Question Posted Wednesday December 6 2006, 5:06 pm
okay well i had 3 bestfriends two guys and my and my best girlfriend..we had a lot of fun all the time but then me & the girl started drinking & smoking & stuff and kept it a secret from them..then they found out and got really pissed cause they dont really like that stuff so i stopped because i liked one of the guys a lot and we were kind of together and stuff, plus i really didnt like doing all that but she kept doing it..then she just completely forgot about me and we were fighting all the time..then over the summer everything was perfect me & the guy have been dating now since like may and she stopped all that stuff and we were really close again but now shes smoking constantly and lying to me about everything and treats me like shit and it just feels like i have no one anymore because allll of my other friends do it to and it just really bothers me i mean i guess thats stupid and people think its fun or whatever but i dont and my boyfriend is going to school like two hours away so i only see him on weekends
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Friendship? daisysmiles answered Wednesday December 6 2006, 8:22 pm: Yeah last year I was hanging with a large group that started get into that. It started with smokin, then doin stuff at parties and drinkin and it just went from there, its hard not to do it when everyone around you is, so I got into to it too. At the end of the school year I got away from all that because i met this guy and we've been going out since June, if we didnt go to school together, Id have a hard time not getin back in to that "stuff". It dont look like you can really trust any of your friends especially not that one who's been lyin to you. You need to find new friends who stand for what you belive in and aint tryin to get you into stuff like that. We went form cigarettes and drinkin to pills and weed and when my "friends" got into some harder stuff than that I was like gone cus i want a future and what I was already doin was messin that up. [ daisysmiles's advice column | Ask daisysmiles A Question ]
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