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Hello, my name is Mary. I'm a 21 year old student, studying to be a counselor. I'm still young but I feel like I've had enough life experiences to answer any questions you may have. I still have some things to learn, but feel free to ask me anything, don't be shy! I'll answer as soon as possible, and I'll try my best to give you the best advice!

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Well.. its almost christmas.. and my boyfriend hasnt asked me what i wanted.. and im scared to ask him what he wants.. cause what if he dont wanna get me nething.. lol.. kinda cheesy .. but i need help :[

hmm well he probably already knows what he wants to get you.. or hes probably havin` trouble too. js give it some time, and im sure that he'll ask you sooner or later.. maybe ask him when your on the phone, or online.. js say "sooo .. what do you want for christmas?" and he'll answer. IM SURE OF IT. he cant js ignore it. i hoped that helped =)

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i was wondering if you just drink a little alcohol but not enough to get you drunk, then some weed.. would that get you really messed up?

Yes it would.

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okay.. so my friend always talks about this kid.. and my friend told me that she thinks she likes him and she knows i like him too.. and now i just feel so weird having us like the same person and were like bestfriends.. im not sure what to do. stop talking to her? or idk.

What i think you should do, is talk it out w/ your friend..

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Okay first of all my friend hates me because she thinks I told a much older guy that she liked him but I didn't. I keep saying that I didn't but she won't listen.She keeps telling me that I am stupid and everyone hates me when she is the only one. She tells me to stop talking to her and it drives me crazy. What shall I do?

Well then she isn't a real friend is she ? if she was then she would give you a chance to talk to her, and explain. And she wouldn't ignore you, or say those kind of stuff.. i think you can find a better friend than that. If you can't get her to listen to you, then i guess you cant do anything about it.. thats how stubborn people are.

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if ever i am talking to a guy, my friend always butts into teh conversation and will start to talk. even if the conversation has absolutly nothing to do with her. and sometimes these guys she isn't even freinds with! or i will talk to a guy then she will be like Bobbbbb!!!!! Bobbbb!!!! And it gets so annoying. How can I get her to stop?

you beat the crap out of her if she keeps doing it... OR tell her to stop and that its really annoying, but go w/ the first idea if you have to.

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how do you delete old conversations so your parents dont find them if they look online.

Delete your history.. It looks like a clock w/ and arrow on it. Or if your talking about aim.. go to your documents and go to the Fileib..

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I've beening hearing around from other people that my boyfriend has herpes.
Should I ask him if he does?
I don't want to offend him.
How would I ask him?
HELP PLEASE!

Ask him, it won't hurt.. did you do it with him ? if you did.. go to the doctor and get a check up.

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I'm in 8th grade, and I wanted to do well on my test scores, so far, I'm not doing so well. What can I do to imrpove test scores? Any help is appreciated.

Study hard, take notes in class, don't slack off.. sometimes it'll make you fail, pay attention in class.. and you'll do js fine.

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Okay. Well there is this boy, and i like him and i'm not sure if he likes me. we sit infront of each other and we like to talk and stuff. And we were talkin one day and he made me laugh and the girl next to him said "Just go ahead and ask her out already!!" and he boy just sorta giggled,smiled, and turned real red. then like 5 minutes later she said it again and all he did was smile and turn real red...We like to push each others desks. and the boy sittin next to me (not the one i like) saw him push my desk. and he's like "ohh foostie!" and the boy i like blushed...and smiled at me... Does he like me!? Because one time the girl sittin next to the boy i like wrote him a note. talkin bout if he liked me. and i read a lil and she asked if he liked me and i didn't get to read the answer, then later down in the note i saw that she asked " what a friend?" so i had my doubts...so i dont know if he does... does he?

Obviously he likes you =)
once he asks you out.. CONGRATS =D
js flirt alot more..

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Hey guys, my name is Sasha. Well, there's this boy(lets call him bobby) and I like him so much. I mean, I get butterflies everytime I see him. Anyway, he smiles and stares ALOT.We sit in the same places everyday(at Lunch) and we constantly make eye contact and he does things that make me laugh, but I don't know if he likes me. I don't know how to tell him that I like him and I'm a tad bit afraid of rejection. Can you guys please help me out? I'd like to get some ways of telling him or signs that he likes me back! Thank you so much!
--SASHA:)

So far, you got all of the signs that he likes you.. js start flirting back.. or flirt ALOT more ;] kaka .. like my friend says.. give him a chance =.=

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16/m
I'm so sick of being alive. Everything is so hard. I can't stand it. It's like I'm doing something wrong. I have few friends, but it doesn't matter because I don't like them. I don't like any one. People don't meet my standards and they never will. And when it comes to girls I have no idea what I'm doing. It's like there's some secret technique that every one but me seems to understand. My problems with girls contribute the most to my loneliness and depression. I'm unmotivated in school, because I care more about trying to find a place I belong, trying to find some one who understands me. I can hardly sleep because I'm always worrying about all this. I'm scared I'll never have friends. I'm scared I'll never have a good job. I'm scared I'll never have my first kiss or have sex, and if I do it will be with some one I don't want to do it with. Somewhere between now and the next few years I 100% sure I'll be dead. I can't take it anymore. I've been to therapy and they even locked me up like a criminal in a mental health ward, but to no avail. I hate life. I hate myself. I hate every one, especially if they're happy. I don't see things ever getting better. Please help me. And don't post anything about God, Jesus, or religion of any kind, it will be an automatic 1 on your rating.

