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Hi there. Please feel free to ask me questions on here of Any sort. Drop one in my inbox and I will for sure get back to you a.s.a.p.!! I will Always answer you :) so don't worry about sounding weird or anything. I'm always open to talk to anybody!Oh yah and if anyone wants to know anything about me feel free to ask!
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Ok well I have been getting discharge for a pretty long time (maybe over a year or a year and a half) and I started getting underarm hair around last May. Is this ok? Any ideas when I'll get my period? I want to be prepared for when I do so I can have my feminine needs :) Thank you!
Just keep pads and/or tampons around and whenever you notice blood put one in. The first time you get it, it will only be a little bit of blood. Don't worry. ♥
My mother is forcing me to join a gym of some sort, and she wants me to join "weight watchers".. I was wondering if any one knew like what you do at these meeting things. Thanks :)
My mom is in weight watchers. I know that they have weighing in sessions where they weigh you and track your progress. Weight watchers seems like a great program. Its safe, healthy, and not too restrictive. You get to eat whatever you want and they don't put you on "special meals". You just keep track of what you eat and they give you a list of the foods with points. For example higher caloried foods would have a higher point, and low calorie foods have low points. The goal is to get fewer points! Also remember to exercise and stay fit! ♥
hey i think that i'm talented i just don't know what to do!! lie i'm taking dance and i did voice and soon acting. do u think i have what it takes, and do u know any acting agencies??
i know i might sound emo but i'm desperate to become famous!!! i've always wanted to be but i can't decide. then i decided i really love acting, alot!! soo i just want to know how i can get there!! thanx P.S i rate high!!
There's no way to judge if you have what it takes because you have to be a Good dancer, Good singer, and Good actor. Some people don't know if they're good or not. Record your voice and see if it sounds good. Continue taking lessons. Video tape your dancing and critique yourself to get better. Continue taking dance classes as well. Push your self when you dance and stretch. Don't settle for what you Can do now, strive for what you Could do later on. Acting- take as many drama classes as you can. Take it in school and also outside of school. Acting agencies vary from location to location so I don't know where you live and can't help you w/ that!!! My drama teacher is Wonderful and really pushes us so if you'd like any more tips on acting leave one in my inbox. I'm also a dancer if you need any tips on that. I don't do voice though :( sry hun! ♥
this question pertains mostly to girls
alright f/15 here i was just wondering about how long can u masterbate without totally exploding? like for me im usually only masterbating for like 10-30 seconds and i want it to last longer!please answer back@
Maybe you should do it more often. That way you will get used to it and it will take longer to reach that "explosion". Only 10-30 seconds? How do you do it? Well, then you are probably just getting used to the feeling. Since its a new feeling it is most likely unusual and you get excited easily. ♥
I have a boyfriend and he's really sweet, but he dosen't live near me really.There's this other guy who goes to my church & today I told him I liked him & he likes me.I'm going to tell my b/f that I really don't feel a connection between us but I feel really bad about it.And when I found out he liked me, he wrote my name in a heart on his arm...& now I'm going to break up with him!¿!
What's wrong with me!¿!Plus my friend told me to trust my gut not my heart because your gut is a gift from God. But I'm having Second thoughts.Did I do the right thing¿¿¿
If you don't like your boyfriend anymore, the only fair thing is to tell him the truth. Why would you want to lie to him and be with him when you like someone else. If you do care about him you'll tell him the truth. This doesn't mean tell him that hes gross and you hate him (haha) it just means give it to him lightly and try to remain friends. ♥
ok there is this guy i like named Chris, and i love him so much, and we have talked a lot and all. but i asked him out and he said "no". but i got so attached to him, that when he turned me down i started to take razors and cut my arm, and i still do. and i want to stop but it helps to controll pain. how do i stop?Note:i am 14/female. i rate 5 to anyone who answers!
First, get rid of anything that you used to cut (Razors, knives, anything). Second, write out your feelings in a journal or talk to someone so that you don't have anger or hurt built up inside. Third, realize that there are other people out there besides him and he isn't the right one for you if he doesn't love you back, there are other people who will love you. Fourth, seek help from an adult. ♥
Also remember that this will only add pain into your life later on even though you think its helping to ease. Cutting is not a solution to a problem, its only a scar to remind you of past troubles. It's up to you to change.
i saw this shirt yesterday that says "hardcore prep" from abercrombie and fitch.. and i really want it.. but its like.. a year old.. so.. does anybody know where i can get last years clothes? like.. any good websites? tHaNkS iN aDvAnCe!!
They don't sell it at Abercrombie & Fitch anymore but you could try Ebay. Otherwise I think you are out of luck :( Sorry! ♥
i have this friend named amy, she always brags how skinny she is and if shes one pound over she says shes fat. all my friends say im to skinny, but i think im fine. amy always jokes around with me , like saying " your fat..and stuff. and it really makes me mad. i told her how i felt many times, but its like she forgets and does it so often.now my friends are saying i look too skinny. what should i tell amy.
