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I dont know how to show a guy that i like him
Heyy im a 14/f and i realllllllly like this guy.like the first time i saw him, i was like WOAHHHH.But i didnt know him at all.Only his name.So my friends all knew i thought he was super hot and all, and even though at the time i didnt like him, i just thought he was cute, they told him i liked him and stuff.and he said he thought i was cute and wanted to get to know me more. :D
So i was all happy and now its been a few monthes and we're like really close.
Like i KNOw he likes me.
When he texts me, he puts like "<33"
and he always hugs me, like if i walk past him and stuff.
We flirt a LOT.
And he gives me a LOT of attention and everything.
And i love it.
I guess you could say we're friends with benefits. But the only thing is, its not moving up a step.Like this whole flirting friends with benifit thing is getting boring.Because its been going on for lke monthes.And i want him to ask me out.
But im not really all over him.Like hes really hot and a LOT of girls like him.And theyre all like OMG and like grab him and hug him and stuff.I dont do that thought because he does that to me :D
And hes a big flirt, and he flirts with a lot of girls and hugs them too, but hes different with me.and hes told his friends that he likes me, and my friends notice when me and him are talking, that he likes me,because all he does is smile and flirt.
But lately, he hasnt been doing it that much.
Like im thinkin hes gettin bored too. And i really dont want to lose what we have.I love the attention he gives me!
And i just want him to continue with it! Like, why is he stopping it??
And i dont know if he just doesnt like me anymore, or if he thinks i dont like him anymore,
Cus i dont really show it as much as those other girls.So i just wanna ask How do I show him i like him?
Like i give really good hugs, we have a LOT of inside jokes, we poke each other, we're really playful and it seems like im doing whatever i can.
Can you help? :)
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Like, you need to give him a reason to stay. Like, tease him and stuff. Like, because you don't want him to just up and leave one day, do you? Like, yeah. So like do something to keep him. Like yeah. Like okay, bye.
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Well, from what you first said..he obviously does like you. Him stopping the hugging randomly does not mean he stopped liking you! It is possible he just get's bored with the flirting, like you do. And, it is possible he even thinks you don't like him anymore, which could lead to him not wanting to try anymore. Here are some tips to show him that you like him:
-Hugs, of course, are wondeful to give.
-The inside jokes and poking and what not is good too!
-Smile at him (always works on guys..just don't smile for too long..)
-Not only is smiling good..make sure to use eye contact when you see him or pass by him..with smiling, too (again..don't stare at him too much!)
-Ask him to hang with you sometime..and/or with you and your friends. Going to the movies is always a good idea. Just don't be too pushy!
-Try to joke a lot..a good sense of humor is always excellent to have :)
-Don't be too clingy (since you guy's are still friends it's good to establish this early..make sure to keep your own life..he'll appreciatte you not being the clingy type)
-Strike up an interesting conversation! This can actually go beyond flirting because it'll show him you are taking time out of your day just to be with him.
-The most important thing: BE YOURSELF! Let him know what kind of person you really are. Don't lie about what you like/dislike just to impress him. If he REALLY does like you..he wouldn't care if you have different interests..besides, the old saying is "opposites attract!". Just let him witness your true personality.
Good luck :) Hope I helped!
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well its really tuff with situations like this. if i were you i would take a HUGE step and ask him out. i dont think hes getting bored with you i think hes thinking that this is going no where so why talk to her. you shouldnt be one of those girls who throw themselves at guys for them to notice. be you thats why he likes you. i dont think hes going to reject you. so try it.! <3
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This will be hard, cause Ill admit I'm not much of a flirting guy... at all.(atleast I don't think) But Ill give what I can.
One thing to say is be yourself, don't try to act like all the other girls or anything. Keep in communication with him. That, even if it doesn't all work out, you can atleast be friends. Continue to be "flirty" but don't throw yourself at him. If you want to, take it further yourself. Sometimes the guy is too afraid to do it and accidentally go too far. Or don't know if the girl likes him back. Either or, you might have to do it yourself, so be ready.
I'm not making any promises to any results, but I can tell you it can all work out if you do things the right way and don't put him in a position that makes him uncomfortable...
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