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i can only remember one part of the song its like classical i think "Life goes on" if anyone could figure that out it would help a lot thanks in advance!

Night Before (Life Goes On) by Carrie Underwood
http://www.elyrics.net/read/c/carrie-underwood-lyrics/night-before-(Life-goes-on)-lyrics.html

Life Goes On by Leann Rimes
http://www.seeklyrics.com/lyrics/Leann-Rimes/Life-Goes-On.html

Life Goes On by Poison
http://www.lyricsdepot.com/poison/life-goes-on.html

Hope These help, though i bet it's Carrie Underwood you heard. =]

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does anyone know where i can find pics of "SCENE" fashion?? I mean like full outfits. please it is for a report in my fashion studies class.

The biggest place would have to be myspace. If you find one scene girl or guy all their top friends and those friends friends will most likely be scene. All you have to do is find one, and you're set to find much more. Also, if you look up 'scene girls' 'scene kids' 'the scene trend'...etc. on google or ask.com, you'll find some more stuff.

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how much are stamps nowadays? i have a bunch of stamps from my parents and they saw "USA first class" on them.. no cent value listed anywhere. im confused. are all stamps worth the same? how much does it cost to send a letter? or a packet (lots of paper attached together by staple)?

Use two first class stamps if they're a little old or if you're unsure on if one will work.

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ok well i started my period in the summer.. for the first time it was always really heavy and alot came out.. but when it stopped i havent really had it since.. like maybe once and it was like bloody water, my boyfriend comes over every weekend and we kind of dry hump.. we are completely clothed but i felt something wet against my vagina.. i dont kno if it was him or me but he said he didnt cum it could have been precum. could i b pregnant? and then another thing is i gave him head last weekend and i was wearing clothes and he was laying on the bed and i was too. if he touched me and he had it on him after he wiped it off? or like if i touched my vagina and it was still on there.. im not really worried about that so much as the other one.. sorry this is so long but im like freaking out.. oh and i havent had my period in like forever. and im scared to go to the doctor because of the chance that i am pregnant and when i asked my parents about it they just said that when u first start ur period they are going to b irregular. im SCARED please help

I can tell you YOU ARE NOT PREGNANT. If the only events that could lead to the possibility of you being pregnant are those, its JUST that your period is irregular (like your parents said), and NOT that you are pregnant.

But if you guys ever decide to go any further take the necissary precautions to be safe.

Best Wishes.

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mmkay whats quiffing? and doggy style? like i no doggy style is like a position but like how do you do it? what do they look like?? NO LINKS!!

Haven't I answered this question and told people this 3 times today???! Lmao.
QUEEF, people, QUEEF. If you say Quif, people are going to thing you're talking about hair, or think you don't know what you're talking about. Look at UrbanDictionary.com for Quif, then for Queef. And then again for doggy style. I am 100% sure you'll find your answer.

I'm pretty sure you're the same person I told this to earlier. Since you don't believe me, UrbanDictionary.com will answer this never-ending question.

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what does "looking for: random play" mean? what is random play.. like hookups? i dont think some people realize what theyre putting down..

That's exactly what it means. I don't have facebook, so I didn't know that was an option on the profile, but I think maybe some people are trying to be funny. Buy hey, then again, some people like random hook-ups, so they may be telling the truth.

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Hey,
my boyfriend went to this club a couple of months ago and he said they were "grinding" I just found out what grinding meant.. not that long ago and I was just wondering : DO you think it's wrong for my bf to grind with him friends (that are girls!) like should I have been upset?

Not acceptable. If you want to make sure he's faithful I wouldn't let him. And if he cared about your feelings he'd respect your decision about that. He's with YOU, not THEM. Why should he have the best of both worlds?

Best wishes.

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HEY i need a list of songs that can pump up a team before a game. preferably rap or hip hop! i don't care if it's new or old, just anything thanks!

Soulja Boy- Crank That

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whats a good thing to start with a boy. i mean .. like..
if you both are in the same place rite.. and you wanna talk what stuff do you bring up
other than
how are you
how was your day
your family.
all that,, borin stuff..
thanks..

Depends if you want to be 'normal' or 'random/funny'.

If you choke a smurf, what color would it turn? (Random question)

If a tree falls and no one's around to hear it, does it make a sound? (Philosophical question)

Do you have a job? (Normal)

Where were you born? (Normal)

Do you like sports/ What kind of sports are you into? (Normal)

What kind of music do you like? (Normal)

Been to any concert lately?/Any good concerts coming up? (Normal)

What's on the agenda tonight? (Weekend question)

There's a few. Hope some of this helps.

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kay so what is a quiff?? dont just tell me its hairstyle and whats doggystyle? i no its a sex position but whats the people look like? and stuff

Its spelled queef- and its a vaginal fart. Its air coming out of a vulva. Doggy style is a girl on her hands and knees and the guy behind her -having sex just like dogs would.

Hope I helped.

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Okay..I seem to quiff every time I have sex. Afterwards, I mean. It's really embarrassing even though no one comments about it. But is there any way to prevent it? Someone told me doggy style increases quiffing but then I don't know.

It's not that I do it once afterwards.. it's like 4 or 5 times.. and I'm pretty sure my boyfriend thinks I'm passing gas freely .. I don't even know if he knows what a quiff is!