Your question is a little confusing. What are you really asking? Because on one hand you are saying that you are mad at your friend for calling you fat. On the second you keep mentioning how your friends are now saying you are too skinny. What should you tell Amy??? I guess just tell her how you feel. Tell her to stop calling you fat because your not and don't enjoy her joking around about it. Just relax though, some people are just like that and it annoys everyone but they don't change. She's prob. just jealous
I am 15.recently my best friend said he likes this girl. he talks about her alot! I think its cute! but anyway. Recently he has said he has lost feelings for her and that he likes someone else. Ive known him for about 8 years and ever since then hes always told me who he likes and suddenly he wont! In class he'll say things that kind of lead me on to think that he may like me. like...randomly say i love you and he jokingly asked me to marry him (in the future of course!) now...am i jumping the gun or does he like me?!? HELP PLEASE!
I think he likes you, from what you have said... unless he has always acted this way. A similar thing happened to me a couple years ago where my best friend did the same thing. He wouldn't tell me who he liked but it was really obvious from the things he said the things he told me about her. What I did was make a code name for her (a fake name) that we both knew meant the girl he liked. Then I would jsut be like so did you see codename today? And he would say ya she was wearing her hair diff I liked it. And I would be like wow I wore my hair differently today too. It just became really clear that it was me. Of course, you could always just make him tell you but this way is another way to find out. ♥
Im sorry you guys, but I noticed that a LOT of youngins say they love theyre boyfriend or gf...so I was wanting to know, what do you guys consider love...because 13-16 is really young, i dont know I could be wrong, but what do you consider love??
I don't think that most 13-16 year olds find love but I do believe that some do. Love is different for everyone, there is aboslutly no definition that goes for everyone. It's just what you want to believe it is and what you are capable of feeling. For kids and teenagers a lot of time they Believe they are in love, but they're not. And who cares? As long as they're not getting into trouble... let them think it. They will realize later on that they didn't, or maybe they did.
~Follow your ♥~ hehe ♥
wow okay well im 14 and im not OVERWEIGHT but im on the high level of where people my age are suppose to be i mean im not skinny but im not fat like ...i just got a little gut.but im in a lot of active thigns..over summer...but during winter i dont do any thing and i hate it ..im usualy on 3 softball leagues and then voelleyball so i loose weight from there..any idea's? PLEASE ...
Run on the treadmill, do pushups and sit ups, join a dance class, do yoga, anything you can get involved in!!! Take care! ♥
my sisters are so pretty i just feel like im not and i hate that...then i always feel fat to because there are girls in my class who are like size zeros and im like not a size zero im tall and i weigh a bit but what is the average weight of a 14 yr old who is like 5'3 and how could i spruce up my look ill rate if this really helps me thnx
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p.s. is this low self-esteem and how could i have good self esteem
Hey. Well first of all, I'm not 5'3" i'm much taller so don't worry about being too tall bc im a lot taller than you! And you can calculate your BMI to see the avg weight. Go to google and type in BMI calculator. Secondly, don't compare yourself to your sisters, beauty comes in all shapes and sizes and you are still blossoming into the person you will become. Everyone has low self esteem every now and then. Just focus on the good parts about you and make them stand out. For ex. if you have pretty eyes, play them up with your makeup (wear mascara and eyeliner, make them stand out!), etc. ♥
I`m more of a sexual type of girl. I haven't had sex or ever gave oral or had oral but i'm sexual in that kind of way. All my friends tell me I should date older guys because the way i am. My current boyfriend who i like alot isn`t perverted like I want him to be. I told him I don't mind him touching me or feeling me up or anything but he only acts like a perve at rare times. I want him to be more sexual. If i gave permission to any other guy even his best friends they would be all over me.. i just really don't get him and i know he wants to be sexual. Like during a movie he puts his hand up my shirt but it's not all the time, he worrys about making out with me more. I`m 13 and hes 12 turning 13 in February. Should i just date older guys in the future? Thnx for reading I give feedback.. xxOo
First of all, be grateful that your boy doesn't want to be a perve! That means he respects you, and you need to have respect for yourself as well. Don't date older guys so they will get in your pants, that's wrong and you are letting them use you. Think about how lucky you are. If you like this guy you can wait for him. If not, then do what you want but be careful and don't get into trouble. ♥
okay well what am i suppost to do when everyone keeps pressuring me and telling me its stupid for trying to stay in long- distance relationships. and im just so lost and lonely inside because my friends cant even see that im dying inside and it hurts really bad. and while everyone else is happy with there boyfriends and get to go to all the dances and b happy i just get to watch all by myself. i always wear a fake smile that no one can see through and i cant stnad it. what do i do?
