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hi my name is angie
i am 18 my b day is on oct 28
i have brown hair n hazel eyes
i love to give advice n help people!

E-mail: angita1028@yahoo.com
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Age: 18
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Okay, ONLINE, I've been talking to this guy for at least 2 years. He is the sweetest, greatest guy. But I ONLY have talked to him online, and the phone. And believe me, he's no 50 year old man.:P Well, for like the first year I talked to him, I liked him so much. I even got jealous if he talked to another girl. And, turns out, he liked me too. Just..both of us never said anything. Which totally sucks, because things could've been so differet! :( But, my problem is that I still like him. I love him, hell. I do..but I think he's over me. In his mind we're still just really best friends, but I want to be more. If I tell him, he'll probably be freaked out..cause, well, he prob. thinks I'm over him, too. But..noo..=/ (link)
tell him how u feel! cuz if not ur gonna always wonder wat if.. maybe u should try to meet n then tell him in person! but i think its best for u to tell him how u really feel! gud luk xoxo angie


Hey. Um, I'm 15/f. Yesterday I was hanging with my friend, and we were talking, and all of a sudden she leaned over and kissed me! I'm not a lesbo, but we made out for, like, two hours. We started doing REALLY heavy stuff. I love guys, but I was bored and it was kinda fun to play around with her. So today she came over and she said that she loves me. It's wierd. I think she's a lesbian, but I'm not. So I told her I loved her too b/c I kinda had fun letting her feel me up. What do I do?

Sarah123 (link)
hey.. well if it didnt bother u n u enjoyed it then u mite not b a lesbo but u can lyk guys n gurls.. i have a friend tat has a boifriend but she does things wit gurls.. or maybe ur not bi.. every1 sumtime in their lyf lyks to xpierement! maybe tats wat u did.. n e thing else just lemme noe.. gud luk.. xoxo angie


i like someone very much.but i moved from his school last year. i have his phone # but i dont know if i should call him beacause my bf thinks that he might of moved. what do i do??? (link)
CALL!! u neva noe! go 4 wt u want always! gud luk xoxo angie


why do i like someone until they like me, and then i stop liking them. then as soon as they stop liking me, i want them back again. am i afraid of commitment or whats up? (link)
the thing is... is that u prob. want a bf.. so once u find out tat sum1 lyks u.. u noe theres a possibility to have one.. so u kinda try to find the gud things in them n tell urself tat u lyk them.. but after a while u realize tat its not wat u want.. tat useto always happen to me.. wat i did was just lyk the person i lyked.. if i fould out sum1 lyked me then w.e if at the sec. i lyked them then ok.. but i didnt force maself.. n then u want them bak wen they dont lyk u cuz u noe no1 else lyks u and u just rather have sum1 then no1 at all! n e thing else just ask.. gud luk.. xox angie


I want to know some good pick up lines to use on people. Thanks~! (link)
well if ur a guy.. girls dont really like pick up lines.. its old n they think its korny.. its better to honestly look them in the eye n tell them how u really feel.. lyk saying ur beautiful or things lyk tat... if ur a girl DO NOT use pick up lines.. its the guys job to make u feel special.. gud luk xoxo angie


Does black really match with anything? (link)
black mathces with every color in the rainbow! so yea it matches wit everything!


i wanna have sex b4 i'm 15...sum of my friendz tell me 2 wait, what do i do? (link)
i think u should have sex wen ur ready to have sex.. n wen u find the rite person.. dont do n e thing ur gonna regret! n dont let ur friends pressure u into n e thing u do wat u gotta do! gud luk xoxo angie


i recently saw my best friend (we'll call her A) and with my other best friend(B) like we are all best friends, and the other day B was showing me all the things that A gave to her for birthdays and halloween, and A didnt get me anything for her birthday, while i got her two very expencive pant that i had to return because they didnt fit! and i always give her(A)a ride to the mall and i even pay for stuf like i would spend 20$ on her when ever we go out because i buy her pop corn and everything! and then one day we went to the mall and we saw buy one get one free, and i took the one free and everyday she bugs me about it and says that its not fair! i realy don't want to be her friend but i don't know! i feel like she is the worst person i ever met! how can i tell her this!

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sry to say but all of u are basing ur relationship on material things.. n a friendship shouldnt b lyk tat.. a friendship is to have fun to talk to sumone about things n to hand out.. not to buy eachother things.. u cant really tell her n e thing b cuz its not really n e 1's fault.. i think all of u r just battling to see who buys the other more.. try to work on tat.. gud luck.. xoxo angie


ok well here's the thing i think my best friend likes my ex... and honestly i have to be straight up but i obvioulsy still have feelings for him and still really care about him but i kno my bestfriend likes him because she keeps talking about him and keeps saying how sweet he is and i kno the both of them flirt... and also if the both of them went out i would b really shocked and i guess upset.... but haha here's the other thing my ex's gf is kinda not into him that much and well i mean i dunno wut to do... sumbody help!!!! (link)
well u mite still have feelings for him but the past is the past.. u gotta move on.. tell ur friend tat it bothers u.. and u think its not rite.. but dont ruin a friendship for an x boifriend it aint worth it! gud luk xoxo angie


