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My name is Lauren. My life dream is to become a pirate, as well as a witch straight outta Hogwarts! I believe I was born in the wrong place and the wrong time. I often beleive I belong in England. I wish I was british. :] I'm 15 years old, and I'm called weird. I'm a spunky and smashing teenager ready to answer your questions.

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ok well i want to hide my music player on myspace so my friend told me to go to www.eatcrack.com so i did and i got the code but it didnt work for me and ive tried it several times its worked for all my other friends why?

I'm not sure but go here:

www.mygen.co.uk

then go to generators and go to hide stuff generator. hope i helped. :]

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okay, well, im just gonna say it: im really popular at my school. i think im pretty, and so does everybody else. im not gonna go into detail. cuz you know how popular kids are. well, this girl at school thinks that shes better than us!! WE dont even have that attitude!! we dont talk about how rich we are, or whatever, we just like to have fun and hang out!! she is always like screaming through the hallways, "omg jenny, do you have my ipod and louis vuitton bag??!!" and everybody else can see that shes trying to impress us. but we dont know why. shes really slutty and only has a few friends. she moved into my neighborhood a few years ago, and i asked her to hang out with me and my friends. after she did and we went back to school in the fall, she felt like she had to impress us. why is this??!! because she always copying our websites and stuff and badmouths us!! she is soo annoying!!

She's jealous. Simple as that. The girl you are dealing with is trying to impress you because she wants to be accepted. She wants to be accepted and be popular, and pretty, and wants to be the center of attention in your group. It's usually just a phase, but if she doesn't stop just tell her that it's rude of her to copy you and be mean when you didn't do anything. DON'T say 'Just because your jealous doesn't mean you should be mean!' DON'T EVER DO THAT. That just makes them ANGRY and REVENGEFUL. Hope I helped. :]

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my friend has tried to kill himself before. i just dont see why somebody why somebody would do that. because if you kill yourself, you automattically go to hell. and hell is more worse than anything you can be going through at the moment. so why would somebody wanna do this? i dont need help explaining this to my friend, he got help and he agrees with me on this.

1.Suicidal is a part of Depression, which is a real disease. The person who is suicidal is just the way they think. When they're going through a tough time, instead of crying and talking it through, they find it easier to physically hurt themselves, or in this case, kill themselves.

2.Another reason people are suicidal is they want attention.

Both of those are reasons why people are suicidal, and reading your story I do believe your friend was the first.

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In the past, my best friend, used to ditch me alot. We had a big discussion on it. I said how it really hurt my feelings & all this stuff. So then she told me, she didn't mean to do it, & she was very sorry, & would never do it again. She promised & everything.

Then, just yesterday, she did it.
I went to this beach, like I don't know a week or two ago? & thats basically, all I've been talking about. & I kept saying I'm gonna invite you ok? & shes like ok, I can't wait. So I was all excited right? & then I'm like.. "I think were gonna go down there tomorrow. I was wondering if you can go?" & shes like "Yeah!" & so then.. around 6ish that day, I went to the park with my family & got ice cream. So, when I get back, shes all.. I can't go with you tomorrow, I'm sleeping over Kahlies house. & I got really really reallly really mad & upset. Because, I've been looking forward to it, for forever. So, since I was so angry, I just blurted out, I don't wanna talk to you anymore. & like stuff about being her best friend. So, then when she got to Kahlies shes all.. "Well, I can't believe your doing this when Kyle is about to dump me!" & then I just signed off. Because, I got mad.. that shes more worried about her boyfriendm, then losing her best friend? So yeah, I don't know what to do. I acted like I didn't care anymore, because I was tired, & wanted to go to bed.

What should I do? Should I continue to be mad at her? Or should I just forget about it.. & forgive her? I'm just upset, & need some advice. ASAP.
thanks

I have a lot of experience with this as well. I'm not sure you want to hear this, but lay off of her. Don't talk to her unless she talks to you. Test her. See if she really DOES pay attention to you and that she wants to spend time with you. If she does, talk to her about how you feel you're being ditched all the time while she's sleeping over or something. Tell her not to take it personally, but it's the way you feel. I had that experience and told my friend, and now we're really close again. She hasn't ditched me yet and it's been about 4 months. So, give her a chance if she's willing to take it. Don't be mad, and don't just be a pushover and forgive - just act normally and see if she talks to you. :]

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Do you like me as a best friend or less. Tell me your deepest thoughts. I appreciate it. Thank you.

