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okay soo im going out with this guy and hes soooooooo hot and really nice!! but theres this other guy whos on aim a lot more and hes really nice and really cute too and i kinda like him but i worked really hard to get my bf to be my bf! i have no idea wat to do!! plus the other guy is moving out of state most likely by the end of the summer and that made me like him even more!! i have no idea wat im doing HELP ME!!
If he's moving, why are you even considering him?
I probably wouldn't even ask this, but I told my best guy friend what I did, and he told me that what I did was very wrong to the point that even a Satanist would have problems condoning all of my actions.
It really has messed w/ my head since he said that, so I wanted your opinion on if you think I did the right things or not in this instance.
I was in college this past semester, and had 19 hours worth of classes. I also was working two jobs, one of them on campus for the housing dept., one off campus. I had been engaged to this guy I'd been w/ for 5 years from back home, but it was long distance by then because he didn't go to college. I had gotten pretty bored w/ him, and I had found a friend w/ benefits on the side, and the more that went on, the more I felt like I need to break off the engagement, so I did that over Christmas break.
Well, about 3 weeks before the semester ended, my ex fiance showed up and surprised me at my apt. He had a gun, but he didn't threaten me w/ it. He said that unless I got on his Harley w/ him and ran away, he was going to kill his self right then and there. I did call my little sister and I told her that I was running away w/ my ex-fiance, and she was the only person I would call while I was gone. I told her to tell our parents for me, so they'd know I was ok, but not to tell anybody else. So then I left w/ him, and we headed out west. The plan was that we were going to Vegas to get married. We were on the road for like 4 weeks, and the longer I was w/ him, the more I remembered why I had broken up w/ him to begin w/. We were somewhere in west Texas, I forget the name of the place, and he had gotten really drunk at our motel room and passed out. I looked in his pants pocket and got his wallet, and I slipped out the door. I used what cash he had to buy a bus ticket to Dallas, because he didn't have enough cash on him to buy a bus ticket for anywhere closer to home. On the way to Dallas, I ripped up or cut up everything from his wallet because I was bored, plus I didn't want someone to do identity theft on him, ya know? So when I got to Dallas, I found this strip club and asked if I could dance there for one shift to make money for bus fare, and the manager was nice enough to let me. (I had worked in strip clubs where I go to college at before.) So, I was able to use that money to finally make it back home. When I made it back home, I found out that I had fired from both of my jobs when they didn't hear from me, and also that I was on academic suspension because they had given me F's in all of my classes when I didn't show up for finals. Also, when I didn't show up to move out of my dorm room, they cleaned my room out, so I lost everything in there. In short, I lost my whole life on that trip. But still, in my mind, I did the right thing b/c he would've killed his self otherwise if I hadn't have left with him. I can rebuild what I've lost, and I've already found one new job.
The thing that my best guy friend has the biggest problem w/ was that he said if I was going to steal my ex's wallet, then I should have also stolen his gun and thrown it away or pawned it so that he couldn't use it to kill his self when he woke up and saw that I was gone. I really didn't think about that at the time, and now that it has been pointed out to me, I am a little bit worried about it.
So, did I really handle things as badly as my best guy friend said?
No, I don't think you really did anything that bad. You did the best you could. Your best guy friend should be put in the same situation and see how he reacts. There's not much you can do when someone is threatening to kill themself. You never know if they're serious or not. You could've tried to talk him out of it, or tricked him or something, but what if it wouldn't have worked? Everything is back to normal now so you should really tell your best guy friend to get off your case about it. The only problem now is, what are you going to do when your ex-fiance comes back? He can probably get you in trouble for stealing his wallet so you should think about that.
idk how to make a myscace bc every time i register it says like cant take it (i made my age older too) idk what im doin wrong
Try a different email or name?
When you get braces do they put any needles in so they have to numb you like getting a filling?
No, there's no reason to. All they're doing is glueing a piece of metal to your teeth. It doesn't hurt at all. The only thing that might bother you is when the metal starts rubbing on your lip, but they give you wax for that.
im thinking about getting a perm but i don't know what kind i need to get, i want to make my hair look like these:
http://www.draganhair.com/images/natural_looking_curls_01.jpg
http://www3.pictures.zimbio.com/img/5519/Alicia/1181l.jpg
How can i get this, what type of rollers would i need? What kind of perm is this?
