that im not ready yet you know because if you dont know and if you have douts still than read between the lines and ask yourself why your haveing douts or dont know goodluck and remeber dont rush it because once you loose your virginty you can never get it back hope i helped
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You need to look deep inside your heart and ask yourself if you love this guy or not.You also need to consider if you can bare the thought of possibly breaking up with him, and never being able to share your virginity with your true love. But, if he is your true love then you should go for it...but this may not be right..it kinda depends on your age.
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Well, it is a little difficult to know exactly how to answer this question without your age..but just ask yourself this "Will I be with this person for the rest of my life?" If not, is this person even worth dating, let alone giving something that is truly special and unique to you. I know that it might seem like the right thing to do at the time, but I don't want you to even regret it. So make sure that you think it through, and look at the question of whether you can be with this person forever or not. I hope this helps.
Jenn
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You really need to think this over. Make sure you are totally positive that it is something that you want to do before you do it. Who cares what other people are and aren't doing. Just do whatever you are ready for. But remember that this can lead to pregnancy. Are you sure that you are ready for the responsibility of taking care of a baby? I suggest that you wait. You may not end up being with your boyfriend forever. Do you really want to take care of the baby by yourself? i can tell you that things will be much more complicated if you go through with this.
I am sure that if you discuss that you aren't sure about this with your boyfriend then he will understand. If he doesn't, then he doesn't care about you for who you are and he is just in it for the physical stuff. No one deserves to be objectified like that. But just tell him how you feel, and before you do anything make sure you are ready, and i am sure everything will work out.
**BeLLe**
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When you are ready, you will know it. If you are unsure, you most likely are not.
Think about yourself in this situation. Think about questions such as "If I give up my virginity to him, will it be worth it?" or "Am I sure we will be together for the rest of our lives?" or "Is this what I want or what he wants?"
Have self-respect and make the choice for yourself and not him. If you feel that you two shouldn't take it to the next level, he should respect that. But if you really feel you should, that is up to you. Don't let him manipulate you.
However, this is up to you and only you in this situation, but you two should negotiate if this is what you both want as well. Think it through first and then make the choice. I am not saying not to or encouraging you to do so. My point is to think is through and ask yourself questions before you make that decision. Because only you know if you are ready -- not your boyfriend, not anyone else.
And don't let peer pressure interfere with your decision. There is nothing wrong with being a virgin. Please note that. Nor is there anything wrong with losing your virginity. As long as you feel it's what is right and that you are ready to.
Hope I helped! =]
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