I like you as a best friend. :] You're a wonderful friend that I can tell so much to. :]

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ok, so i am completely in love with this boy for the past 2.5 years. we are on a swim team together and that is the only time we see each other, so everyday. plus meets. these are some of the things he did. what is your opinion, does he like me? (hes really shy)

he stares into my eyes a lot

he layed his head on my lap, of all the girls that were there... but i was the closest cuz i sat next to him

in a game of sharks and minnows he went for me and grabbed me hard by the wrists and kept me underwater instead of forcing me up. then when i pushed off the bottom to get air he asked if i liked his tactics.

he blew on my face when we were lying next to each other at a swim meet

he sometimes "steals" my sunglasses, but not from my face, but he def. know there mine

we went to a dance once, but it was one of those "girls ask the guys". he said well go as friends, but we didnt know each other as well then, and it was a long time ago, but we danced with each other for practicly the whole dance, but he did go dance with this one girl that he went to homecoming with, and who he supposedly used to like... i dont know if he still does but he might

when we were lying next to each other, he moved hand was lying against my forhead on a pillow, then he said sorry i'm punching you in the face, and moved it down towards my nose so it was touching. than he probly felt me breathing on his hand, cuz he asked if his hand smelt good, and i smelled it, and almost kissed it (lol!) and he didnt move it away.


but otherwise we dont talk much, like we never had a conversation, but as i said he is really shy around me. but with other girls he is fine, but with the girl he supposedly might like he talks alot to her, but not as much as he used to. now there just friends. but she doesnt like him.



so ya based everything that i told you, does he like me? and how should i give him hints that i REALLY like him without scaring him?








There is most definitely a possibility that this guy is into you. Just sit him down and tell him flatout 'I like you. Do I have a chance with you?' Instead of embarrassing yourself by saying 'I know you like me' when maybe he might not. If you're too nervous then IM him, email him. There are so many ways to contact eachother. Hope this helped!

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me and my bf have been dating for 5 months and we usually talk about anything but lately whenever we talk on the phone we dont have much to say. its just alot of silence now and i really dont know what to talk about and neither does he. i really need help on what i should do!

Ahhh. The silence. What you need to do is try and get into a casual conversation. Start talking about funny memories and you'll be talking for hours on end, sharing eachothers memories. Or maybe try just telling him how you feel, maybe he'll strike up a conversation once and awhile. Hope this helped.

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Okay so I have this friend who I horseback ride with and she's three years younger than me. Well, you wouldn't think that would matter because she acts more mature thatn she really is and it's almost like she keeps me in touch with my innocnet side. (at our age, 3 years is a big difference). However, every time I mention her, my best friend goes, "Ew, you're 5th grader?!" (going into 6th)So my question is is the age difference okay?

It's perfectly fine. If you're friends have a problem with it, then you should really just tell them to stop. If they don't they probably weren't real friends if they decide to not like you because of your younger friends.

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ok this might be a little strange, but when i think of something, it's always a color... i have colors for names, the time, days of the week, letters, up/down, brands, seasons, states, and even north/south/east/west. a lot more things too.. i don't obsess over them, but i think about them often. im just wondering what it all means? is this abnormal?

There's nothing wrong with that. It's just your own personal way of remembering things - you just happen to use colors. Don't worry about it. You're fine.

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My best friends told me about a month or two ago they were both bi. About two weeks ago, they started "going out" I was cool with them being Bi before, we just went along being friends. But now that they're going out its totally ackward, gross, and I just can't stand being around them. Me and them have really drifted apart since the summer started cause they got into it with guys who are big into sex and weed. Is it time for me to get new friends? How do I go about doing that, I don't want to look like a loner.

Well, if it is awkward, let them know. Don't tell them to break up, but let them know that you are not sure you're going to be comfortable. If they take it the wrong way, then let it go. There's nothing else you can do. As for getting new friends, just try starting out with talking to one person and work your way from there. If it helps, let them know you're trying to make friends because of a bad situation at the moment. Also - contact any old lost friends.

