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i was wearing not exactly granny panties ...they werent baggy but you get the idea? well it was hot and i was sweatyy..and the underwear irritated my inner thigh..and its really bad..its red and inflamed..what can i do to stop the pain ?
Baby powder is amazing. If you put that on your legs before you go out it works wonders. It makes it soft and keeps the sweat down. It keeps you from getting sticky and chafing. It also does cut back on the irritation after its already there.
My boyfriend came over the other night and he was impliying that he wanted to have sex But i said no Now he won't answer my calls and Hes always with this girl named sarah and shes a slut Do u think hes cheating on me?
*Nikki 14
All signs point to yes - he's cheating on you. Talk to him about it because let's face it... most guys need the physical as much as they need the emotional. Maybe him getting the physical somewhere else is going to help you in the long run (I've seen it happen). But since he's doing it behind your back you should probably just break it off with him.
I've tried search engines, but I cant find lyrics for Kaci Brown's cd, Instigator. Does anyone know where I can find her lyrics?
http://www.azlyrics.com has EVERYTHING! lol
OK there's a real problem in our school and it's sorta weird. If you get called a whore, people in my school take it as a compliment. Does anyone think this is very disturbing? Oh yea, and the people in our school who are popular are the sluts and the girls and guys who drink in school. I sorta wanna know how to stop this. Thanks!
Unfortunately in school these days, the "popular" croud will always be the people that drink. At first they get popular because of whatever it is (sports, dating the right person, beauty, whatever) and then they get sucked right into the Future Alcoholics Anonymous of America kind of shit. You're either in or youre not. I don't see why being called a whore comes as a compliment. At my school, if you call someone a whore - you get punched in your mouth. Next time you hear someone taking "You're a whore" as a compliment, look at them like they have 1O heads and say "You're proud of that?" I garuntee they'll second guess their pride next time.
Hope I helped!
m a virgin and its like im supposed to lose my virginity to my boyfriend back home... everything is so perfect and we haved talked about it having sex. before i left for vacations we talked about it and agreed that if it would happen, it had to be after i went back home ... i couldnt be happier with him but now ive been gone a month and i have been dating a guy here.. im with my friends and he even came to have diner with my parents. i already met his and his friends; everyone is so happy that we are together and we see each other everyday. his friends tell me and my friends that they havent seen his so happy with anyone and the truth is that im happy with him. here is the dilema, do i sleep with him or not? i want to but i have a bf back home and if i dont tell him that im not a virgin, can he find out physically? like what other ways can i break my hymen? advise plis ..
I'm just responding because I need to be honest with you. Someone said if you tell your boyfriend (back home) all this that he will "understand". But I dont think so. If you're contemplating losing your virginity to a guy you hardly know when you have the so-called "perfect" relationship back home, I doubt your boyfriend is going to understand how you could catch feelings for someone else, Honestly. That's my opinion. I wouldn't lose your virginity to the boy on vacation because obviously if its a vacation boy you won't see him much, nor have you known him very long. I just think you've been swept away by the summer romance and think you care for him more than you really do. Go home, go back to your boyfriend, and keep up that "perfect" relationship. But I dont think you should have sex with him YET, either. If you have to come on an advice website to see whether or not you should have sex - then I dont think you're ready. Sorry if I sounded harsh. But I hope I helped.
ok well dis is a really really weard to ask but ill do it aniwais. where do girls really pee from and i no from vagina but like where in spesific. please dont sai sum stupid ill really curious. tx ill rate ya high no matta wha.
Well ... the "tube" that the pee comes out of. Thats the urethra. The pee... it comes from the bladder and travels through the urethra to exit through the vaginal hole. I dont know if that's what you're asking... this question is a little interesting. But yeah.
