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born and raised in chi-town.(a.k.a.- chicago- for the slow kids)Last time i checked, i was a girl.and i have 10 piercings- 9 of which i did myself.(all but my eyebrow). fun stuff.
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why do guys lead on girls one day then the next flirting with 3 or 4 other ones. i really thought this guy and i had something. i truly did.
well, lets just say that it honestly depends on where the guy's head is at that point in his life. i would say that it depends on the guy- but thats not always true. my guy of over a year used to be exactly the same before we met each other- but he hasnt been like that at all sincewe've been together. we've got something real, and i guess you just have to keep lookin. dont worry- youll find it when you least expect it- and that will make it all the more magical.
Okay, I don't usually get nervous before performing on stage. I get really nervous during auditions, though and because I'm nervous I perform poorly and I don't get a callback. I hate knowing that I could do really well, but blowing it because I'm nervous. Does anyone know how I can overcome my audition nerves? I will rate high. Thanks.
practice it- over and over wether in your room, or in front of people- until you asolutely cannot stand to practice it anymore. that way- you will be so used to the performance- that doing it infront of anybody wont get you down. it will be like second- nature to you. hope i helped!
What is a budgie? I`ve seen like 5 questions on here asking about them!
i think, and i wanna say its a bird. at first, i thought it was a foreign word for a dog- but then i saw a question about a budgie's feathers- so ive narrowed it down to either a bird- or a pet chicken.
If a pregnant woman is killed, it's considered a double homicide then why are abortions looked upon differently? I've heard things like when a pregnant woman is killed, it wasn't her choice but it is her choice in the case of an abortion. But, she isn't killing herself when it comes to abortions; she's doing it to another, developing human being. So that just doesn't make sense to me.
abortions are just wrong, no matter how you look at it. a woman at my grandmothers church was 9 months pregnant- due in just a few days before she was murdered in her indiana home. i vaguely knew her- but i know that my condolences go out to her every day. so, i believe that abortions are looked at not even in a similar way. i guess thats why the question was so confusing to me at first. abortions ARE murder- no matter what anybody says. if you were irresponsible enoughto make that child- then you should be responsible enough to have that child. even if you put it up for adoption once its born- but killing it- thats jsut unneccesary. believ me- if i had any power over it- i would make abortions highly illegal-but there is only so much we as citizens can do to change our screwed up government.
is it true that if you charge your cell for a certain amount of time ..then it wont be able to charge ever again? and is it the same with ipods? because my friends ipod cant charge cause she said she has charged it for a certain amount of time.. i was just wondering if this was true or not for the cell phone..
and i have the razor one from cingular if that helps
i have a pink razor phone- and i think i also have the answer to your qquestion. my jerk of a dad used to sell cingular phones a long while back. they say that its recommended that you dont charge it while youre sleeping, but rather while youre getting ready in the morning, or in the shower, etc. because if you charge it often, longer than it needs to be charged- the batery will wear down. im not sure if the same goes for your ipods, but it would only make sense to me that it does. good luck, and i hope i helped!
My sister just had a baby and he husband's last name is Wood. Well, my sister has always wanted to name her daughter "Holly". So we just need a few HONEST opinions here.
Do you find it tacky to have a girl named "Holly Wood?"
hahaha. i thought ick at first, but the more i thought of it- i thought it would be kinda kewl. but the only thing is- you gotta think about the child. wat if it turns out she doesnt like the name at all. tell your sisterto giveher a middle name that sounds good with th last name in case she doesnt want to go by her first name,
so my boyfriend and i were fooling around about a month or two ago at my friends house. it was our first time n everything. He tried to go "in me" like twice.. barely making it in at all cause it hurts really bad..(im still a virgin).. is there any way i can be pregnant? does that count as having sex? i had ended my period two days before that.. if that changes anything.. this was in april.
i get really paraniod about it.. i think im looking bigger... i havent had my period since.. yet im always irregular.. its never on time. ever. i can suck in my stomach and it seems like its just fat.. im not fat at all but my tummy is kinda flabby.. i love to eat too. but i can still pinch the fat. my stomach isnt hard. but would it be hard by now if i was?
any help would be greatly appreciated.. i know i should just get a test.. but im so scared it might be positive.. i dunno how it could be. but im just paranoid. thanks so much
well, im almost three months pregnant- and im not starting to show yet- still got the flat tummy i had before. you more thanlikely wouldnt show by now- becuase even if you were pregnant- the baby would only be like 2 inches long. it doesnt sound to me like yo are- but if you knew if he came- that would be more of a help. if there was any sperm or semen involved there may be a chance that you are. but becuase the fact that he didnt really go all the way in might change all that.it jsut depends. id see a doctor.
i still dont have my period and i am scared because in like a few months i will be 15 and in high school and i will be like the only one that hasnt started thier period!!should i see my doctor?am i sick?do i have cancer?am i gonna die?am i pregnant?please if u are 14 and dont have your period talk to me!!!
some girls dont get one until their 18. it jsut depends on your body. just wait it out- its not all that special anyways.