Well I am going to be going thru the same thing at the end of the year because I might have to move. First of all, do what You want even if others pressure you and tell you it's stupid because You are the one who has to live with it. Second, I know waht you mean about lost and lonely. Start a diary or find someone you can discuss these feelings with on a day to day basis (a friend who understands, a parent, your bf, or even me). Letting things out will relieve you a little of those feelings. As for the dances, yes its true, your bf won't be there to have fun with you. But maybe you can come to an agreement that you are both allowed to go to dances with Friends as long as you don't do anything bad. For some people this isn't an option and at this point you have to consider what is more important. Having fun during your youth or staying with someone you care about. I can't make that decision for you, your friends can't, no one but you can. I suggest talking things out with your bf to see where he stands and how he is feeling on the subject as well. I'm sure he is having similar thoughts. ♥ write back if ud like and tell me if i helped. i'd love to help more.
ive become really depressed lately..bc of my weight...im five feet tall and i weigh 135. i dont think im fat but then again i dont know...i have big boobs and a butt..so that sometimes gets mistaken for fat also and makes me look bigger...can someone plz tell me how to get rid of all this weight? i dont have a gym memebership so i cant work out...any suggestions??
5" and 135 is not thin but I don't know if its fat either. If you don't think it is, then I'm sure its not. Everyone shows weight differently anyway. Like you said in your butt, boobs, and maybe even muscle (Which weighs more than fat). So don't be depressed, instead do something about it. Run laps, do crunches, eat healthier, and dress to your advantage. Wear black which is slimming and pants or skirts that flatter your figure.
hey this is for mainly guys unless there are any girls out there who play football- but i reallyyyyy love football and i am a girl and i want to be a coach someday- what do you think? could that ever happen?
I'm a girl but..most definatly. There aren't a lot of pro football coaches out there but you could be one of the first. Or you could coach highschool teams. You can do anything you want, its a free country and there are no rules against it! ♥
okay well i have dating this guy for about 2 years now and were perfect for each other hes my best friend and EVERYTHING and hes always there for me. But soon we started getting really really close like i was falling really madly in love, so i got scared if getting my heart broke so i told him i wanted to break up so we did..well a couple of days later i realized how stupid i was being so i was gonna call him and tell him how i really felt about him and how i had fallen for him pretty hard but before i could he started telling alot of stuff that his family did too him. and he was supposed to leave that following week to go live with his mom 300 miles away we talk ALL the time but i dont know what to do because i hurt soo bad and i want him to b here with me and no one understands how i feel. what do i do?
Hi babe. That sounds awful! I know what you mean about the close bond, I have a boyfriend that I have been with for a long time too and I am completely in love. And although I am scared of getting hurt as well, I have decided to live in the moment because I trust him and love him, and if things don't work out, at least I will have shared these special times with him. And I think you should tell him something like that. And tell him why you broke up with him and that it was stupid.
Now, there is nothing you can do about him leaving to go to his mom's because thats not in his control most likely. But maybe you can keep up a long distance relationship until he moves back or until you two get out of school which is probably soon because you sound somewhat old. I don't know if you are or not so I can't really help in that department (if you want to write back and tell me then I could help more). But I think the most important thing to do is be there for him and tell him how you really feel. Love like that is precious, not to say you can't find it again later, but still... write back. ♥
I have a girlfriend.I also have an ex.I went to the movies with ex.I still have fellings for my ex.Well any ways I went to the movies with my ex
and two of her friends.I thuogh we was not going to any thing because i have a girlfriend.So i did not do any thing with her for the first 30 mins of the movie.For some reason we started holding hands then 45 mins into the movie we stated to make out and now i have mixed emotions
I want to be with my girlfriend.I love my girlfriend.I also love my ex.now i dont no weather to break up with my girlfriend to go out with my ex or stay with my girlfriend.Please help me
Well you need to tell your girlfriend what happened before she finds out about it from someone else. And if you think she won't... think again. Then it's her choice whether she wants to stay with you but first you need to know what you want. You can't have feelings for them both because one will get hurt. You need to tell your girlfriend the truth, though. That you made out with her and you still kind of like her. Of course, your gf might not want to be with you but then at least you can be with your ex. Cheating is a complicated thing and I suggest you think about that next time you cheat. My long term ex bf cheated on me and broke my heart so I don't have a lot of patience with cheating. I'm sry if this didn't help much. But I think you know what to do. ♥
Okay,I'm goin out with this guy.And im starting to get sick of him pickin on me insted of loving me.Like the other day at a game he was like hittin my leg,i know hes just kidding.But its getting on my nerves..
It's probably his way of showing affection. Some guys are like that =/. Unfortunatly this flirting does suck for girls! Tell him how you feel, next time he hits your leg tell him you'd rather him hold your hand instead. Be open and tell him how you feel otherwise you'll end up being unhappy. ♥ if you need more help leave one in my inbox!
I'm always craving junk food. When it comes to self-control, I have none in the food category. If I have a bag of chips, I could probably eat the whole bag if nobody was there to stop me. I just get caught up in something else and eat continuously and I don't like when I do it. I need some ideas for (easy) snacks to make right at home (besides like fruits/vegetables). I don't want something that will take forever to make either. I will appreciate any good ideas!
Same thing with me! There aren't a lot of options other than fruits and veggies to take care of this problem other than health food snacks that are low in fat and calories but still taste good. Try to look for those in the grocery store they have tons! Also Rachael Ray has a great cookbook with fast snack ideas that kids at age 8 can make! So they don't take a long time. Maybe you could premake some on the weekend and refrigerate them and during the week you can take them out and eat them! ♥