Alright, my friend (literally) is too afraid to post this so I'm doing it for her. She said her boyfriend has fingered her about a week ago and her period had ended a day before that. She said two days ago when she was going to the bathroom she noticed she was bleeding a little on the toilet paper. Then yesterday she said when she was going to the bathroom it stung a little. She also said she doesn't want anyone to know about what happened between her and her boyfriend so she wants to know if a genecologist can tell. Any advice for my friend guys?
When something enter's your vagina, if nothing has ever entered it before - especially not something quite as large, it stretches. Its like tiny tears that aren't bad for you or anything, just uncomfortable sometimes. The bleeding could've been left over from her period, or because her boyfriend broke her hymen with his finger. Your gyno probably won't be able to tell you did anything with your boyfriend. They can't really even tell if you've had sex because most girls lose their hymen by doing normal everyday activities (for example: bike riding, horse back riding, tampon usage, sitting on your foot). I wouldn't worry about it yet if I were you. If in say... another week you're still bleeding and still stinging when you piss, I'm thinkin you should check out the gyno. But until then, don't worry.
sorry this is so long
(15/f)
alright well I like this guy but he's known to just get w/ girls for sex and I know that that's true w/ some of the girls he's been with but not all of them.. I like him a lot and I always think about him and like he's one of the only guys I love to hang out with that I like... if that makes any sense... and well he was smoking in front of me and I was like THATS DISGUSTING and he was like ... well then I'll stop, just for u.. and well when ever we hang out he always like rubs my back and is really flirty and when I was drunk he helped me around (not taking advantage of me in any way) bc I couldnt walk very well and he like made sure i was ok and stuff and then the next day he asked how i felt and made sure i was ok... and well he told my brother that hes liked me since the 7th grade and he normally doesnt like girls for that long, he just fucks them and leaves them and hes always like.. i love hangin out w/ ur so awesome and its a lot of fun, and now i cant keep my mind off him and i hate being away from him...... ok well should i take a chance with him if he likes me? or just let it go?
once again... im so sorry its long..
Well, I was recently FUCKED and CHUCKED. So my opinion on boys right now may be a little biased, BUT... guys are assholes straight up. Once a dog - always a dog! But if you really feel the need to be something further with this boy, dont expect the perfect relationship. Chances are, the more and better you expect from someone that is known to be a dog, the more piles of shit you're going to get out of it in the end. Think it all out before you leap. Take into consideration how he treats you, how he treated past girls, and how he treats your friends, too. Be careful and anything you can take as him still being a dog - dont let it slide. Call him on it.
I'm thirteen and I want my navel pierced. My Grandparents [who were really strict with my Mom and her sister], are even okay with it. Both of my parents say that I'm too young. But my Dad doesn't live with me, so my Mom can still say yes. I asked her why she wouldn't let me get it done and she said 1] that she thinks if I got that done I would want my nipples done or something crazy like that. 2] she thinks I would walk around with belly shirts or something. I told her I'm not a whore like that and that I wouldn't do either of those. And my question to you is do you think I'm too young? And what do you think I should do to convince my Mom?
I think you're too young. My doctor told me one time that if you get anything pierced other than your ears you have a chance of (while your body grows) ripping or tearing the part of your body that got pierced. If I were you, I would wait a few years. At least 15. I got mine done at 15, and I've been fine. If I had gone when I was 13 I wouldve had a problem because I went through a growth spurt between 12 and 14. I think you should wait just a little bit longer.
What's the best way to shave "down there" using a hair removing cream?
Just use a razor. Theres a big chance you could have a very uncomfortable reaction to using hair removing creams, and I dont think you want that THERE. Shaving is so much easier, as long as you dont do it when you're rushed. Relax and take your time while you're shaving that, and you will be fine. Also, be gentle! Hair removing creams smell like SH1T and they sometimes burn. It's a much better idea to just use a razor and shave the old way. Unless you're going to go pay money and get it waxed. THAT is the BEST choice.