Hey I need advice um..i like this 12 year old girl and im 16 should i go outwith her because she likes me i only know her bout 8 weeks already we barely talk when we talk we see at other at dances i love her so much i kiss her on the first time we meet (link)
well she does seem pretty young but if u lyk her and she makes u feel happy then just go for it.. but dont break her heart cuz there could b sum friends tat will make fun of u but remember its wat u want n u shouldnt wry about wat other ppl think.. but it really seems lyk u lyk her so just go fo it! gud luk xoxo angie


there is this guy that i went out with for about a week before school ended...when we broke up he said that he liked me but he didnt "like me like me" and he said he just wanted to be freinds. Well i still really like him a lot. we live on the same lake so i see him almost everyday, but i never get a chance to talk to him. the only chance is online...or when school starts. i have tried to get over him, but i just still really like him...so what do i do? (link)
its hard to get over guys u really lyk.. u can keep tryin talk to him n tell him how u feel.. but it seems as tho hes not redy to have a gf.. he likes u as a friend.. try just meeting other ppl.. im pretty sure ull find tat rite guy soon! lots a luk xoxo angie


ok im 14, im a girl. if i like a guy i never do anything...mabye flirt a lil bit but other than that i would always wait for the guy to make the first move...but now i feel like all my freinds always get the guys...but they never do anything..so what do i do? (link)
try to b more agressive.. flirt more and sho the guy u lyk him.. n sumtimes its best to make the first move instead of waiting for it! dont b shy and go get wat u want! gud luk xoxo angie


Ok I like this guy who is two years younger than me. Is there something wrong with that :( (link)
not at all.. if u lyk him n hes ur type n he makes u happy then tats all tat matters.. well gud luk xoxo angie


i only have a few real friends that i like to spend time with and 2 of them are going away for the rest of the summer...how do i meet new people so that i won't be bored to death?? i was thinking about getting a job to keep me busy - would that help me meet people? (link)
gettin a job could help u meet ppl.. but it is pretty hard gettin a job.. try callin friends tat u arent tat close wit n maybe u could chill.. but hang in there summer is almost over! xoxo angie


my dad raped me. should i tell my mom, he said he would hrt me if i did. what do i do? thanx, gracie (link)
u should definitly tell ur mom.. tats way serious.. n he said tat so u wont tell but he aint gonna do nuttin.. tell sum 1 quick b4 he does it again! gud luk xoxo angie


I'm a great advice columnist but i guess every advice person needs some advice as well.

Ok so about a month ago my sister and my brother in law came to visit us and i was sleeping (it was night time) and I remember waking up for my brother inlaw touching my leg. I didnt think much of it but after that I kept on thinking about it. Well i was at their house and last night he said he was sorry, and i didnt know what he was talking about and i was like for what and hes like I touched you in a place that you shouldnt have been touched by me (higher than my legs) I dont know what to do! because I mean I dont think he was doing it for more than a sec cuz i think i woke up right away but I dont want to tell my mom and dad because my dad would kill him and they would say something to my sister and then my sister and him would probably get a devorice and my sisters really happy. I mean that was the first time but I still cry about it like i feel so violated and i dont know what to do. I cant sleep cuz i think about it. All I do is cry about it. Please help me please!

I promise i'll rate a 5 no matter what! Atleast your trying to help me. (link)
i think u should say sumthing no matter what cuz no one deserves to b disrespected in tat way especially from sum1 ur family trusts.. there is a possibility tat he could do tat again.. n u really gotta talk to sum1 about tat.. gud luk xoxo angie


is it ok that i like older guys?? they are more mature and cuter in my opinion. i was wondering is this ok?? (link)
its ok to lyk older guys but not all older guys r mature n not all older guys want girls tat r younger 4 a relationship.. so u gotta b careful.. but as long as u find the rite guy then its all gud! gud luk xoxo angie


hey i didnt no wat to put this under. but i need help. is it wrong to wish that u wouldnt wake up in the morning. or widh that u were dead. and if so then how do i stop thinking like that. i feel like everybody hates me and that if i was gone would ne body care! i no i shouldnt but i do and rite now i just want to leave. plzzz help me how can i stop thinking like this? (link)
i have thought tat alot.. but thats a problem becuz it could lead to other things.. try to fix ur problems n try to think or do the things tat make u happy! if not rite in a journal everything u feel.. n alot of tyms it helps to cry about it becuz after u cry it feels lyk u take it all out.. n talk to sum1 who u trust n sum1 tatll help u n tatll understand! if n e thing im me or e mail me! gud luk xoxo angie


ok im 16 and i am pretty in shape. i am not extremely ripped but i have a nice figure. ive done a million sit ups and i know that i have a 6 pac just EGGING to pop out, but i need to lose a little bit of fat on my stomach for it to show a lot. whats a good, fast way to lose just a little bit of weight so that my abs will show a lot more? (link)
running helps alot.. if not just keep doing ab work..


I have a very bad head ache right now. It hurts all behind my left eye. I've taken two extra strength Tylenols, but they don't seem to be helping. Is it safe to take more then 2 within 4 hours even though the bottle does not recommend you to? Are there any other solutions out there to save my brain from splitting in half? (link)
after taking the pill its best to lay down.. laay on ur stomach n close ur eyes n 4get about everything.. dont move alot! if later its still bad den just take two more.. hope u feel better.. xoxo angie




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