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what shall I do?
Okay first of all my friend hates me because she thinks I told a much older guy that she liked him but I didn't. I keep saying that I didn't but she won't listen.She keeps telling me that I am stupid and everyone hates me when she is the only one. She tells me to stop talking to her and it drives me crazy. What shall I do?
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Well then she isn't a real friend is she ? if she was then she would give you a chance to talk to her, and explain. And she wouldn't ignore you, or say those kind of stuff.. i think you can find a better friend than that. If you can't get her to listen to you, then i guess you cant do anything about it.. thats how stubborn people are.
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stop talking to her. she obviously isnt serious about your relationship if she wont even listen to you. find some other friends that really care about you. but dont do anything mean to her. that will really make people hate you. Just leave her alone.
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Sit down with her and talk it out and explain to her that youdidnt do that.
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First off, I'm sure she doesn't hate you -- she's just upset. I would give her a few days, or maybe even a week, without talking to her or trying to convince her. Give her some time to think about everything, and if she's really your friend she will come around.
If she does not come around by then, and if she still will not talk to you, I would try giving her a letter, sending her a letter or having someone else give her a letter -- just so she gets to read it. Explaining everything, that would make her come around for sure, in my opinion.
Good luck, and don't worry, I'm sure everything will work out just fine!!!
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Dear What Shall I Do,
Oh boyy.. the ever popular fight over a guy issue. Expect this one is a little twisted, I recomend listening to her.. dont talk to her, and "shutup". She`ll come around, belive me.
If you really didnt do it and you told her that
then you have nothing to worry about. She'll get over it... meanwhile hangout with different people ( the people who dont " hate you" ) Beleive me ; thats stupid just give her space for a while.
Hope everything works out
xoxox - LYSSSSAA
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