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When I was little I was abused by both my sister and my dad. As I got older it stopped and the yelling died down a little but its still there. Lately my dad and my sister have been yelling more and tonight I was sitting in my room and heard things being thrown and everything. Im not sure what was going on but I new my dad and sister were fighting and probly hurting eachother and I was scared out of my mind. I wanted to jump out of my window and run I was so scared. Im sitting here shaking afraid to leave my room and I don`t know what to do. Please help meh!
14/f
Love maddie

ok,calm down,its okay,i know how you feel! stay in your room till everything is okay,you dont want to go down there and get hurt or yelled at.its really hard but what can you do? there fighting over something obviously.I think you should pray for them and maybe go on the computer to take you mind off of things,go on your faveorite websites,and if you hear you dad or sister comeing maybe turn your lights out for a sec and pretend to be asleep,is your sister like your dad? i think you should leave them both alone,but if things get REALLLY and i mean REALLY bad (like dealing with knives and guns..but that probably wont happen) then call the police,if this happens ofter then just stay out of it
good luck and i really hope they stop fighting!

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I have a bunch of pimples on my chin and under my lips. I really hate them bc even with the tons of makeup i sover them up with they still pop out all gross and red. I would really love something that could make these DISAPPEAR!!!

Proactive is THEEE BBEESSTT!! it really does work!!! it cleans really good two!! You could also go to a spa and get a facial,they remove that stuff!! then after you get the facial use proactive. (its might be red for about 2 days but thats not big cause it goes right away and its amazing!)

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I KNOW THIS IS LONG.. BUT I REALLY NEED HELP AND ILL RATE 5'S FOR EVERYONE NO MATTER WHAT.. I PROMISE!!

Well i have these two friends... nd lets say their names are Bob and Rob.. well ive been good friends with bob longer than i have with Rob.. Both Rob and Bob are a lil chunky.. but they're not Fat.. So me Rob and Bob became a group this year.. and ive always felt like i fit in until one day rob was me and bob are fat.. nd we hate pool partys.. and we have something against skinny people cauz we're jealous of them.. so i was like you guys aren't fat.. nd since im like a twig,.. i got offended and i was like well now im gonna feel uncomfortable in the pool with you guys since we're gonna be in bathing suits.. and rob didn't answer.. so since bob is my best friend i decided to talk to her about it.. so i told her how i felt.. and im like its not like you guys excercise or try to loose weight.. so then we straightened it out... but rob and bob want to go shopping together and rob doesn't wanna invite me cauz im skinny.. i mean i understand how they feel but now i feel like rob feels more comfortable around bob and i feel like rob and bob are friends and im not part of the group anymore.. i mean i wouldn't consider rob my best friend... cauz she's not my type of person.. nd now bob is like turning into rob.. like they use the same font colors and fonts on AIM and bob started listening to rock just like rob.. and now whenever we're together and we talk about clothes.. bobs like Lisa your such a twig you can fit into abercrombie.. and the way she says it, it hurts my feelings.. so like rob has bob brain washed practically and i hate the way she's acting now like all punk and into rock or watever and like how she's saying .. i hate you, your so skinny.. its not my fault im skinny.. im a runner.. and ive been skinny all my life cauz its in my genes and ive been doing sports since i was like 2.. so i dunno wat to do.. please help

omg same with me!! im under weight but its in my genes. Everyones like "why are you so skinny?" I can deffinatly relate! Well just be like "hey wanna go shopping? and invite rob and bob. talk to bob about it and say that you feel left out.Yeah i know its harder to say it but it will help!

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how can i make it so i puke in the morning so i dont have to go somewhere but can stay home? if i take to much cough syrup (but not enough to kill) when i wake up would that make me puke??

No hunni i got the perfect idea! (well its not my idea but its an old trick ;P) What you do it you take some food from the fridge (any ones you'd like)(pasta would work best) You chew it up real good then you spit it out in the toilet! Mix it will a LITTLE baby powder after you spit it out (stirr with a straw or something you can trow away!) and there you go! fake puke..and you might wanna put on a little act to

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Next week is my best friend's birthday. I wanted to get her something that she'd really like so I decided to get her a necklace from Tiffany and Co. Their are two necklaces that I like, so I thought that I would ask you guys which one you liked better. Price doesn't matter. Here are the links to the two necklaces:

http://www.tiffany.com/shopping/item.aspx?c_id=WEB1&c_it=57H2&start_id=31&CategoryId=13&category=Jewelry&

^ I was planning on putting her initials on that one. Do you think people would think that that necklace with the initials might be fake since it doesn't say return to tiffany on it and since you don't usually see it with the initials?