Perms usually make fried, tight curls, much unlike the ones in those pictures. In the first picture it looks like she just put mousse in her hair and then scrunched it while blowdrying it. In the second picture it looks like she used a curling iron. Watch some videos on youtube of people curling their hair and you'll get the hang of it. You'd probably regret getting a perm.
okay, me n my boyfriend were at the movies and i gave him a hand job and he came. then after he came, he went to the bathroom and washed off his hands and dried them, then he came back, it must've been about 4/5 minutes. then when he came back, he fingered me. is there a possibility that i could be pregnant?
No, you're not pregnant, but don't ever do that at the movies again. You could get in big trouble for that.
is pot and weed the same thing?
Pot and weed are both slang names for Marijuana.
ok look at the messege he sent me yesrterday its propper pathetic
Subject: You can be a real dick without even trying I don't even know why you bothered coming back to wow, you said it yourself its a stupid game so why on earth did you come back? I don't even want to know because at the end of the day you can't make up your mind about anything anymore. You should just quit like you do with everything else that you can't make your mind up about. All I hear from anyone anymore is how your being a complete idiot and that you've changed and its starting to piss me right off. And in truth you have changed. I don't know what shitty idea crawled into your head when you dicided to be a fucking dick but i'll tell you one thing. Everyone is getting pissed off with you and your childish fucking grudge against and i'm the one getting it in the ear. What it all boils down to is your a selfish, arrogant little prick who lives in a world where everyone else is wrong and you don't have to think about your own actions because its clearly everyone elses problem. You should just quit wow all together and forget you ever used to play it becuase we both know the only reason you ever played was because of me, and now your so keen on cutting yourself away from everything to do with me you should hurry up and sell your account. While your at it you can get rid of those items callen gave you because they really came from me, I asked him to give them to you on my behalf. Thats right I was still watching out for you. You can hurry make up your mind about leaving asda too because i've already left home shopping so you wouldn' have to leave. And lets not forget who got you that job in the first place. Well i hope your proud of yourself now. Also just because your out skating everynight thats not going to stop me going out and skating with my friends so if you see me down there with my mates you can expect my mates to stick up for me just like your prick of a mate did to me tonight, which by the way you should of had the guts to do yourself but instead you let a kid handle it. Your a fucking pussy matthew and you should try dealing with your problems rather than ignoring them. I hope you grow some balls and straighten up because if you don't. Your going to find you'll lose a hell of alot more friends than just me. I'm not going to name anyone, but theres quiet a few who are fed up with you. I always watched out for you and this is how you fucking treat me? We were like brothers I would have done anything for you. Your the real low life matthew. Grow the fuck up and get the fuck out of my way. P.s Atlest I have someone who loves me, you haven't even got that.
So he pulls out every wierd point in his stupid wierd mind to say what exactly? lol does it look like he is finnaly going to leave me alone kus to be honest.. this is the most retarded thing i have ever read
If you want him to leave you alone, just ignore him. He sounds like someone who's desperate for a fight and just wants to start drama. So if you just let him be, he'll find someone else to start drama with. You have nothing to apologize for. All of that stuff is just his opinion, and frankly, it was quite unnecessary. He needs to mind his own business. Gah! Sorry, that just really pissed me off, haha. He's really immature. Especially the ending of that little letter thing. Like, wtf. He's the one that needs to grow up. Anyway, this is like a goodbye letter so maybe it does mean he'll leave you alone. Hopefully!
Heyy im a 14/f and i realllllllly like this guy.like the first time i saw him, i was like WOAHHHH.But i didnt know him at all.Only his name.So my friends all knew i thought he was super hot and all, and even though at the time i didnt like him, i just thought he was cute, they told him i liked him and stuff.and he said he thought i was cute and wanted to get to know me more. :D
So i was all happy and now its been a few monthes and we're like really close.
Like i KNOw he likes me.
When he texts me, he puts like "
Like, you need to give him a reason to stay. Like, tease him and stuff. Like, because you don't want him to just up and leave one day, do you? Like, yeah. So like do something to keep him. Like yeah. Like okay, bye.
Here's how I see it; humans are evil. (I know vampires do not exist, but I like them anyway) Vampires kill humans to eat. Humans kill cows, goats, sheep, pigs to eat. If vampires are evil, then so are humans. And wolves because they ate that wild boar (or whatever they eat). And snakes for eating that mouse. And sharks for eating that fish.
Humans are a lot more evil because you don't see vampires (in ANY book {besides Nightworld, no not even that...}) raising humans for food, but you see HUMANS raising COWS and PIGS for food.
Yes, I do like animals, but humans also kill each other. Humans are destroying the pl anent. We aren't going to have any more vegetation in the future, however near that may be.
