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okay well what am i suppost to do when everyone keeps pressuring me and telling me its stupid for trying to stay in long- distance relationships. and im just so lost and lonely inside because my friends cant even see that im dying inside and it hurts really bad. and while everyone else is happy with there boyfriends and get to go to all the dances and b happy i just get to watch all by myself. i always wear a fake smile that no one can see through and i cant stnad it. what do i do?
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Well I am going to be going thru the same thing at the end of the year because I might have to move. First of all, do what You want even if others pressure you and tell you it's stupid because You are the one who has to live with it. Second, I know waht you mean about lost and lonely. Start a diary or find someone you can discuss these feelings with on a day to day basis (a friend who understands, a parent, your bf, or even me). Letting things out will relieve you a little of those feelings. As for the dances, yes its true, your bf won't be there to have fun with you. But maybe you can come to an agreement that you are both allowed to go to dances with Friends as long as you don't do anything bad. For some people this isn't an option and at this point you have to consider what is more important. Having fun during your youth or staying with someone you care about. I can't make that decision for you, your friends can't, no one but you can. I suggest talking things out with your bf to see where he stands and how he is feeling on the subject as well. I'm sure he is having similar thoughts. ♥ write back if ud like and tell me if i helped. i'd love to help more.
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