And here's the other one:

http://www.tiffany.com/shopping/item.aspx?c_id=WEB1&c_it=57H2&start_id=31&CategoryId=13&category=Jewelry&
^click on the picture of that one to see what it would look like on your neck.


Thanks!

hunni thats the same link ;) but yeah thats SOOOO cute!!! i love it !!

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My parents won't let me remove the hair from my legs, but I do anyway because I use my dad's razor. I want to get my own razor or hair removal device but my parents won't let me buy them or else they will kick me out of the house. My friend gave me a disposable razor but it ran out and she is out of town until September. How do I get a hair removal device and how do I hide it from my parents when I have it? If it helps I am 13/f. I will rate high for good advice or a good try.

Well i think you should go to the mall with your friends and buy a venus devine razor. I swear you can push down semi-hard and it wont even break your skin!! Its wonderful!! you could also use nare but if you keep it on too long it will burn your skin. Make sure you use shaving cream plus moisturizer,or else you'll get red bumps (razor burn) I started shaving when i was 11 so i really think you should!!(im going to be 15 soon) Also try waxing.Its like ripping off a band-aid. It'll be red for a while,but you wont have to shave for about 2-4 weeks depending how fast your hair grows. But you could also get wax burn,so i wouldnt try doing it your self.I would reccomend sticking to shaveing. If they find out just tell them -- Your 13 and your responsible,you'll buy your own shavers and shaving cream,also moisturizer.You wont hurt your legs in any way because you'll take care of them. When you get it..i think you should hide it in you under wear draw,wayyy back in a corner of a draw,or in between the matresses in your bed. (thats where i hide most of my stuff) well good luck!!!
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I'm 13, I've had very oily skin since I was 10 *including the black heads and pimples* I've tried so many products such as clean & clear, noxema, ponds, clearisil, (all those otc products) but nothing works to clear it up. I want to go to the derm. but we have no money for it, there for no money for Proactive either. What should I do, is there anything yall recomend ?

I say you should go to a spa and get a facial. They remove all black heads,pimples,and they give you samples to use on your kind of skin

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last night, i had a dream that i was showing my friend our old house (i actually lived there) and we went in the backyard and we had a big ravine in the backyard and we went to the bottom and a fox jumped out in front of us and ran into a path in the woods. then a coyote or a dog or a wolf or something, attacked the fox and bit its snout. the dog came after me but i kicked its head and he backed off. but right after i kicked him, he was really really friendly and he knew all commands one could ever think of!! its like he knew the english language. then the fox came back out and the dog was sitting next to me and i told him "get him boy!" and so the dog who i named Blaster, attacked his snout again. but no blood or killing. the fox ran away. then my friend seemed to just dissapear because i didnt see her in the dream anymore. then we were in a totally different house and my brother and sister were tossing my stuffed animal dog named Shultzie around and i got mad and told Blaster to attack them.he bit my brothers leg and my sisters arm. but my parents thought it was neccasary. haha. so then i walked in the kitchen of my dads house with blaster. i think i started crying just a little bit and my stuffed dog was all dirty and the collar broke off. then i looked ay blaster and petted him. then i woke up.

does this dream mean anything? i dont have a dog..could it mean im getting a dog? please answer. sorry it's so long. will rate a 5!

let me tell you,you should really pay attension to your dreams.Its you conciounce(SP?) expressing things. Maybe things you dont notice in life and your conciounce is trying to tell you something. I think your dreams mean that you're missing your old house and your friends that were once there,but seemed to dissapear to this new,bizzar place. I think the new place you went into was your new house. Your noticeing your parents didnt do anything about your dog,so that means that your noticeing some changes in your life. you notice that the way you and people act are changeing,and the people that live in your new neighborhood are different than your old one.The fox probaly means there is going to be an obstical in you life.It could also mean your going to go down a path you dont want to go down,so the fox is leading you in another direction. When you kicked the dog i think it means that someone or something is is ticking you off,and you just want them to stop what there doing and notice you. The stuffed dog could mean that you dont want your brothers or sister going into your personal life.

well i hope i helped,and im good at doing this you know,i study my dreams a lot. Maybe you should keep them in your journal and write them down because you could learn a lot from it,and not many people have dreams.

