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which one cleans my teeth more efficiently, flossing before or after brushing? (link)
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i dont know where the hell the people below me get their info but it's definitely before. they said its because it "gets away the stuff brushing missed". so basically they want you to brush your teeth and then floss so you have little pieces of food floating in your mouth?? youre supposed to floss before to loosen up things stuck in between your teeth and THEN brush it to get it all out. if youre still not sure you can call up your dentist, but trust me it's before!!
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ok, i was at a house party last week and i didnt really know everybody who was there, it was really my friend who wanted to go. everybody got really drunk but i didnt because i dont drink.
anyway these guys started talking to me but i said i wasnt interested because i have a boyfirend. (ive been seeing him for a year and i love him to bit.) so we just sat talking and they brought me a drink from the kitchen and i remember i felt ill and went to the bathroom but i dont remember anything after that except waking up in a bed. i think they spiked my drink and im worried they did something to me and i dont know who they were.
do i tell my boyfirend and if so, how? i dont want him not to believe me and think i cheated on him. (link)
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if he is going to be that much of an asshole to think that you cheated on some guy if you specifically told him you passed out after drinking something some guys gave you then you should find somebody better. fast.
its horrible that happened and they might have put a roofie in your drink or something, so my advice would be that i think you should first of all tell your mom or an older person you trust. dont talk to your boyfriend first because this whole thing is about you! its not about how needy or jealous he gets. you dont know if you could be pregnant, or have stds, or just end up emotionally damaged or something because of what happened. figure out all that stuff first and then talk to him about it.
other than that i hope everything works out!
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hi well, my friend told me that his mate told him that my friends sister kind of, gives blowjobs, when she's off to "sleepovers" well i think we should tell my friend because it is his sister, and i think he has the right to know. my other friend thinks he shouldnt know because its "best for him". what shall we do?? oh and by the way, his sisters 16... thanks in advance (link)
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i wouldnt do anything...you're just being nosey and it'll piss people off. you'll also break up your friendship with them, and their friendships with eachother. why make a big deal of it? its her own doings, just leave it alone and spend your time obsessing over someone else
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my friend & my other friend, are in a HUGE fight. The one girl.. lets call her Candy, ahha. well here, let me explain a little bit of her past before i continue...
She dated a guy, named steve. well, they broke up.. like last week. So, now steve, likes me & candys bff, Cassandra. & cassandra said i don't know. So, now candy is all mad at cassandra, because cassandra likes candy & was saying all this stuff like.."its not fair, i've never even had a boyfriend & you & stacy (me) have had like 10." so we were like, umm ok.
So then, is she technically saying that she only wants to date him for a boyfriend?
& thenn anyways, also cassandra talks behind candys back like a TON. i mean like all the time. so we told her so now she says she can't trust casssandra anymore.
& all this stuff.
i feel bad that they are not going to be friends anymore. because candy is usually a total pusshover & shes pretty serious about this.. soo, is there anything i can say or do?
&.. about cassandra wanting to date steve.. well, i was thinking, "all is fair in love & war." even though were only in 8th grade, does that nesscarily still like count? because like candy & cassandra aren't very like... mature, mature. i'm like smarter then them when it comes to these things.. but i don't know exactly what to say for this one.
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you are having way too much drama to be in 8th GRADE. none of this matters. do you think they'll actually be going out with this steve person in another couple of monthes????? tell them to get the hell over themselves and stop acting like 25 year olds, and to act themselves, 13.
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im bringing a notebook pencils and my lunch tommorow for the first day of school.i dont know what to carry my stuff in.my mom says im not allowed to have a purse until im 16 (im 14) and i cant buy any of this big tote bags like the ones they sell at hollister because my parents claim "they are too expensive" im not going to bring a backpack since its too big so where can i get a smaller bag to carry my stuff in thats not a purse please help any suggestions will be great. (link)
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well that sucks because you cant have a purse... but i would suggest a dickies bag, because they have some really cute ones ;)
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If I shower with my straightner in the bathroom, when I get out of the shower, the straightner is all wet, because of the moisture. Is this bad for my striaghtner? (link)
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well yea.
you arent supposed to get electrical things wet.
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Hi.
I've heard that when you have sex for the first time that it hurts extremly bad. I know it varies from person to person. But is it possible for it not to hurt on the first time?
I have a low tollerence for pain, and my boyfriend has a rather large penis. Its 5 inches WIDE. So, will it hurt really bad? Is there a way to make myself not be so tight?
I don't use tampons and don't want to, I can't even get one finger up there.
What do I do, I really want to make love with him but I'm just scared of the pain and bleeding.
Do you bleed right after you stop, during or later? Cause when your hymen breaks you bleed right?