What are some good songs for just hanging out with some freinds on a summer night at a bonfire?
sweet home alabama. (probably bst if u live in alabama)
Just wondering, but why does the majority of this site use horrible spelling and grammar when they ask questions? True, I understand it may be faster, but when you have a serious question such as when a friend might die, wouldn't you want others to understand what you're talking about? Also, why are there so many questions on people wanting to kill themselves, cutting themselves, and being just downers in life? Life can be so wonderful, and people make it seem so horrible when they cut themselves because their parents don't let them out past 9 or don't buy them a car, when they should feel lucky that they even have caring parents, or even food on the table. I dunno, just... why?
Thanks in advance.
because not everyone is perfect, and not everyones' problems are your concern. if they wanted your opinion on them- theyd ask you. but no one's perfect, and i hate to break it to you- but neither are you!
will you know when you break your hymen? or will it just kinda happen? Im not sexually active so I wanted to know in advance.
it depends on how it happens. you can break it by playing in sports- or even from using a tampon. everything's different for every girl- so its hard to say.
When having sex, is it more effective when wearing a condom to pull out as well..so you have the protection of the condom..and the guy isn't even comming inside of you..Or does it not make much of a difference?
it doesnt make too much of a difference if the condom is intact- but if you find that it is broken- well then- yeah pulling out would be a safe bet. but dont take that as saying tha its okay to pull out without a condom- i had to learn that the hard way. im eleven weeks pregnant.
I want to get a job at Starbucks but don't know where to start. I am 16 and I printed out the application. Do I have to have previous experience? It's a catch-22, isn't it?
Also, any tips if you've previously worked for them?
well, i dont know about the starbucks by you- but by the ones by me- you have to be 18 to work there. i would imagine all starbucks are the same when it comes to that.
Ok well I just started using tampons and I wanna know if you can wear a tampon in the shower? B/c i gotta take a shower but I like just put a tampon in an hour ago and I don't wanna waste it.
Thanks!
yes you can definetely use them in the shower. thats what makes them so much better than pads. because you can wear them anywhere and feel like youre not wearing anything at all.
ive heard that if you can wear a tampon comfortably it means that your body is ready for sex is that true?
um no!- anyone can wear a tampon comfortably. its all in if you do it right. and your body isnt just 'ready' for sex. its all in your heart and your mind. it has nothing to do with your body.
my name is Rachel and iam 17 years old and my mom says my dad molested me when I was about 3 or 4 why would she wait untill I was 17 to tell me?I asked my dad about it and he said he didn't do it who should I belive I don't know who to trust anymore please help me.
she probably wanted to tell you at a point in your life where she knew you wuld be mature enough to handle such allegations. although i do disagree with her telling you- at the same time your dad may have really done it- it sounds to me like yuor parents are separated. if they are. try and get them together and talk about thw whole thing. it might bring up some arguments- but no big deeal- and at least your mind will be at ease knowing the truth.
Alright my nail lady wants me to highlight her hair which is okay i have no problem doin it but she asked me to feel her hair && i`ve never felt an asian persons hair before it feels like its like fried && dried out so i was just wondering if this will like make her hair fall out or anything..&& is there anything i should do for it before dying it you think;;
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ask her to deep condition in the morning before- and rinse it out the night before you dye it.
I want to make jello filled balloons like in the movie Now and Then.
I've googled this and only get things that say "fill the balloon with jello and such and such" but nothing specifically telling me how to go about this..
so if anybody knows how to do this or knows a website please help!
thanks much!! :)
well, normally- to make jello- you place the powder and water mix in a bowl- and then into the refirgerator to cool. so- id mix all the jello mix you need for the amount of balloons you have with water- then use a funnel to pour it into the baloons, one by one- youll more than lkely need another person's help with this one. but then place them all in the refrigerator- prferably a small one thats not theone in your kitchen. lol. wait until the next morning to use them, and voila.
well me and my girlfriend had sex and he mother (who already hated me for supposedly makeing her daughter sad,even though the reason she was sad was beacuse she felt like her mom didnt love her)found out and now her parents wont let us see or speak to each other. I dont know what to, i really do love her or else i wouldnt have given myself to her or her me.I miss her sooo much it brings tears to my eyes.We dont want anything to end , we love each other sooo much,but if we cant find something we wont even be able to hear each other till summers over.What to do? Any advice.
wow. thats a toughie. i think the only thing you can do is wait it out- unless you plat the old- she says shes at a friends house when shes really at yours trick- or sumthn along the lines of that.
Ok, every summer i have the same sleep scheduel, like 3a.m.-2p.m. but now that i'm getting older and that i have a job i just am tired all the time. By the time i wake up over half the day is gone. So now i see mostly night and thats tiring too. I don't want to go on sleep aids but if i try to fall asleep i can't its just gotta happen naturaly. Any ideas? I rate high for good advice!
i think your only option would be to take like, tylenol pm an hour before the time tha you would like to be in bed- the pm has medicine in it to make you drowsy and help you get a full nights sleep. i do know thoguh- for a fact that too much sleep is bad for you- and can do some serious damage.