Also, if you're going to shave. Shave the way the hair is growing. It will take longer but you will cut back on razor burn and pain. Some girls shave the opposite way of the hair growth, but that's not the way to go!
sry this is really long but I rate really high!!
well i really fell for this guy over the summer and hes been away at summer camp for like 6 weeks and I was wondering weather or not i should tell him because i dont know if he likes me back and hes rarely online so if i do i have to tell him when hes actually online because i cant call him and then I have another problem, I'm not really allowed to have anything to do with boys both my parents think its crazy to have boyfriends at this age!! im 13/f by the way so i cant be with him if he likes me back, I've had a boyfriend before but i had to sneak calls on my cell phone with him and we never actually went out on a date and i cant talk to my parents about it, i mean my mom is ok but my dad would TOTALLY freak out even if i mentioned boys hes so overprotective in that way!! well I'm really sorry this is so long but i need advice!!
If you only talk to him online right now that I don't think you should even tell him you like him. If you can't tell him face to face, then I think its not that good of an idea. Also, your parents think you're too young, so it's going to be all too hard to keep up a relationship with them breathing down your neck.
Hey i was wondering if any of you know a all around really good shampoo and conditioner.. i use brilliant brunette right now but i was wondering if theres like a better one maybe pantene the brunette expressions or garnier fructice or what... my hair is wavy i can curl or straighten it so yeah thanks! im looking for one to make it shiny and healthy and makes it just look good! 15 f
Brilliant Brunette is a good shampoo in itself but you can't use it everyday or else your hair won't react to it - it'll just stay the same. Brunette expressions is AMAZING. I use it everyday and EVERY SINGLE DAY it leaves my hair silky, shiny, and soft. Its a bit expensive, I think, but well worth it. My hair is less frizzy, and stays softer longer because of it.
Okay. I have make-out before but for some werid reason I am scared to make-out with my bf, james since i really love him and i think it might be because I'm scare he will think im bad but i shouldn't be worrying about it sicne the guys i made out with befroe said im good and everything like that. but i don't know its like i dont care if all the guys think im bad as long as he thinks im good. what can help make me not be scared? im suppose to today, and i want to. but ahh!!
and also he is in 8th and im in 9th what will keep up able to stay together during school? and be able to work it out?
You've kissed before, so I don't see what the big concern is. My first kiss was when I was 14 to a 17 year old boy whom I thought I was ridiculously in love with. I didn't know how to kiss, and I just told him I wanted him to teach me how to kiss better. It worked out better that way, because we could joke around about it and use it as a game and have fun. If he really likes you, and you like him - you're going to have a chemistry that goes far deeper than the way you kiss. Theres no reason to worry, everyone has a different kissing style & everyone accepts what the other does and reacts to another person's kissing to fit into it. Everyone adapts their kissing style to fit the person theyre with. As long as you dont drool, you'll be fine! =) lol
i was wondering if hair removing creams, like veet resera bladeless shaving kit, work if you're shaving down below. i'm a girl by the way. thanks. i rate 5's.
Nair smells HORRIBLE! And no matter how much you wash yourself after using it - for a few days you still smell like Nair! And I dont know about you, but if I want all the hair gone that quick - I think the smell would be a bad idea. LoL. The Veet works pretty well but you have to be careful about missing spots, and some places your hair is denser/thicker than others and it doesnt all come off the first try. I just shave down there. With those Razors that have the lotion and shaving cream built in. I adore them. They work really well and they moisturize while getting rid of the hair!
