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i just dont know.
okay, well, im just gonna say it: im really popular at my school. i think im pretty, and so does everybody else. im not gonna go into detail. cuz you know how popular kids are. well, this girl at school thinks that shes better than us!! WE dont even have that attitude!! we dont talk about how rich we are, or whatever, we just like to have fun and hang out!! she is always like screaming through the hallways, "omg jenny, do you have my ipod and louis vuitton bag??!!" and everybody else can see that shes trying to impress us. but we dont know why. shes really slutty and only has a few friends. she moved into my neighborhood a few years ago, and i asked her to hang out with me and my friends. after she did and we went back to school in the fall, she felt like she had to impress us. why is this??!! because she always copying our websites and stuff and badmouths us!! she is soo annoying!!
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how about you should let her know how you feel about her. Being straight up with her is one way to solve this problem. You can tell her you don't mean anything offensive so don't take it the wrong way. Then you can go on tell her how she should be herself instead of trying to impress others because you and your friends are not impressed.
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She's jealous. Simple as that. The girl you are dealing with is trying to impress you because she wants to be accepted. She wants to be accepted and be popular, and pretty, and wants to be the center of attention in your group. It's usually just a phase, but if she doesn't stop just tell her that it's rude of her to copy you and be mean when you didn't do anything. DON'T say 'Just because your jealous doesn't mean you should be mean!' DON'T EVER DO THAT. That just makes them ANGRY and REVENGEFUL. Hope I helped. :]
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It sounds like she's jealous and wants to live up to your popularity. She's the kind of girl that wants to be the center of attention and be popular. I think your best bet is to ignore her until she understands that she should stop trying to impress the world and be happy with what she has, or you could confront her, but then again she might be the type who would use that to get everyone against you. I'd say just ignore.
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she is trying ot impress yuu so she feels like she belongs maybe she is jelouse of yuu and wants to pretand she is betterthen yuu tellher yo okay we get it ur rich blah blah lets uss chat and chyll abt sum else...butin a nicer wayy...hope that helps ashley
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Imitiation is the greatest form of flattery.
With that said, just ignore her.
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I have to agree with queenofhearts below me.
She obviously thinks she's all that, which makes me laugh .. hard.
I`ll tell you this: Ignore her.
Yeah cliche eh? Stupid right?
Well it works, shes showing off, bragging,
and what not to get your attention. If you don't pay attention to her, she'll feel stupid.
Once she does calm down, if you still want to be her friend, then start hanging out with her again.
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I think it's funny how some people think they are popular. But they really aren't.
Because people don't notice and they really don't care.
she wants you to pay attention to her... if she has "few friends" and maybe she's not trying to impress you. maybe she's just showing off to EVERYONE.
Maybe she's trying to get your approval.. which is really stupid.
She's just one person. Why should you care?
One person badmouthing you doesn't do anything. You already have "high confidence", I doubt it could hurt you.
If she bothers you that much, tell her to back off.
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umm..ignore her?? i mean really, what else can you do. if you lash back at her, she's juss going to keep doing it because she knows it bothers you. if you ignore her & the things she's saying, then she'll stop.
-hope that helped!♥
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