okay my name is amber and if u need help i can help you i love swimming shopping go to scary movies and funny and love movies i love hanging out with friends going swimming im 14 i love french fries lol
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i absoulty hate my dad. omg. like. i cant stand him. hes so anoyying, i mean, ive always hated him, and i tired telling my mom, and she tried to fix it, but it didnt work. anyways, i spent like forever cooking this one thing, and hes like it taste like shit. and im like omg. and my mom was like focing him to eat it. and then, he never listens to me, like i always told him to take my dog out with the leash. but he never listened, and my dog ended up dieing, because of him. if he would have listened to me, it wouldn't of happened. and hes just so stupid sometimes, anything i do, is never good enough. & then for like all of 7th grade, i like failed all my classes, just to see what he'd do. and then i decided that was stupid, because im smart, and the quicker i can get out of the house and away from him, the better. and all he cares about is my brothers, and there stupid sports. but, when i was in cheerleading, and beauty pagents, he never even wanted to go. i mean yeah sure i know that would be boring for a guy, but still. anyways, my point is, how do i ignore him? or what can i do? (link)
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ok talk to him have a father and daughter talk one on one ask him if you wanna go to the movies together but i promise if he ever dies on no matter what age you are you will feel like crap and wish he never died and love him but that can be 90 years from now but remember he loves you no matter what but he cant show it hes a guy but try to talk to him and like try out for basketball or something and see if he goes but try to talk to him if it doesn't work then ignore him and just mind your own business hang otu iwth your friends go to school and get good grades and just dont get in his business and you will be fine hope i helped
love amber
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i like my best friend ashley staten and ive known her for four years. were really close and i liked to be closer. she already made a decission,but i cant get my mind off of her... what should i do? should i make a move? i mean every guy she has dated has never cared or thought about her like me, and im not just saying it. i feel this way... shes an inspiration to me.... (link)
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ok well you should flirt with her a little more and then call her and tell her how you feel about her or if you cant say it in person write her a note and tell ehr how you really feel because she will understand and maby feel the same way but scared to tell you tell me how it works
love amber
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Im thirteen,Female.
I had a boyfriend, but broke
up with him because we had
litterally hadnt talked on
the phone for maybe twice in
a month in a half relationship.
I think my heart is telling
me that "He's a amazing guy
[True] and that i want to be
the best of friends with him"
But how do i know if thats not
just something to conclusion of
mine and his relationship. Since
we both say we still like eachother.
And i love you and what not.
Do i stay with this feeling,
and let him know?
Or try and keep thinking about
it, even though i feel like
i dont know what to do, at all.
What do i do? (link)
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let him know because if u still like him tell him and stuff but if you had an weird relationship and broke up with him do not go back out with him make best friends with him but if you truly love him tell him that you do and if you guys get back together make sure it works but tell him
im sorry if i answered it wrong or read it wrong
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What can i do to stay away from fattie foods, and keep myself from eating when im bored?
I would like to loose around 5 lbs
Also i eat really fast, how can i slow down a bit? (link)
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ok first about stop eating so much try to have fun even when your bored right a note on your computer saying dont get food but when you most likly try to have fun or wach tv you wont think about food and if that doesnt work and your hungry when your bored get fruits and how i stopped eating fat foods i like had my mom by fruits for me but try not to eat so much and when you r eating fast rememeber to slowdown like eat really slow and stuff hope i helped
♥ Amber
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everytime me and a bunch of my friends always get together i always end up feeling left out. i try to like talk and talk in their conversations but i just cant or they end up ignoring me. and i dont know how to amke new friends. what should i do? (link)
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tell them that you feel left out everytime you go with them but like start your own conversation and then then will go on with you and then you wont be left out
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my friends are starting to get so bitchy and i cant handle it. like i have problems of my own to deal with this. how do i deal with it like what do i say. my friend has been acting so mean to me and my other friend thinks theres something wrong. how do i control myself and ask her nicely whats worng? (link)
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well call her ask her whats wrong?? why r you mad at me what did i do and then when she anwseres it tell her sorry or if she didint tell her sorry for whatever you done but if u get in a fight tell her i don't wanna start a fight i will call you later
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Umm I'm 15.... I know how old guys have nose hairs come out of there noses But I dodn't see any one my age have em out
Well.... I have nose hairs growing out of my nose
Is that not normal for my age? (link)
