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being that you are a boy, ill ask you, what is wrong with boys? why do they LIKE to lead girls on and pretend to like them, to already have moved on the next week? i figure, if you dont like someone, then dont act like it. it fucks with peoples heads. anyway, the question is just on my mind, because its happened to me with EVERY boy ive ever had, relations, with. ive concluded that its a boy thing. why?
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Aw, hahaha I guess you meant to ask this to a specific person.
It's not just a boy thing. Girls do it too; They just aren't as obvious about it.
Who knows why they do it. Either they're assholes, or they just know you like em but don't wanna hurt your feelings by saying they don't feel the same way. Most guys are just immature in middle and high school.
Sorry about all that's happen with you. You'll find a good guy someday. There's tons out there even if it doesn't seem like it now.
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They're not leading you on at the time, it just seems like it afterwards, because you pushed them away. When girls are too clingy and just not right for the guy, the guy will drift away, making the girl think he led her on. Just keep a level head.
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It is not a 'boy' thing. Not all boys are jerks. You're just getting jerks because that's what you go after. If you know the guy has a reputation of being an asshole, why even go for him?
Chances are, you can't change him so don't date him. There are also possibilities that maybe you're rushing in too fast with them and giving whatever it is up way too easily.
Boys will not respect you if you cannot respect yourself. You need to date boys who you know are good guys. If you keep dating jerks, this will keep happening to you. Get to know a guy first before doing anything with him. Chances are he'll respect you more and treat you better.
Don't pin all guys as assholes because you're a piece of the puzzle too.
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