Question Posted Wednesday December 6 2006, 8:28 pm
if ever i am talking to a guy, my friend always butts into teh conversation and will start to talk. even if the conversation has absolutly nothing to do with her. and sometimes these guys she isn't even freinds with! or i will talk to a guy then she will be like Bobbbbb!!!!! Bobbbb!!!! And it gets so annoying. How can I get her to stop?
easilyfixed answered Wednesday December 6 2006, 10:01 pm: it seems to me like she wants to be the center of attention.
and she can't seem to handle the fact that you're making guy friends that don't involve her.
how to tell her?
confront her..
uhm. try and be nice about confronting her about it though...don't make it sound like you're blaming her cuz that could really ruin a friendship..
daisysmiles answered Wednesday December 6 2006, 9:13 pm: She sounds really jealous, and needs to find guys of her own to talk to, because she's just being rude, and I can see how that would irritate you. It would drive me crazy, anyways you just need to find a nice way to tell her how you feel, and maybe leave the word Jealous out of it so she doesnt get mad but you really should tell her how it is. If she has any sense she see why it upsets you and stop. [ daisysmiles's advice column | Ask daisysmiles A Question ]
bigflirtbabe answered Wednesday December 6 2006, 9:08 pm: well, first of all you could try talking to the guys when shes not there. do that as much as possible. and then if she does it and you still can't stand it, then talk to her. tell her that you want some alone time to talk to the guys. tell her that there are sometimes when it can be both of you talking to them, but not all the time. Try to get her to understand that she steels your light someitmes. but dont just accuse her and tell her shes wrong. try making it come out equil, dont try 'winning' the argument because you'll 'lose' the friendship. I hope it helps ,let me know how it goes =)
Veranex answered Wednesday December 6 2006, 9:07 pm: the best way is to talk to her about it, but be really nice about it...and you know what else the prblem can be is that she is jealous of you that you talk to more guys and she doesn't, and since your there she can talk to them! honestly, the best way to handle this is to talk to her! Hoped I helped, and I wish you luck! [ Veranex's advice column | Ask Veranex A Question ]
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