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u ansered my question about the jlo mask or whatever...well what kind of makeup do u have that "works wonders" lol thanx

lol well its called Jlo glow and i think it say "get raidient skin like jlo" or something on it,but it might cost a lotttt of money.
an easyer thing to do is apply what ever blush or powder [[or you dont have to use any]] and apply any make up you want [[i think you should use some nice a little shimmery color on your eyes]],after your all dont putting all the make-up on your face take some gold eyeshadow and use a blush brush,and put it around where you want your face to look glowy.Dont put gallons and gallons of gold on,just one layer [[by the way--not dark gold just kind of like a dusty nice shimmery gold :P]] it also adds tone :)
if this doesn't work i think you should search google for "glowing skin tips" or raidient skin like jlo..sumthing along those lines.Im sure they'll give you good results!!!
good luck!!

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hi well mi mom said i have to train mii german sheppard not to take craps and pee in the house by a week or we r selling him and i rfeally want him so i was wondering if yu can tell me information on how to train him and stuff by a week so that there wont be nothing in the house and i alreadie tryed hitting him wen he made and letting him sniff it and take him for walks he is 1 month and a half old so plz help i rate high and leave feedback

hmmm its going to be hard to train a 1 1/2 month old puppy!!Well i'd say you yell in a deep tone and not scream though. [[when your puppy does something bad]] and always yell in that tone so when he does something wrong he'll know he did something wrong. maybe point to wear he made the mess and yell in that tone of voice and say "bad!!" or sumthing.Then i think you should have a fence and stuff around your yard [[or one of those fences that are invisible and you have him wear the collor..and electric invisible fence thing..:-p ]]Let him run around on a leesh attached to a fence or tree,something sturdy! he'll want to mark his terrioty so he'll go to the bathroom.
Another trick that might work is try to have newspaper in some room in that house were he goes to the bath room and have him go to the bathroom on there,then when you let him out put news paper on the outside ground.Then when you let him out he'll go on the newpaper!!
and i think you should tell your parent that german sheppards are easy to train and are very obiedient!
good luck i hope you can keep your puppy!!

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Does anyone know what Johanna from the Real World is using on her hair in one of the episodes. It curls her hair but it has 3 circular rolls?

oh i saw that one!! it was like gold/silver!! well i dont know what its called but hair crimpers and some hair curlers make the same affect!!

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Ok, I want a treadmill, cause i luv running.
The thing is, i'm not rich and from the looks of most treadmills they're REALLY EXPENSIVE!
Does anyone know of a treadmill website or something that has cheap treadmills?

Well i wouldnt really recomend getting a very cheap one because they are not that good :/ but sears,and wallmart have good,not to pricey ones. I think you should save up maybe work for the money ! But you should really go outside and run and play. Treadmills are good if you live in an area that you have no back yard and a city. But yes running and swimming is good.

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ok im on page 131 of the newest harry potter book (half blood prince). wut is "the dark mark". please tell me unless i have to read on to find out. i read all of the books (1-5) but dont remember the 5th too good. did they explain it there? PLEASE dont give it away if im not supposed to kno yet! PLEASE!!
thanks a bunch!

ps-please hurry
pss-ill rate 5s for the fastest answers

i think its in the 4th book its voldimorts symbol :) i hope i helped!!

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I've been tweezing my eyebrows for a while now but it's getting too difficult to find a shape I like. Today I'm going to get them waxed but I'm nervous. Will it hurt alot? Will I be really sore afterwards? Do the people who do it find the shape they like for you?

Thanks!

well you could either tell them you want it the shape of a celebrity's eyebrows [[like look ina catalog and cut out her face and tell her that those are eyebrows you want]] or you could ask her what shape would suit your face because eyebrows define your face. Its just like takeing off a bandaid really fast,only a tad harder. It'll hurt for a little bit and it might be sensitive but after about one day or less it should go away. And it doesnt hurt that bad. Dont be nervious there going to look GREAT!! and by the way it might be red around there for about 2-3 house but the redness goes away :)

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ok well..im 11 yeears old, and like.. im 115lb. and im 5'2 and i abouslty hate it. People say im fat, behind my back..and im always hungry ..and i try to eat healthy but i still gain weight ..help?

well,since your only 11 [[you shouldnt be on this site..i think people are going to report you but i wont]] you still need to grow. If you mom is tall [[around 5"7]] when you 12 or 13 you'll grow really fast. you are a little over weightbut thats okay,you need it to grow! i really think you should do a sport like soccer or track. These sports get you into shape. Fruit and veggies are awesome to eat! and maybe instead of haveing THREE BIGG MEALS, just try a nice breakfast,light lunch,and a kinda light dinner. If you are really hungry between meals,i think you should have some fruit or veggies [[like celery and peanut butter,fruit salad]]Dont pay attension to the mean people. Eat healthy,and excercise.Ride you bike or walk places! Dont worry your going to grow and you'll be one FIINEE teenager!!! i know it!! well i hope i helped !!
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theres a song that goes like:

im like a bird, fly away, i dont know where my home is..

who sings this and what is the name of it?