I know this might sound nasty but ever since i can remember i have been having this really bad smell in my private area. i know most boys joke around talking about tuna smelling and stuff but i dont think its a joke. i dont think people can smell it when i hang out with them but im not sure if they smell it when i wear shorts? and i get this nasty white stuff in my under wear and mom knows about it. and my boyfriend wants to have sex with me but i dont want to smell and i dont want him to see that white stuff in my underwear. is there anything i could do to prevent from smelling because i wear purfume anyways. and how could i keep this stuff from my boyfriend. i really havent been smelling that bad lately but i dont want him to see the white stuff. can you please help me? anything will help!
thanx so much!
always kayla i rate high
As everyone has pointed out, the discharge is normal. Although, if it looks chunky.. kind of like cottage cheese, it may be a sign of a yeast infection in which case would explain the smell (which depending on the strength of the smell could be normal). If its chunky like I said before, tell your mom. You can get things at the drug store or even walmart to clear them up quite quickly. Three days tops. But if its not that - you're normal and dont be embarassed by it. Change your undies frequently, especially right before you think you're going to be with him. Light pads (the ones for light days) pantyliners are a life saver!
I'm going to high school as a freshman.. and I was just wondering, what will the first day be like? Please help, I'm so nervous!
The first day is basically orientation. They have all the incoming freshmen together on the first day and bring you to your classes and answer all your questions. Then the next day is a little harder because you have to try to make it to your classes on time with the rushes of people, but its okay. The teachers are really lenient with freshmen because they know its a lot of new stuff and maybe hard to handle for a little bit. Theres really nothing to worry about. After the first week of high school, its a breeze. Enjoy it!! IT GOES FAST!
Hi.. im a 14/f okay i like this boy and ive liked him since the day i first met him and we got along really good and my best friend was tryin to hook us up but it didnt really work so i just kept liking him for a while then me best friend went out with him!!! and everytime she asked me if i liked him i said no beacuse i didnt want her mad at me but then they broke up.... he was mad at her at frist but they are best friends still! and me and him are pretty close but now the same best friend was goin out with another guy and now they arent bc they had some problems so a couple days ago we saw they guy i liked and she sat on his lap an they flirted and later that night she said she liked him again but i still do!!! but she doesnt know that but see he dont like me i think he likes her......what should i do? should i get over him or what? i really like him!!!! but i love my best friend too
Never let a boy get in between you and your friend. No matter how much you think you like him. Boys will always come and go but a true best friend is hard to come by. Trust me, I'm 17 years old and I've fought with my friends over guys and it never ends up good. You and your friend could fight over him now and end up being friends again - but you're never the same once that happens. No guy is worth getting in between that. You should tell your friend you like him too and make a pact that neither of you be anything with him but friends. That way you keep all the friendships and no one really gets hurt. I hope I helped!
hi ive been using proactive for about 3 weeks. at first my acne was just around my nose, eyebrowns, and mouth. now its still there and alot started to form on my cheeks and forehead! This really depreses and upsets me because i thought this would work and ive been putting up with this for a while and im really starting to get really low self esteem because i see people with perfect skin and i just want that so bad. i dont know what i should do, i also tried on the spot neautrogena acne treatment, but it made me acne really red. Should i keep using the proactiv and just wait a little longer and see if it clears my face up? I dont know what to do, i have no more money i spent it all on the proactiv so i dont realy no what to do.
Keep using the proactive. My friend used it, and it made it worse before it got better. And now her face is clearer and shes gorgeous!
I'm really tired of just wearing jeans and a t-shirt to school. I want to start dressing nicer. But all the nice/cute clothes that I find are tank tops or spaghetti straps. And the problem with that is at my school all tops have to have a strap of 3 inches.
Does anyone know of any place that has nice/cute tops that aren't tank or spaghetti?
Thanks.
You can always find those light sweaters (either half sweaters or full ones.. that are open like a jacket) and wear those overtop of the tanktops. I got around that rule in school when I was younger by wearing multiple tanktops at one time so it looked as though the straps were thicker. =) Hope I helped!
is it true that the 2nd and 3rd days you hav your perioad r usually the worst??
PLz help....i rate high!
Every girls period is different. And a lot of the time, every seperate menstrual cycle in ONE GIRL's cycle is different. One time you may have a hard period around the 2-4th days. Another time it may be the first day thats the roughest. It's ALWAYS different from person to person, cycle to cycle.