okay well i have dating this guy for about 2 years now and were perfect for each other hes my best friend and EVERYTHING and hes always there for me. But soon we started getting really really close like i was falling really madly in love, so i got scared if getting my heart broke so i told him i wanted to break up so we did..well a couple of days later i realized how stupid i was being so i was gonna call him and tell him how i really felt about him and how i had fallen for him pretty hard but before i could he started telling alot of stuff that his family did too him. and he was supposed to leave that following week to go live with his mom 300 miles away we talk ALL the time but i dont know what to do because i hurt soo bad and i want him to b here with me and no one understands how i feel. what do i do?
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? angel411 answered Saturday January 8 2005, 8:19 pm: Hi babe. That sounds awful! I know what you mean about the close bond, I have a boyfriend that I have been with for a long time too and I am completely in love. And although I am scared of getting hurt as well, I have decided to live in the moment because I trust him and love him, and if things don't work out, at least I will have shared these special times with him. And I think you should tell him something like that. And tell him why you broke up with him and that it was stupid.
Now, there is nothing you can do about him leaving to go to his mom's because thats not in his control most likely. But maybe you can keep up a long distance relationship until he moves back or until you two get out of school which is probably soon because you sound somewhat old. I don't know if you are or not so I can't really help in that department (if you want to write back and tell me then I could help more). But I think the most important thing to do is be there for him and tell him how you really feel. Love like that is precious, not to say you can't find it again later, but still... write back. ♥ [ angel411's advice column | Ask angel411 A Question ]
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