Nelly Furtado and the song is called "im like a bird" here the link to the lyrics if you wanted the lyrics --
http://www.azlyrics.com/lyrics/nellyfurtado/imlikeabird.html
hope i helped :)
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i'm gonna get my hair colored again pretty soon. my hair color is brown and i have blonde highlights but they're already grown out. should i get highlights again or dye it another color do something differnt? i'm tan & i have brown eyes if that matters. i rate thanks a bunch

Well,try something different :) I think you should get something thats temporary,and if you dont like it it can wash out. And if you do like it you can get it permemnant! Well i think you should get blonde highlights againt or you could make a drastic change,and go dark brown,like an espresso[[sp?.. its a nice color its like the coffe "espresso"]] color It looks really pretty. And if you want,you can dye your whole head dark brown and get lighter brown hight lights! that would look SOOO GOOD!! well you decide,and i think you should ask your friends about it cuz they no what you look like :)

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hey i am 13 and im an ice skater. i want a new screen name but i cant think of anything. i want it to have to do with ice skating, if anyone has any ideas please answer !! thank you so much

fIgUrEsK8In88
iCe ChIcK x38
iCePrIncEss x3
2Hot4MySkaTes
iCeSkAteBAbE x3
i x3 IcEsK8In
8 QuEEn Ice 8
IcEsKaTiNroCks
--those are some ideas!
i really like those :) i hope you find one you like!
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first of all, i apologize for the misspelling of 'skating', and the general idiotic appearance of the title. but it worked, didn't it? you came in here to correct me! :P

i am a 16 year-old rookie skater (female) who can't ollie yet.

i was at the skateboard-city.com forums, and this guy posts a rather mean post about how most of the girls that skate are posers, who skate to try to get with 'skater boys', or to get the whole 'skater punk rock' look.

whe someone calls you a poser, the first reaction is to deny it. so of course all of the female skaters on that site protested, but it made ME wonder...

am i a poser? i wish i could say no, but i honestly don't know. there are various reasons why i started to skate (about six mo. ago).

i can definitely say that i didn't start skateboarding because i thought the 'skater style' was hot or anything. i am a "girly-girl" however, i'm not so sure about the skater boy factor. what if i unconsciously DID start to skate because i wanted to meet skater boys? i know it's definitely true that i wanted to make some friends (regardless of gender) through skateboarding.

also the fact that skateboarding - just skateboarding around your town and on the streets itself looked "cool" was a part of the reason why i started. but is this necessarily bad? don't guys get inspired, after seeing a skating video, to do better because of how 'cool' it looks?

and, is it possible to start off as a poser (start skating to look cool or meet guys or whatever) but to change along the way?

sorry about the length. however, i'd really appreciate it if someone (hopefully a skater themselves) replied. thanks in advance. i rate.

No your are NOT a poser. You started to skate to make friends,and thats just your hobby.Like people go to art classes to make friends but do what they enjoy to do. If you do it for other people then you are a poser.[[but your not doing it for other people]] And being inspired by something/someone is not makeing you a poser either. If people think your cool cause you skate thats what they think. But its really all about your personality. People who are jealous will say that you are a "poser" because you can do your hobby good. And no its not possible to start off anything...you are what you are. If your not real[[meaning your doing it just for others and to be cool and thinking that if you skate then you'll be the best]] about skateing then your a poser. But i can tell you are real about skateing because your thinking this question. And you wont quit because other people say that skateing is not cool or is "out",right? Well i know your not a poser :) By the way,i do skate to,because its wicked fun to do :)
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Are there any true Christians on here?????? Christians who belive that Christianity isn't a religion, but that it's a relationship between you and Jesus and a lifestyle. Are there any Christians out there that Love Jesus Christ with their whole heart and want to serve him NO MATTER WHAT????

Well im not THAT devorted,but its awesome if you are! Yeah i believe in God and i pray sometimes pray at night. I know he should be our first priority.Its cool that you love jesus with all your heart !! :) Nuns devote their life to holy churches!
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