Don't kill yourself every has someone even you even though it dont seem like it right now.

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I've gotten all of my Christmas shopping done, except for one person: my mom. I have no idea what to get her! The problem is she doesn't want anything, and what she does want she buys herself. Could I have some ideas please? Maybe some gifts you got for your own mother? Thanks!

Hmmm.. maybe you can buy her flowers & a card..or maybe jewlery, moms will like anything what you get them, because its from their children.

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My friends and i have been friends for 1 year.recently we got mad at each other and we are not talking.I dont know if we should be friends again or not.But here is the thing...everybody is saying that im the one who is ignoring her when she started all this and everybody thinks im the bad person.She calls me everyday but i don talk to her.Any advice?Thanx alot!And how can i make her stop calling me every damn day.

Im going through the same thing, except its the other way around. except.. me & my friend has been together for like .. since 1st grade.. idk why am i telling you this.. okay well back to you.

Ummm.. maybe shes really mad or something, what i think you should do is js talk to her about it, shes probably calling you js to try to work things out. People is probably thinking that your ignoring her cause you not talking to her & thats probably also the reason they think you are bad, how to solve this ? is to talk to her and try to work things out.. even if she did start it.

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Okay, I tried out for a solo in choir on Friday, and we find out who made it and who didn't. Everyone says I'll get it, but how do I get rid of the nervous feeling in my stomach untill Monday? I couldn't sleep untill after 1 in the morning last night.

Okay .. well my friend says to drink a hot glass of milk and think peaceful thoughts.. >.

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Well there is this guy and I am totally starting to crush on him and I was just wondering if there is a for sure way to tell if he likes me back!! He is in two of my classes and i am a freshman in high school. Well anyways it seems like he is flirting with me, for instance he usually takes something from me and then he expects me to chase him around to get it back so i dont know if that is a sign because he does it in a sort of flirtacous. Sometimes when i glance over during class to check the clock or something and i will see him quickly glance away when i make eye contact with him when i see him looking my way. In our english class he was also mad because we have to change seats every six weeks and we use to sit next to eachother so he was mad because we werent by eachother anymore. I just really need to know if we have a chance even though we dont really talk outside of english and biology because we dont really see eachother. I really want him to be the one to ask me out or to just hang out so what should I do for him to know I like him back besides just flirting? I am also kind of shy unless u know me pretty well then i am extremly outgoing!haha! Last year I wasnt outgoing around guys but this year i am more chill around them and myself so I really hope that is a good thing. Well anyways i would really appreciate it if u could help me out because i am at a major loss!

Js find him and talk to him. Find out by yourself

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me and my 2 best firends are doing this thing for christmas where we make a gift and also get a real gift. i know what i am getting them as a real gift but i dont no what to make. i have alot of pictures of the 3 of us so i wanted to do something with them. any one have any good and creative ideas? thanks

Make a collage or a scrap book.

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14/Male

1)i go to all boy school, how can i hook up with some girls?

2)(girls answer plz)wat girls want from a guy?

3) i wear a uniform dress pance and dress shit, do girls like that? if not is their a way i can look cool with it on?


THANK YOU FOR ADVICE

My friend says to change your outfit up a bit, and girls would like a sweet guy... thats not stubbornish.. you should know that part, girls don't really mind if you go to an all boys school.. if you know some girls.. try to hang out with them on the weekends or something .. and they will introduce you to some of their friends. Cute friends..

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Well at first my friend was asking me who i like but then i said i dont wanna tell her but im just gonna tell her bestfriend-shes my aquintance and my other friend is good friend. they are both good at keeping secrets but i didnt tell my other good friend because she used to like him so im unconfortable to tell her. But she doesnt know why i dont want to tell her. one day when i was trying to talk to my friend cause she didnt wanna talk to me cause i didnt tell her who i like and i tried to talk to her and i said"you hate me huh? you dont talk to me anymore i said it in a joking way and she was like" i dont hate you i just dont have anything to talk about" and i was like wtf and then when after lunch when i had a class with her she just said my name and said hi to me but that was it
what do you think about this situation? do you think shes mad at me for not telling who i like?

=\ hmmm... well she must be mad, because you won't tell her who you like, its not that.. but since you didn't tell her she probably thinks that you don't trust her or something. There's only one solution.. i really do think you should tell her, she won't be angry trust me.. if she was your good friend, then she won't be mad at you js for liking a guy that she USED to like. Trust me, everything will turn back to normal, don't hide it from your good friend.

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14/f

Alright I have a bf and he's 17.
I really love him but we get into a lot of fights..
See when we talk on the phone he gets so distracted and doesn't even care what I say..
Especially when he's playing his annoying video games.
He's obsessed.
I get so pissed off at him because I feel like he never listens to me on the phone.
What should I do?

Reminds me of my old boyfriend.
talk to him about it, if he really loved you then he would change. and if he doesn't change then i think you should move on, because you don't need a guy like that, guhh` you can find a better one trust me.

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okay for the girls. i started my period and it kind of smells.how do you et it to be like virtually odorless like a certain kind of pad?


i neeeeed answers :)

O.o lol its natural if your period smells >.

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