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when you say 5 inches wide do you mean from left to right, or the entire thing, you know like circumfrence size?? i'll edit the answer once you tell me
okkkk hmm thats strange..i've never heard of somebody having a penis that is 5 inches wide. well for girls sex is usually painful the first couple of times, but i would think with someone that had that wide of a penis that would hurt even more..not to like freak you out or anything but yeah thats wide. i would just suggest to start using tampons to get used to it, but only when you have your period. its obviously a lot harder to try to put it up there if its dry...
but from what i've heard, it will bleed during and after sex.
good luck
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agh i need help pranto!!! well i woke up this morning and everything was fine so then i decided to put ice cubs on my face IDK WHY! i guess i read somewhere that if u do the redness from a blemish goes away??? well after putting the ice cubes on my face got even more red!!! and school starts tomrorow!!! and after the ice cubes i put make up on to try to cover it up but then i didnt wnat to clog up my pores so i fashed my face with an acne scrub then wied it with acne wipes and put acne lotion on but it got EVEN MORE RED!! now i dont know what to do and AGHH IM PANICINING!! because tihs never happened before.... welll one time before when i used this spa treatment thing?? PLEASE HELPPPP!!! (link)
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dont do anything! all that stuff you put on your face is irritating it, so just leave it alone. next time if its red just try one of the things you said you did, and if that doenst work then just leave it because as you can see, it makes it worse. if its still there in the morning you could just put foundation over it if you really waned to.
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Im always shy in school and I really want to major in Acting. How do I not feel shy in Highschool? Also how do I start acting in Highschool besides drama class. How I get art scholarships/diplomas? (link)
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if you want to stop being so shy, pretend that each class is a skit or something! you have to be a different, and act a different character during the different classes. im not saying you have to go all out and use accents and stuff, but pretend in math class that you're an outgoing, outspoken, person. and in science try to be a timid, yet nice and smart person. you dont have to change your entire personality or clothing or whatever, but it might help you overcome you shyness.
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I broke up with my bf of nearly 4 years about 3 months ago. He was emotionally and mentally abusive to me. I had been in councelling for a while and I thought I had nearly got over him. Well yesterday I decided to sign up for a dating site. I actually received about 4 responses to my profile. Instead of contacting these guys that wrote me; I got freaked out and deleted my profile. Does anyone know what is wrong with me? (link)
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nothings wrong with you, you're probably just afraid that these guys will do to you what your old boyfriend did to you. there's no harm in being careful, but it doesnt seem like you're ready for dating right now. it'll take you a little while to regain your sense of trust for men, so just give it time. :)
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I think I'm completely disregarding my social life right now, to the point that I am extremely lonely. I have had one really close friend since elementary school and she was like the ONLY person I ever hung out with or had sleep overs with. I mean, I still go to parties ocassionally, but I don't have a close group of friends. And now my one best friend isn't in any of my classes and we hardly ever see each other anymore. I feel like I'm losing her. We are both so busy and have no time for each other. It's kind of sad. She has all of her volleyball friends that she hangs out with now, and I don't know most of them. I feel like such a loser. What's my problem??and how do i fix it?? (link)
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you're not a loser....who cares how many friends you have in highschool? its not like you're even going to still be hanging out with these people in a couple of years!
as to get reaquainted with your friend, i would tell her what you told us. call her up and tell her youre feeling left out of things, and that you want to hang out. and you said, "we hardly have any time for eachother" and well i think if you want it bad enough then you both should make time. if you have sports just skip practice ONCE or hang out on the weekends. im sure you can work you schedule around it.
and also, i know how you feel about the classes thing because i only have friendish type things in a couple of my classes since my best friend moved across the country. you just have to be friendly and talkative to people, and they'll start to see how fun you are to be around. maybe they thought you were just shy or something before, but its a fresh year and everybody deserves a clean slate.
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well im 16 years old...and for over a year i have been having problems with my breats...very bad sharp pains..not like those that happen when they grow and everything..but really painfully sharp pains...and i have a couple big lumps in my breasts...and they keep gettin bigger and bigger not real fast but slowly..im scared to talk to my mom about it..and im scared to make an appointment to find out..wat do i do!! (link)
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sometimes they can be lumps of fat but they should never GROW so if they are doing that, even if its a teeny bit you absolutely have have have have have have to go to the doctors. i mean people are getting treated for this stuff all the time now, so ou'll be able to get better treatment since theyre dealing with it so much more they know a lot more than they used to. you need to go to the doctors, and if you dont want to tell your mom, just say you think you should have a physical because you havent for a while and you want to make sure everythings ok. if she asks if anything particular is wrong, then TELL her because even though this could be a false alarm, would you rather be uncomfortable around a doctor, or have breast cancer??
i strongly encourage you go, and hope you dont have cancer.
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I just saw a question about smokey eyes, and I remembered that I have been wanting to ask this for a while but forgot about it. How do I use makeup to get smokey eyes? I've seen them on TV and stuff, but I can't figure out how to get them. I think they look awesome.
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you can either use grey or black eyeliner, and you put it on the bottom and the top, and then you get a q-tip and kind of smudge it, and drag it over to the outer corner of your eye. then just put on mascara, curl your eyelashes, throw on lipgloss and go!