Think about it...from pulling out, going in, then out again..yadda yadda.. It creates air buildup in the vulva. Then creates a QUEEF. A quiff is a hairstyle. I think the faster you go the more air retention you'll get. Is it loud? Maybe you can go to the bathroom afterwards, or if you guys are open about things maybe you can tell him about it. Try maybe going slower next time and see the results... Maybe that's it. I'd experiment with different ways to conceal it and try to hide the queef noise or prevent it. Bodies are different and some thing that work for one might not for the other... So I say experiment. Also, another idea I just thought of- maybe his penis is a bit on the small side, and your vagina is bigger and the air gets in more than usual?

Goodluck.

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Me and my babys dad have been apart since july 10th. I hadnt seen him up until September 8th when he was calling me in the early morning even though i was with someone starting Mid August. Before then I hadnt heard from him. Our son is 8 months old and he doesnt bother to come by and see our son , his only child, but his mother, dad and siblings live right around the corner and he visits them. None of them try to call or come see my baby.I dont like the guy im with because he is 10 years older and boring i miss my babys dad even though weve had vulgar words passed to each other and fighting when he wanted me i still wanted him but i didnt want him to mess up who i was talking to and be with whomever he was with Does he still love us?

Love twords a baby-im sure you know-is infinite. Honestly, I don't know how he couldn't. Some people have their own pains and demons to work out... And maybe he's doing that now. Maybe you guys having a baby was too much for him to handle- unplanned, unprepared, and he wasn't ready to slow down and have a family and 'duties' yet. Although you have much love for him and he's your baby's father, is it the BEST THING for you both? You have to weigh the pros and cons here because this could be a big deal.

You don't want your child growing up around yelling, arguing, and parents that don't love eachother. I'm going to be honest here sweetie.. Don't you think that if he loved you he'd be with you right now. ESPECIALLY in your time of need?? Your a single mother, and that's hard stuff, babe. I congradulate you on being so strong and not breaking down on your baby. I want you to know that this guy in my personal opinion doesn't deserve such a sweet person. I know he's your baby's dad... And that's a hard and big thing to pass up having, but if you guys don't get along....you just really don't want to mess up your child's perception of 'love'... It could stick with him/her forever.

So my advice is weigh it out, if it really could work and your 100% for it, that's your decision, but if you decide against it, I still say he should visit regularly. What father doesn't care to see their child?? Also, with the guy you're with.. Ask yourself WHY you're with him and if its worth it. You say he's boring, and that's not a good sign if your mate is boring. He's older than you by a long shot, and he may not be into the things you are. You deserve HAPPINESS.

Goodluck, and best wishes to you and your baby, Mom!

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Can someone give me a list of late 90s pop artists and/or songs?

I was really young then so I don't remember the artists and stuff but if I were to hear a song I'd be like "I REMEMBER THAT SONG!"

And please, no really obvious ones like Britney Spears, Christina Aguleira, The Backstreet Boys, The Spice Girls etc...

Thanks :)

Oasis, Goo Goo Dolls, Matchbox 20, Everclear, AFI. These are a few good ones.
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I'm looking for.. let's say sexual songs
any style but country lol

thank youu :]

Anything by the band She Wants Revenge. All their lyrics are semi-pornographic. ;]

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honestly... Do you think age 15 and a half is too young to staart thinking about having sex when i'm like, 16?

Start thinking about it when your REALLY ready and you love the person. Some people aren't really ready til later teens, some aren't til their 20's. So I hope you don't rush this. Its a big thing, believe it or not. Most teens think that ALL their peers are having sex, when in reality, most aren't. Don't feel pressured, sweetie. Be true to your heart, but for THE MOST PART, your brain too.

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Albert Fox from Ohio 14 male single. you

Oh..!!
I'm Kat. 17/F/California
Nice to finally hear from you...
And thanks for the rating. Lol.
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A lot of people i've asked have told me that I trying to change who i am, when that's not it at all.

I love the way scene girls dress, look, whatever.

My problem is this:

I'm not good at speaking with new people,
and I don't know where to get the clothing and accessories that are a part of this lifestyle.

[i live in sacramento, california, if that's any help.
websites also work for me.]

Here's a few links:

http://s170.photobucket.com/albums/u248/whitpay/Scene%20Hair/?action=view¤t=2punkychinesegirls.jpg

HEYY!!! A woman of my own heart! I lived in Sacramento for so long and just moved away ferom there! Scene people aren't often seen down there, but I get my jewelry and stuff like that at Forever 21 & Hot Topic (at Arden Fair Mall). They have really cute stuff for cheap. If you're into it you can buy key items online on ebay or something. I know people say hot topic is 'poser', but its not. Look at what the scene girls wear then go to those places and you will find some cute stuff. Scene girls can vary from cutsie girly stuff to edgy 'dont-mess-with-me' stuff. So find the style you want and make it your own personal fashion.

Don't listen to what people say, babe. If YOU like this, then there's NOTHING wrong with it! Sporting this new style might even help you open up a little too. Hope I helped... And I'd like to get to know you more. Add me on myspace or email me or something.

Best Wishes!

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im one of your favorite columnists?

Since questions are anonymous, I don't know who you are. Lol. So who is this??
Send another message!

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do any of you girls out there know a good eyeliner that lasts for a while and doesnt really smear, i need one that can last all day at school without me reapplying it over and over again, thanks in advance :]

I like Avon's eyeliner and CoverGirl. They are both good.
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i have really oily skin on my face and it bothers me because my forehead gets shiny throughout the day. is there anything i can put on my face in the morning to make it not oily and shiny in the day? (please dont request oil blotting pads cause you have to do that throughout the day and i dont have time) thanks so muchh!

What I really like and what helps me is Clearasil Daily Oil Control. Its oil free and balances oil production for hours! I really love it and think you would too. Just use it in the morning and at night. You'll be fine.

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