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yes it is normal you are just getting it fast like some people get a mustsh or a beard or gray hair your age or older
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to get to the point i wanna have sex with this dude, itll be my first time im ready and all. i've thought it through but the only thing thats holding me back is i got these ugly stretch marks on my stomach and i guess im embarrassed by them i dont want him to see them. what can i do to get over this? (link)
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ok i got stetch marks on my side for some reason but go to the store and go get this streach mark stuff or tell him if he cares that you have streach marks on your stomach but most lickly he wont care you are ok
just do what you wanted to do with him and if he does care then he is a really picky boi but i promise he wont care about your sterchmarks most people did that with strech marks and they dont care or you can do it with your shirt on but you should let him know she you can feel better after you tell him
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i got a kitten like a little less then a month ago and she hates me. like i lleave her in her cage b4 i go 2 skool and when i take her out to feed her or play with her she bites me and just wants to run around my room. like how do i make her like me? like how can i show her i care? also, my mom is alergic to cats so my kitty has to stay in my room all day long and she stays in her cage and she isnt aloud to get out well only out of the cage but not out of my room and my room is starting to stink how can i make it not stink and what should i do about my cat? thanks bunches! (link)
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ok well in the morning try to pick her up while she is sleeping pet her and like ive her food and drinks and toys and just try to spend more time with your cat and kiss the cats head and stuff but i think the cat is scared of you so make it a bed or buy her a cat bed and cat nip lol and spend more time with her and abotu the stinking thing idk if it was a boy i would know but it isent
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ok so on myspace sometimes i see my friends default pictures and they have like 2 pictures like one on top of the other like 2 pictures stuck together as their default picture but they are both different how do i do that? thanks! (link)
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ok now i know ok i have a myspace to give me your myspace link then i will talk to you on there and then give me 2 of your pics you want then i will do it for you because its hard to explain
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two people other than me are involved in this situation:
-jimmy: ive talked to him for about 2-3 months over the computer. my friends know him so i know he's not a stalker or whatever. he's pretty cool, and i know he's liked me in the past.
-brent: other guy i've been talking to over myspace for the past week now. he's really cool and sweet, and i really want to get to know him outside of myspace. also, my ex-friend knows him, but i'd never talk to her about him because she likes him and already hates me. brent sends me sweet text messages like ily and stuff and im almost starting to like him:]
well.
jimmy one day noticed a comment on my myspace from brent. automatically, he IMs me and asks me how i know him. later, he goes on to tell me that he's really bad news, and that he's beaten up girls he's gone out with and has even killed someone! and i guess jimmy knows this because the girl he currently goes out with used to go out with brent. he told me that i can talk to him but i shouldn't get involved.
i don't really believe it cuz brent is such a sweet guy, but now i'm kind of scared to ever hang out with him. i know i'd bring friend's if i ever did but i'm still pretty scared. i don't know if jimmy is jealous for some reason or whatever.
who do i believe and what do i do?! (link)
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well, i dont know who to belive but if i were you i would ask brent if that was true or aks sombody hes went out with but i think the other guy is lying but i dont know because i never knew any of these people so u have myspace well idk if its his friend or whoevers friend then hes lying or he isnt but i dont know but i think you should ask him or ask one of his exs
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So I took her lunch seat today not on purpose but my friend took my seat. Who gets mad over that?! So my friends like FLIPPING out at me. And she gets my other friend to get on her side! WTF! And She has been IMing me all day trying to argue its so stupid she doesn't realize how much shes overreacting. If only she could realize it. 2 Of my friends so far cant believe she's not over it yet. She called me a friend stealer and starts believing my frien who NEVER tells the truth and she's the one who told me herself that she never tells the truth. And now she's sticking up for her. And Its to the point where I've been crying my eyes out. I didnt tell her, since I've been acting like i dont care (thats what she would want, for me to care) and she just didn't let me explain ANYTHING. Shes a fucking asshole. Shes a bitch and she doesnt even know it probably. I dont know what to do she turned a friend against me already and probably has more of it coming. I'm crying my eyes out because If i could just explain stuff. And hwo the fuck does she think she can call me stupid?! She fucking says the fight was MY FAULT! Like I decided my friend would take my seat, like I decided i was going to sit there JUST to get her mad, like I freakin decided she was gonna flip out at me . She knows I dont have the best grades right now because my grandma died a few months ago and some of the work I never got to hand in brought my grades down. So she used it against me! She said (the one she turned against me) that "L" doesn't get bad grades and is really smart and never stretches the truth (But she does) And I'm Mad at my friend and "L" now.