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i have curly hair, when i ever scrunch it and put moose in it it gets very curly at like end and all the way up to my ears its very curly, but above that the hair is pretty much just stuck to my head flat, how can i get more volume near my scalp (link)
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while your hair is still drying, use your fingers and loosely scrunch your hair around the scalp. dont scrunch it like you do with hair gel, but kind of like you have an itch. do it with all 10 fingers, one hand on each side, every 5-10 minutes, and it should look better, and not like your hair is plastered down to your head.
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Hi I was at a was at a sleepover and my friends dared me to cut my bangs,and i think they look horrible! my mom and my aunt say they look so cute, that is just because i had them when i was like 7 so can you give me any advice on how to make them look better?If you do....thanks a lot!! (link)
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you can pin them back like the people below me said, or try to make them look like side bangs and use some hair gel/spray. this happened to me too, and mine were too short, so i know how you feel!
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One of my friends killed herself about 9 months ago, and I'm over it already and everything, but last night I had a terrible terrible dream where we were in a pool together and all of the sudden I ripped her hair out and started hitting her and trying to drown her. It has been haunting me all day, and making me feel guilty, and like she's mad at me for having the dream. It's making me feel so bad. Could this dream mean anything? Is she mad at me for having it? How can I not feel so bad about it. Should I feel bad? (link)
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to me it sounds like you are subconsciencly feeling guilty for her death. maybe you got in a fight before she died or things ended on bad terms? maybe nothing bad happened before she passed away but you still feel guilty for what happened because you're her friend and you feel like you should have stopped her.
either way, it is not your fault at all. it was her decision, and nobody else but her could've made it. you should NOT feel bad because you didnt have anything to do with it. it sounds like you still miss her even though you said you're already over it. i would think it'd take more time to get over something that horrible, and even if you convinced yourself you're over it, maybe you arent.
just try to think that shes probably in a better place now (depending on what you believe in) and remember her for the good friend that she was, and all the good times you had together.
hope i helped :)
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i got my period (not my first) two days before school starts and now my face just broke out i use proactiv and i had been using it once a day because it was drying so can i go to twice a day just for the time that i have my period? (link)
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i only use it once a day too, but if you do want to use it twice a day, i would reccomend using a moisturizer so your face wont dry out.
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ok so i turned 16 in august and my boyfriend is about to turn 18 in december...so will that make us...like illegal?
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it's only illegal if you have sex.
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Ok my boyfriend and I have been together for a year now. I don't think that our relationship is sex based but sometimes it does seem like it. Everytime I go to his house we end up having sex. And he tells me that it is part of the relationship. Now don't get me wrong. I want it as much as he wants it. And we both try to hold ourselves back but it obviously isn't working to well.I just don't know how to avoid it other than just avoiding him as well.We both love each other very much and we promised to marry each other after college. And we already have promise rings. Please help me. I don't want this to just be a sex based relationship. But how can i avoid it and IS this a sex based realationship??
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you'll be able to tell if you hold off from sex one of the times you go over there. if he gets pissed off that you dont want to fool around than obviously he is expecting too much, because as much as you love eachother, and when you get married, you're not going to feel like having sex every single night. if you're tired or something you dont want to get in silly fights over that.
however if you do refrain from sex for a night and he seems fine with it than you can guess that wants more than that. do other things to remind you of when you first started going out, and when a kiss was all you needed to make you smile for the rest of the night.
now i sound like a poet or something lol..but i do hope it works out!
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Okay..Its September 3, 2006. And Im 14 and I have been working on my weight. Im a female and i weigh over 200 pounds. Yes, i know thats really bad. Okay..I want to lose 100 pounds before 9th grade summer, which is summer of 07. I have this drink in the morning which is grapefruit juice and water mixed and i usually have water or crackers at lunch and then when i come home i have more and more water and have little snacks here and there. Do you think I can lose 100 pounds before 9th grade summer if I keep this up?
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you would probably die if thats what you ate for one single year. you're missing out on protein and vegetables...and also fruits...but the others are more important. you need to eat healthy and actually do some physical activity because i didnt read anything up there saying you would walk or job or do tennis or anything. there is no way you can loose 100 lbs in a year if you just eat water and crackers and dont excersize.
when you stop eating how much you usually eat, your body tyinks its starving and saves all the food you ate in the past day for body fat instead of burning it off. that gives you about 5 lbs. it also burns off calories slower, so that if you actually were starving, you would last longer. that'll add about another couple of lbs in a week.
do yoga or stretches, and walk for at least fifteen minutes a day. as for eating do something like this.....
breakfast- granola bar, and that juice thing you mentioned
lunch- carrot/celery sticks,slices of cheese, peanut butter and crackers, water, pretzels
dinner- vegetable stir fry with pasta, milk, and then for dessert have fruit or something.
you can loose the weight if you really want to, but you need to make sure you eat protein (cheese, fish, peanut butter) and vegetables... and dont forget to excersize either
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