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i`m a 15yr old female,
i started to hang out with this boy about 2 months ago. he is in 2 grades higher than me he drives and i relly like him. tha first day we hung out i started to like him and since that day we havent gone more than 2 days without seeing eachother. But tha thing is he only wants to be friends with benifits.. and i want more. He is also involved with this other girl but they arent dateing she is an ex but they still have sex. I havent had sex with him yet he has asked but i said no. I met a few of his friends and became friends with some of them too. One night 3 of his friends asked me to hang out with them even though the guy i like wasnt there but i wsaid yes anyways. i ended up haveing sex with one of his friends. When the guy i like found out he was mad i`m not to sure why, he said he was mad because i said no to him when he cares about me and knows me well but i said yes to one of his friends that i jut met and didnt care about me. I'm not to sure why i had sex with his friend and won't have sex with him. He still asks me to have sex but i always say no. It might be a revenge thing because the night that i had sex with his friend was the same night i found out the guy i like was still haveing sex with his ex.. now the guy that i had sex with started to call me and ask me to hang out. i like him too but i don't think he knows it. i think he just thinks i like fooling around with him. so im wondering what i should do about this because i think tha first guy i like is just useing me and i don`t even know what to do about th second one.

Well, honestly, tell the first guy that you found out and how you felt about it. Tell him your not comfortable enough around him to have sex for an unknown reason. As for the second guy - if he's just looking to fool around then tell him you're not interested.

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My parents have been smoking since they were teenagers. I'm just curious if everyone who smokes has a really high risk of getting lung cancer? It's not common in my family and I'm worried that my parents will get it.

Absolutely. My parent's smoke as well. Anyone who smokes has a very high risk of lung cancer. Try asking them to switch to gum. It just might save their lives. And as for YOU - stay away from them when they smoke. Second-hand smoke can kill. :]

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what are the best ways to learn the words to a song? and good tips??

Print out the lyrics and sing the song maybe three times a day and you'll get it down packed before you know it. :] Hope I helped.

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Hello.
My boyfriend recently graduated so I'm going to strip for him when we go on vacation to the beach.
The thing is I don't know which song to stripdance to!
We both like alternative and rock but pop is okay.
I need a song that I can dance to in stilettos, seductive/sultry songs are preferred, but with enough of an update beat to dance to

Thanks!!!

Uhm you could try Ain't To Proud to Beg by the Tempations or I'm Bossy but I don't know who that one is by.

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What exactly is a tease ? Like if someone calls you a tease. What does it exactly mean ? (I know kind of stupid question). But thanks for people who answer this nicely

Well, it basically means the person called a tease is someone who leads a person on when they have no real feelings for them.

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Heii! does anyone know where i can get the hats like Emily Osment in Hannah Montana?

pac sun maybe?

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what diet works best if you want to shed 5 pounds or so and keep it off?

Crunches. Just excercise, watch your food and try to cut out salt, bread, and butter. Andddd DRINK LOTS OF WATER! 8 glasses a day. :]

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i have trouble sleeping at night.. what can i do besides sleeping pills?

You can read, or if you have a T.V. watch it and sleep will eventually come naturally. It might be insomnia or your sleeping schedule might be off track a bit - don't worry about it.

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I'll come out clean. I'm chinese and about 5 feet. Does anyone know the average boob size for a mandrian chinese girl from the south? What's the american average? I know I'll never be the american average, but just wondering. I wear a size 34A. Just a few months ago, I got bigger, which I was happy! I thought I'll never leave 32A. Help if you can. I'm 13 too.

When I was 13 I was A36, but the average of a teen is about 34b so your almost there! I remember when I was younger I was flat chested and wished I was bigger, but the truth is they're kind of annoying.

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Alright i am a 15 year old girl. im pregnant. i have a great boyfriend. i dont get along with my dad or little brother. my mom and dad are getting a divorce. i choice to move with my mom. and my little brother choice to live with my dad. just recently i started cutting again. i no its not good and i talked to my boyfriend about it and ive been trying so hard to stop but there is so much drama. i just cry and i want to do it so bad. but i can i promised my boyfriend i wouldnt. my mom and i are moving out the end of the mnth. so i wont have to put up with my brother or my dad any more. but thats to long i cry everyday! and i want to cut everytime i cry or get angry. i need help!! and im crying out for help. i dont want to go talk to someone. i have a fear of talking to someone i dont know! so hopefully you guys can help me!

I don't have much knowledge on this subject, but if you think you have a real problem you should try talking to someone you know compared to stranger. Or you can try to find things to keep your mind off all the stress your under. Hope i helped.

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