Sure, there are some evil vampys in books and movies who want to take over the world or destroy it, but there are also humans who are evil too.
So, are vampires evil?
So are you saying vampires are above or the same as humans? We kill animals that are below us for food. But some humans kill other humans who are the same as them for pleasure, which would be murder. So it all depends on how you look at it. If the vampire is killing a human for pleasure it would be murder but if they're killing for food it would just be a part of the food chain.
Hey, I have 2 questions.
ONE : Do guys like when girls swallow their cum ? Is that like a turn on or something ?
TWO : If you do decide to swallow, is there any chance of getting prego, or is it a 0 % chance ?
THANKS :)
Girls think it's sexy or something when they swallow, but it just makes them look stupid. The guys all go talk to their guy friends about how his girlfriend is just a desperate slutty girl doing anything she can to please him and make him want her. It's sad, actually.
I really like this guy and he says he likes me too, I 've been with him a couple times before, but havent gone all the way. He asked me if I could help him out, I said how, He wants to nut, what does that mean? How can I help him?
If you don't even know what it means yet, you're not ready for it. Don't give in so fast. He'll get you right where he wants you and he won't have to try so hard because you'll just always be there, ready to give in to anything he wants.
being that you are a boy, ill ask you, what is wrong with boys? why do they LIKE to lead girls on and pretend to like them, to already have moved on the next week? i figure, if you dont like someone, then dont act like it. it fucks with peoples heads. anyway, the question is just on my mind, because its happened to me with EVERY boy ive ever had, relations, with. ive concluded that its a boy thing. why?
They're not leading you on at the time, it just seems like it afterwards, because you pushed them away. When girls are too clingy and just not right for the guy, the guy will drift away, making the girl think he led her on. Just keep a level head.
so there is this guy named eric. ive always kinda liked him but i dont know if he likes me too. my friends say he is always looking at me!...but the thing is i dont know if its true..i mean i love my friends to death but i have no idea if he does. so, one night on aim i was gonna ask him out when all of a sudden he said im pretty. i was so happy! but then i chickend out of asking him out, luckily that i did he found out the he had a gf already. should i still tell him i like him. or do i move on? help!! plz!!!
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Nooo. Don't tell him you like him, and definitely don't ask him out. Girls don't do that. You're just going to make yourself look clingy and immature and desperate. Flirt with him (even though he has a girlfriend...he obviously doesn't mind cheating because he was telling you that you're pretty) and make HIM come to YOU.
hey neighbor! so yah my parentals are really trying to make me do football but they arent actually MAKING me. they just keep talkin bout it and saying like if i dont wanna do it, i have to call the coach! ugh! i dont know how to convince them that i dont like football :(. i just wanna do music and stuff so i dont know please if you have any ideas, tell me!
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Kyle
They said if you don't want to do it, call the coach. What are you waiting for?
My friends just dumped me. For. Good. I'm kinda shy, and have this big deal about jumping into a group. I've been sitting alone at lunch, but there's this group I really want to get into. I have two friends in it. Not like close friends, but friends nonetheless. And the guy I like is in this group. But the group is kinda out there. Pretty much all they wear is black, and they listen to music that I've never even heard of. I've heard of some of it..but not enough to impress anyone. I want to get into this group, but I don't want to change myself for them. How do I do that!?
Just ask the one that you're closest friends with if you can join them in lunch the next day because you're having a fight with your friends or something. Then greet everyone and be nice to them and give them a reason to want you to keep sitting there. Then everything will work out perfectly. :)
help me! this person in my class is threating to kill me! he keeps saying dont tell any parents or he really will kill me, and when i try telling them they dont believe me! what should i do?
You seriously need to get this recorded. Using your phone, a camera, anything. But if you can't...at least tell the principal or someone. Seriously, don't let it go. Something is wrong with him.
what if i never get a peroid?
It would've helped if you would've told us your age.
I am a 22 year old woman dating a 39 year old man. We've been together for almost 2 years now. I love him very much and he loves me.
Can our relationship last despite our age difference?
Only you can ask yourself this question.
Hey! 14/F
Well, last weekend my friend came over for a sleepover and she straightened my hair for me and it looked sooo nice! So, I bought a straightner but i really dont know how to make it look as good as my friend did it:/ She told me i have to do it in sections so i tried it about 3 times and i still cant get it to look the way i want it to look like. I have one of those cuts where its long in the front and short in the back:) very cute..and layerd but it gets to wavy sometimes(i have natural wave :/ ) So can anyone give me some steps on how to straighten my hair? thanks in advance!
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