so back in april my boyfriend and i fooled around..
Question Posted Friday June 23 2006, 11:55 pm
so my boyfriend and i were fooling around about a month or two ago at my friends house. it was our first time n everything. He tried to go "in me" like twice.. barely making it in at all cause it hurts really bad..(im still a virgin).. is there any way i can be pregnant? does that count as having sex? i had ended my period two days before that.. if that changes anything.. this was in april.
i get really paraniod about it.. i think im looking bigger... i havent had my period since.. yet im always irregular.. its never on time. ever. i can suck in my stomach and it seems like its just fat.. im not fat at all but my tummy is kinda flabby.. i love to eat too. but i can still pinch the fat. my stomach isnt hard. but would it be hard by now if i was?
any help would be greatly appreciated.. i know i should just get a test.. but im so scared it might be positive.. i dunno how it could be. but im just paranoid. thanks so much
I had the fear of, oh man, what if it turns out positive, what will i do? Why would this happen to me? Believe me, it's worth it if you are really worried, because then, you'll know for sure.
Since he ejaculated after you guys stopped, if it wasn't in the general area "down there" or if it wasn't on his hands/your hands and got touched down there, you should be fine.
I was also the same way, it's all in your head, i thought i was getting fatter too, but i wasn't. Plus, remember, if you are stressing about this, stress causes your period to be late. That could also be the reason your period hasn't come.
I'm accually not quite sure if this means your not a virgin anymore, because i mean, by any means if it was in you, that means you've had sex. So, i guess you can say your not a virgin anymore.
As for the pain, if you're wanting to have sex again, have him "lube you up" if you don't have lube, he can always just like, lick his hand and rub around the area. Also, stay protected and always use a condom!
clearlypink428 answered Saturday June 24 2006, 3:27 pm: well, im almost three months pregnant- and im not starting to show yet- still got the flat tummy i had before. you more thanlikely wouldnt show by now- becuase even if you were pregnant- the baby would only be like 2 inches long. it doesnt sound to me like yo are- but if you knew if he came- that would be more of a help. if there was any sperm or semen involved there may be a chance that you are. but becuase the fact that he didnt really go all the way in might change all that.it jsut depends. id see a doctor. [ clearlypink428's advice column | Ask clearlypink428 A Question ]
PunkieFreak4690 answered Saturday June 24 2006, 12:06 am: in that situation is just sounds like you had dry sex or something. you didn't have the real kind of sex, and it didn't really go in. but there is still a chance you can get pregnant from that. did your boyfriend ejaculate during that period of time?? if he did then you should try getting tested. if nothing really happened then your chances of getting pregnant are slim. but get tested just to be safe. [ PunkieFreak4690's advice column | Ask PunkieFreak4690 A Question ]
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