What do I do I am so upset! I dont know what to do at all pleasehelp (link)
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ok its probably the time of month for your little attention friend she wanted to get in a fight with you so u will feel bad and be sorry for her and she is trying to turn all your friends against you for that that is stupid but if she does then your friends arnt good friends if they r on her side anyways well call her in a couple of days and if shes still acting like that then tell her what the f
why r you acting like its such a big thing for me taking your seat and tell her that i said that she needs to quit trying to get all the attention because she shouldn't get mad over one little thing so just call her in a couple of days and see if she is still mad about it and you guys will probably be friends in like 3 or 4 days again but don't start a fight with her again it will just get it owrse
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hey im a guy,13, and im lanky for my age. i was wondering is there any way i can get bigger around my arms and legs. Im quite thin around my waist, legs, arms. the only part of me thats fine is my chest and shoulders. I play rugby so i need to get heavier. any ideas apart from eating shitloads of shit food? (link)
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lift weights and eat alot of chips and drink alot
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Ok, I am on a swim team, and I see my crush there every day. When we do kick sets, and we are in seperate lanes but they are next to each other, he will stare deep into my eyes until he passes me. He doesn't do this everytime, and not every day, just once in a while. We like never talk, although he is really talkative, and has no problems talking to girls. He teases me (playfully) once in a while, and will sometimes wrestle me at swim meets (we are all under one big tent). I never saw him doing this to ANYONE else, including to the girl you will read about later.
However, last year i asked him to this dance, as friends, and he said he will think about it, and it took him a week to finally answer me yes. it was really akward at the dance and at dinner.
Also, he USED to really like this girl (on the swim team, but she also went to his school) and he flirted with her sooooo much!!! So my logic is, wont he act the same around me as he had when he liked her? They went out, and broke up five months later. She is my friend, and i cant really let everyone know that i like him. he doesnt know i do either. (he is probably not sure if i like him, i flirt, but sometimes i just ignore him)
so does he like me? i've liked him for four years now, and this is really killing me. I dont go to his school. and i cant tell him i like him, he will probably get even more silent around me. =( (link)
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yes you can tell that he does well talk to him more and flirt with him more and like try to make him think you like him so he can ask you out or just ask
him if he wants to go to the movies sometime and just keep on going on dates and stuff or ask him to hang out and start talking to him alot
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all over the floor! he's not new, he's 5, and we've had him since he was a little puppy and he never used to do this. he's a little on the heavy side......anyone have any idea why he's randomly doing this? How can i make him stop? Thanks. (link)
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ok achully feed him so he wont starve
still when he does it say no well maby hes sick sence he started doing it and take him outside more but dont leave him outside for a long time not permatly but take him outside more and if he keeps on doing it maby its the dog food that he doesnt like or somthing is making hi sick so he started doiing that but maby if u take him for walks like every 3 days so he can be outside more but put him outside more and stuff
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there's this guy that i would love to date, and i'm pretty sure he'd love to date me too, there's just one problem--he has really bad acne. acne totally grosses me out, and i wouldn't want to be close to him or anything because of it. what would be a nice way of telling him to wash his face or use proactive every once and a while? (link)
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you shouldent say anything about washing his face to him or he will get mad and if u think acne grosses you out then dont date him and everybody gets acne its life and
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hey im a guy, 13. If you go onto this website theres a pic of me. Tell me if you like what i look like... www.advicepic1.piczo.com (link)
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yeah i do like what you look like
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man look im a real playa an all rite so me n mah nigga nick always playen girls so he introduced me 2 dis one girl because he told me she got lots o money so now its not bout dat i realy like her alot an all like alot alot i dont know wat 2 do please sum one help me (link)
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quit being a player and be nice to her go outside and look at the stars with her go drive her to a drive in buy her some flowers but dont act like you are addicted to her but go take her out to diner and stuff
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Summer is soon, and im wanting to loose a couple of pounds.
Its kind of hard for me, because i eat so much but im slimming it down.
Where im mainly looking for loosing weight is my thighs, and stomach.
Also i have a treadmill if that helps.
and also does bikeing help alot for thighs
:]thanks!
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yesriding your bike will help and try not to eat alot like when im bored i eat but if you go and hang out with your friends you wont get bored and you wont think of eating like one day i was bored so i called a couple of my friends and i had so much fun i didn't even think about eating but if u exersize everyday and eat a little less then you will get skinner in the stomach and thighs
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is it normal to grow hair on your boobs (link)
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yes it is normal if it is reallllllllllllllllly harry idk whats arong but if it has hair it is normal everybody gets it
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