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my friend & my other friend, are in a HUGE fight. The one girl.. lets call her Candy, ahha. well here, let me explain a little bit of her past before i continue...
She dated a guy, named steve. well, they broke up.. like last week. So, now steve, likes me & candys bff, Cassandra. & cassandra said i don't know. So, now candy is all mad at cassandra, because cassandra likes candy & was saying all this stuff like.."its not fair, i've never even had a boyfriend & you & stacy (me) have had like 10." so we were like, umm ok.
So then, is she technically saying that she only wants to date him for a boyfriend?
& thenn anyways, also cassandra talks behind candys back like a TON. i mean like all the time. so we told her so now she says she can't trust casssandra anymore.
& all this stuff.
i feel bad that they are not going to be friends anymore. because candy is usually a total pusshover & shes pretty serious about this.. soo, is there anything i can say or do?
&.. about cassandra wanting to date steve.. well, i was thinking, "all is fair in love & war." even though were only in 8th grade, does that nesscarily still like count? because like candy & cassandra aren't very like... mature, mature. i'm like smarter then them when it comes to these things.. but i don't know exactly what to say for this one.
so any help, on like any tiny bit of this, would be GREATLY appreciated.
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I'll tell you this both of those girls are just trying to act out. Be popular be heard and be seen. So just ignore them if they are true friends like u say they are im in the 8th Grade too and I've seen it a doen times before they'll make up on they're own and if not let that be their problem not yours. All they're doing ias putting each other down anyway, you say they're not very mature right but you are then be mature enough to step away and keep your eyes on the prize.
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Hey. Yes, this is waaaay too much drama for eighth grade over some guy. I don't understand why Candy is mad at Cassandra if her and Steve already broke up. It sounds as if she's jealous to me so give Cassandra a break because she's right, it's not fair. Now if Steve mistreated Candy then yes, Cassandra should be like screw him he was mean to my best friend. Oh but the fact that Cassandra talks about Candy isn't right either but maybe she doesn't understand why she can't go out with Steve. Just don't talk about either one and you will be fine. Try to bring them back together and have them both apologize to eachother. I hope this works, please give me feedback my friend :-).
Chrissie
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aww 8th grade drama, been there done that. when i was in 8th something like that happend to me, i choose to date the guy tho... I screwed up, we date'd a few weeks, then i lost intrest, and me and my [[old]] friend, still arnt on good terms.
Also, your giong to be in high school soon enough, then new and IMPROVED people, i would say tell Cassandra, and remind yourself that friends are forever, Boys are for fun. [:
Hoe's before Bro's. good luck.
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So basically you are letting a guy break up your friendship. Just choose another guy or wait sometime for them to get over it. Tell them you are never going to let a guy come in between you again. Try and get your friends to talk to eachother.
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you are having way too much drama to be in 8th GRADE. none of this matters. do you think they'll actually be going out with this steve person in another couple of monthes????? tell them to get the hell over themselves and stop acting like 25 year olds, and to act themselves, 13.
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