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is she mad for not telling who i like?
Well at first my friend was asking me who i like but then i said i dont wanna tell her but im just gonna tell her bestfriend-shes my aquintance and my other friend is good friend. they are both good at keeping secrets but i didnt tell my other good friend because she used to like him so im unconfortable to tell her. But she doesnt know why i dont want to tell her. one day when i was trying to talk to my friend cause she didnt wanna talk to me cause i didnt tell her who i like and i tried to talk to her and i said"you hate me huh? you dont talk to me anymore i said it in a joking way and she was like" i dont hate you i just dont have anything to talk about" and i was like wtf and then when after lunch when i had a class with her she just said my name and said hi to me but that was it
what do you think about this situation? do you think shes mad at me for not telling who i like?
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well your friend probably feels kinda hurt so shes not mad at yo she just wants to no. i would tell her like give her clues or sumthing. tell her that if you tell her who you like she will get emotional. if she takes it in a bad way then try to give her other examples to why you cant tell her.
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I don't think she's like MAD MAD, I just think she's upset and feeling a little hurt.
Like you said, she doesn't know the real reason why you won't tell her, so she's probably thinking it's her or something. You don't trust her, you don't think you guys are friends enough to tell her, she's probably thinking alot of different thoughts and she feels bad.
I would just tell her.
I would just sit down with her and be like,"Look, the real reason I didn't want to tell you is because you used to like him, and I just feel really uncomfortable letting you know I like him. I didn't know if you'd get mad, or what so I figured it would've just been best to keep my mouth shut and not say anything to you about it. But I can't stand us not talking or anything, so I felt I should just let you know." And talk to her about it, you never know, she might understand and then everything'll be good again.
I'm sure she will understand, cause I'm sure if she was in your position, she'd want to do the same exact thing and not say anything.
I hope I helped.
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i think she is. you should be able to tell her if shes your friend. i think u should just confront her and tell her who you like and why you felt weird telling her
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= hmmm... well she must be mad, because you won't tell her who you like, its not that.. but since you didn't tell her she probably thinks that you don't trust her or something. There's only one solution.. i really do think you should tell her, she won't be angry trust me.. if she was your good friend, then she won't be mad at you js for liking a guy that she USED to like. Trust me, everything will turn back to normal, don't hide it from your good friend.
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She's not mad at you but a little upset that you'd tell some other people while not telling her. She probably feels excluded and she's a good friend for not getting all mad at you for not telling her who you like. But I know how much it sucks to feel excluded like this and I think you should just tell her. She used to like him him. Key word: USED.
Just start off with a "I didn't wanna tell you who I liked before because you liked him and" you continue on.
Just tell her. It's not biggie. Ask her if she has a problem with that or if she still likes this guy at the end just to clarify things with her.
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