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13/f there is this guy we will call him "Fred". At a party I went to my friend found out that Fred liked me. My friend is really good friends with Fred, but I am not. My friend asked me if i would go out with Fred. I replyed that I would like to get to know him better before we went out. He felt rejected, and interperted it as me saying, get away from me you freak," but thats not how i meant it. I know he is going to ask me out, and i really do want to get to know him, who knows maybe i'll satrt liking him. He does not have a screename and doesn't pick up his cell. He is in one of my classes, and i don't want to talk to him in front of a lot of people, what can i do to get to know him better and convince him that I really do want to get to know him and i wasn' just saying that to get him away. Any tips aprreciated. Thanks
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The best way to get to know him is to talk to him, and to talk to him you got to let him know that you would like him to answer his phone to you or meet up after school with you.
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Try going out on a date. DUH! Not to be mean or anything but thats not called going steady. You date to get to know eachother better. Go out for a shake or to lunch and a movie.
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ok, well if you want to get to know this person better then why dont you give him your # at the end of class? just write it on a piece of paper and give it to him saying for him to call you today. sence he wont answer the phone, then its probly better if he called you. then u guys can talk and everything will work out fine. if hes not intrested then at least you made a new friend! but if he says yes, then think about the choice you want to make.
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I understand your situation. It's hard to talk to people in school with a lot of people around. Have a talk with him. Tell him that you are sorry he misinterupreted (is that how that's spelled??) you, but that you would truthly like to make plans to hang out-just casual at first. Then make plans for a day and time you would defintely be able to make. If it's right after soccer pracitice or half an hour before your favorite tv show comes out, it might not be a good idea to schedule to meet him then. A good time to hang out might be a weekend when you have no plans. The worst thing would be for you to accidently miss hanging out with him and then he might think that you really dont like him. Always remember to return his calls and make plans again. Hope I helped.
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since he won't answer his phone or talk online, which would probably make you feel more comfortable, you just have to approach him in person. don't bring a friend along with you, as it can make guys feel uncomfortable. also, don't go up to him when he's with his friends and talk to him. if he's with his friends, but nothing is big is going on, ask him if he'd talk to you and pull him to the side and tell him you did NOT mean 'get away' of whatever and that you want to get to know him better. good luck =]
in reply to your feedback comment;
it's good that you're doing it online. as for what to say, i really don't know. bring up the party and ask what he thought when your friend told him your answer. after he tells you, tell him what you really meant. then go on about wanting to get to know him. and such. if you need anymore help, OMGFATFACEE is my aim screename =]
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