Question Posted Wednesday December 6 2006, 4:53 pm
I've beening hearing around from other people that my boyfriend has herpes.
Should I ask him if he does?
I don't want to offend him.
How would I ask him?
HELP PLEASE!
Bluebell78 answered Wednesday December 6 2006, 8:57 pm: i would ask him. how i would ask him is by saying, "pleases dont get mad at me becuz i heard around school that you have herpes. im not sure if its true or not thats why im asking you and be honest with me. im not insulting you. whatever you tell me i will believe so if you tell me it isnt true then i believ that." and thats it. now dont go up to him and say, "I HEARD YOU HAVE HEPRES IS THAT TRUE!" then somethin would happen. hope i helped you and ask me questions anytime. good luck [ Bluebell78's advice column | Ask Bluebell78 A Question ]
devilspawn_666 answered Wednesday December 6 2006, 8:35 pm: You do need to ask him because herpes is a serious thing. There is no cure for herpes and it is contagious.
Just tell him that you've been hearing some rumors about him and want to know if they're true or not. Remind him that it's safe for him to be honest with you about these things because you care about him.
bLue_in_tHe_faCe answered Wednesday December 6 2006, 6:26 pm: I would just ask him. If he gets mad, just say its a question.. i mean you never know whats true. He might just laugh at it, or he might actually have herpes. Maybe ask him if theres anything important he needs to tell you? He shouldnt get mad, he might feel imbarrassed if he does have it. Hope this helped [ bLue_in_tHe_faCe's advice column | Ask bLue_in_tHe_faCe A Question ]
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